Angelina why did you create a new introduction?

Because old one was too long and load took too much time

    Hi chastity lovers,

    I’m Sam. (Female, I know that name can go either way). I wear braided pigtails a lot hence the name “PigtailSam”. I’m married to my husband Mark and we have a daughter in college. I’ve come here to learn more about chastity since I think it would help my daughter not be so distracted and focus more on her college courses.

      PigtailSam Hi chastity lovers

      There may be people around here that love it. But there are also people who have to endure it because it was not their choice but they were offered certain benefits if they agreed to be locked in a belt. So the second group probably won't love it but endure it.

          PigtailSam we have a daughter in college. I’ve come here to learn more about chastity since I think it would help my daughter not be so distracted and focus more on her college courses.

          Jesus fucking Christ this place is a hot bed of depravity. Get to grips with reality people.

              Damien no, but I am faithful, married, and have a decent career, so there isn’t really a need to fix my sexual behavior.

                  Padre my daughter would be in the “endure it “ group if we did it.

                    Sin what would your suggestions be to help control a girl who spend way to much time with her boy friend, thinks about sex was to much and is failing out of college?

                        pestulens I have. She doesn’t want it. But she doesn’t want me to stop paying for college more. She knew if she didn’t improve her grades I’d either stop paying for it or we would do something drastic. I did tell her I was considering this option off she didn’t improve her grades. So far she hasn’t. She is a smart girl, but she isn’t trying because she is hanging out with her boyfriend all the time and probably haveingvsex.

                            PigtailSam

                            I think that the belt would only marginally improve your daughter’s behavior. If her boyfriend has half a brain he will find a way around it. And since she doesn’t want it anyway, I wouldn’t recommend wasting your money these things are expensive. Instead maybe talk her into psychological counseling, a good counselor would be a better use of money than a belt, but only if she is willing in either case

                              Laura I just asked her specifically. She said “it will be uncomfortable won’t it? I have sexual needs all the time. I can’t even think about not taking care of that whenever I want.” Then she said “you also know I have sex with ***** right? I don’t want to give that up”

                              Perhaps I should start a thread to discuss this? I don’t want to fill up the into page with conversations

                                  PigtailSam
                                  There can be various reasons for her behavior. puberty, spoiled, no awareness of the consequences of behavior, or mental problems. In the latter case you need a professional. You can outline a scenario what her future may look like if she continues as she does now. You can also outline a different scenario how you think there can be a better future for her and what you think what is needed. If you can't get to terms, it is probably time to call in a professional. He will undoubtedly also hold her a mirror ahead. That can be very confronting. She will then get the choice between a few options, continue or change. It may be that she is opposed to her parents, but from an outsider, the professional, maybe he/she can make her think. She will then probably get a cooling -off period of a few days, after which she will have to tell what it will be as far as she is concerned.

                                      Padre You can outline a scenario what her future may look like if she continues as she does now.

                                      There's a thread on the forum already she can read, probably worth showing her daughter.

                                        PigtailSam what would your suggestions be to help control a girl who spend way to much time with her boy friend, thinks about sex was to much and is failing out of college?

                                        Well not forcing a chastity belt on her under threat of being cut off for one.
                                        Let her crash and burn, and be there to help her pick up the pieces. But beyond making her aware of the consequences, she's presumably a legal adult, it's time she acts it and gets to experience the fallout of bad choices.