OctaviaSunwilds
You are silent a long time now. Can you give us an update? How are you doing now? Are you happy about the situation with your belt and kh? Has anything changed? Let us know.

    a month later

    @OctaviaSunwilds

    I guess we will not hear anything from Octavia anymore. On discord it looks like she no longer is friends or maybe she closed her account, I don't know. I do know she is visiting this forum now and then. Not hearing if she is okay worries me. She was not fully happy with her new real life kh because he didn't let her out of her belt anymore. But there is nothing one can do and maybe she doesn't want it for whatever reason.
    Hopefully @OctaviaSunwilds will let us know how she is doing and if she is okay.

      4 days later

      Found out that @OctaviaSunwilds still has her Discord account. It looks like she has blocked me which I cannot understand after all we went through. And no I did not bombard her with messages that might give her a reason to do that. When she got her new real life kh I asked if it was goodbye now? Her last message was: "We can still talk" and that was it. We know she has DID so maybe her brain works in a way difficult for others to follow. Why dispose contacts?

      I can only hope she will be happy now. Maybe one day we will hear of her again, maybe not.

      @OctaviaSunwilds if you read this let us know how you are doing. There are more people on this forum concerned about you.

        Padre That honestly sounds a lot like an extremely controlling/abusive relationship she rushed into, where this other person has immense power.
        I hope Iā€™m very wrong though of course

            Sasha
            I am afraid for that. There is nothing we can do. It is her life and she has to deal with it one way or the other. Hopefully she can call for help locally (police) if needed.

            An other scenario could be knowing she is 19 maybe she easily discard her contacts because she does not see the value. Or one of her five personalities decided to do so. Or her new kh doesn't like her to communicate with others and blocks them. Or she so much ashamed for what happened to her that she doesn't want to the world to know. Then it is better she tries to seek for help. It is all speculation.

            Let's hope for the best for her.

                Padre

                i think the problem is that because she is a bit mentally unstable, she can be easily manipulated and if someone doesn't mean her well, she might not realise it. i really hope we are wrong

                    Angelina
                    True. We can only wait and see if she will tell us what is happening and hoop for the best.

                      Seems @OctaviaSunwilds didn't block me but just deleted our friendship connection on Discord. Maybe she wanted to hide our conversation for her kh. Feels less bad than being blocked. I have sent a friendship request. Maybe she will accept it one day. We'll see. Now we have to wait until we hear something if that will ever happen. Hopefully she will tell what happened here on this forum one day.

                        Padre

                        let's hope for the best, if she accepts your friend request and writes you something, please let me know if she's okay. no detail, just if she's okay

                            a bunch of life stuff happened, ive moved out and i started a new dynamic with my roommate kind of recently, and thats going way better

                              OctaviaSunwilds
                              Glad to hear you are okay. I was really worried about you also because contact was lost.

                                OctaviaSunwilds im fine guys im just not online as much, lol

                                nice to read that you are doing well, i would also like to read how your new dynamic is developing with your key holder, but that is your decision šŸ™‚

                                  we have a points dynamic, pretty much the idea is i can do things to earn points (chores, self work kind of things, etc) and when i reach 100 points i can unlock to have a bit of me time for an hour. i dont think its all that balanced since it takes me a bit to get to 100, since every task only gives me 1-3 points and i can only do so many in a day, but its much nicer then my last one

                                  the rest of the alters are kind of on board. they cant just unlock whenever they feel since he has all the keys but everyone has their own safeword in case they get too uncomfortable, its just a rule that if someone else fronts and we aren't in the belt, we have to put it back on whenever they're comfortable

                                    OctaviaSunwilds and i can only do so many in a day

                                    approximately how many of these tasks do you get in a day, or in other words, what is the maximum number of points you can get?
                                    I admit, this is a very interesting system