PigtailSam Damien no, but I am faithful, married, and have a decent career, so there isn’t really a need to fix my sexual behavior.
How can you expect her to accept something that you yourself reject, and for which she has no role model to follow? If you don't lead the way, who will help her to navigate the practical and emotional challenges that she will face? Who will be able to tell her "I understand" when she needs sympathy in adjusting to the feeling of constant restraint or the occasional urge to just not have something locked on her body?
And since you have your life together already and don't have the additional challenges that she faces, won't it be much easier for you to adjust to wearing a belt without a role model than it would be for her?
Also, have you really NEVER had a little fun by yourself?
Have you discussed this with your husband? Is he unwilling to hold your keys?
Here is an excerpt from a post by a mother who wears a belt and also has belted daughters. She's not a native English speaker so the grammar is imperfect but I think she gets her point across.
Tere Actually, we all need it, at least the women who believe in the values of chastity.
Along with the most obvious consequence of avoid sexual activity of women while carrying it, the belt also has other implications for our lives.
On the one hand, it makes us have to endure, at times, our needs, and to have to focus on other tasks, despite the imperative appetite of our body to surrender to pleasure.
And secondly, the combination of belt and beloved man, makes me a much more loving wife, and (Ines do not read this), I think my husband will have few complaints in more than 23 years of marriage.
Later in the same post, she also writes about why it is so important for a daughter to value what she will receive from a chastity belt, and the negative consequences if she doesn't.
Tere If chastity, mettle, or surrender are not values of the girl (who will have equally respectable ones), wearing a belt can only be a source of anger and grudge.
If you need to bribe/blackmail her into wearing a belt, it will be a disaster. The only way it will work (and I'm not at all convinced this is a good idea, but...) is if you can persuade her that it is truly in her best interest, that it supports her values and goals, and that you are there to help her feel understood and companioned on the journey by leading by example.
