PigtailSam what would your suggestions be to help control a girl who spend way to much time with her boy friend, thinks about sex was to much and is failing out of college?
Well not forcing a chastity belt on her under threat of being cut off for one.
Let her crash and burn, and be there to help her pick up the pieces. But beyond making her aware of the consequences, she's presumably a legal adult, it's time she acts it and gets to experience the fallout of bad choices.