we have a points dynamic, pretty much the idea is i can do things to earn points (chores, self work kind of things, etc) and when i reach 100 points i can unlock to have a bit of me time for an hour. i dont think its all that balanced since it takes me a bit to get to 100, since every task only gives me 1-3 points and i can only do so many in a day, but its much nicer then my last one
the rest of the alters are kind of on board. they cant just unlock whenever they feel since he has all the keys but everyone has their own safeword in case they get too uncomfortable, its just a rule that if someone else fronts and we aren't in the belt, we have to put it back on whenever they're comfortable
