Maybe you should be more concrete about who you actually are. Are you male, female? Where are you from? Who are you as a person?

    Max9 im female, from asia/oceania, im probably a bit shy (if you cant already tell), but i like to think im fairly open when you get to know me! im interested in gaming, music, hiking, and reading/writing, and for nsfw stuff i like chastity and bondage mainly, i think im pretty vanilla and i might be asexual

        OctaviaSunwilds Ah 🤣

        I found this fourm while browsing some stories about people one day when I was feeling a bit off about my situation. I seem to have found some comfort here. I don't hate my belt, if you are interested you can read through my (kind of long and boring) posts

          OctaviaSunwilds It seems very odd that you would allow someone you don't know to have control over your private parts. How would you ever be able to trust them? Shouldn't you find a boyfriend first and ask him to do it?

              Susan i dont have a bf, im not much for dating, and im not going to immediately give them my keys or anything, if someones interested then ill talk for a bit and organise how itll work and see how i feel about them

                  Laura for the 99% of the population involving parents in own sexuality is an awful idea.

                      Laura i have a terrible relationship with my parents, and i dont want to involve my grandparents in anything close to that, i dont know if they would approve and i would rather not risk it

                        OctaviaSunwilds I would just be careful. There are lots of creeps out there. I would think it would be hard to find someone to do this if they didn't also want to be your BF.

                            Susan Yes, that's my point too. Trust your keys to a stranger from Internet if not the best idea

                            Milord for the 99% of the population involving parents in own sexuality is an awful idea

                            But not on this forum

                                Susan Good advice, though she never specified her KH would have to be male. (not that women can't also be creeps)
                                I am not familiar with the site she is using, but I assume there must be some kind of panic button or other emergency release mechanism.

                                    pestulens I can't imagine any stranger doing something like this without the promise of something in return. In my opinion there are only 2 reasons to wear a belt. Like my sister and I do to prevent sex and provide safety or as part of sexual games, in neither case should a complete stranger be involved.

                                    Not criticizing @OctaviaSunwilds, just asking that you use extreme caution.

                                        Susan In my opinion there are only 2 reasons to wear a belt. Like my sister and I do to prevent sex and provide safety or as part of sexual games, in neither case should a complete stranger be involved.

                                        The third is just money

                                          Susan I agree with you, better to be very prudent, but online key holding exist, @Damien for example do it