I found this fourm while browsing some stories about people one day when I was feeling a bit off about my situation. I seem to have found some comfort here. I don't hate my belt, if you are interested you can read through my (kind of long and boring) posts
keyholders
i got a discord account, its visunwilds
OctaviaSunwilds from asia/oceania
Hello, may I ask where?
mina i dont want to be more specific for now
OctaviaSunwilds It seems very odd that you would allow someone you don't know to have control over your private parts. How would you ever be able to trust them? Shouldn't you find a boyfriend first and ask him to do it?
Susan i dont have a bf, im not much for dating, and im not going to immediately give them my keys or anything, if someones interested then ill talk for a bit and organise how itll work and see how i feel about them
@OctaviaSunwilds why can't your parent be a keyholder?
Laura i have a terrible relationship with my parents, and i dont want to involve my grandparents in anything close to that, i dont know if they would approve and i would rather not risk it
OctaviaSunwilds I would just be careful. There are lots of creeps out there. I would think it would be hard to find someone to do this if they didn't also want to be your BF.
Susan Good advice, though she never specified her KH would have to be male. (not that women can't also be creeps)
I am not familiar with the site she is using, but I assume there must be some kind of panic button or other emergency release mechanism.
pestulens I can't imagine any stranger doing something like this without the promise of something in return. In my opinion there are only 2 reasons to wear a belt. Like my sister and I do to prevent sex and provide safety or as part of sexual games, in neither case should a complete stranger be involved.
Not criticizing @OctaviaSunwilds, just asking that you use extreme caution.
OctaviaSunwilds i dont want to be more specific for now
Can you say Asia, or Australia, or New Zealand? Or somewhere else?
@Laura am i allowed to post a chaster link here?
OctaviaSunwilds As long as it's relevant to the forum