Sara2001 That's not how it is working for us because sometimes something doesn't need to be written down to be forbidden or allowed. It always depends on the situation and it is acceptable that this means a little risk for me because I can be sure that Daniel is strict but fair.

i see it completely different, every situation can be included in a contract as a rule with permission or punishment. you have a pretty complex relationship and i think it would be very useful. i think it's good that you trust daniel a lot that he is fair, but i think it's pretty shortsighted

concerning the other points, it seems to be strict but ok 😉

      Angelina i think it would be very useful

      I think it would destroy the relationship. It would end in discussion about paragraphs and details.

      Daniel is in charge and sets my boundaries. It's not perfect but because I know his idea behind everything I can adapt this to any situation. I never had a situation where I felt unfairly punished for something I expected to be okay. At least after the lection I always agree that I should have known better, but that I don't realize anything before before the lecture is very, very rare. I am not sure it ever happened with Daniel only a few times with my father in 18 years.

          Sara2001 I think it would destroy the relationship. It would end in discussion about paragraphs and details.

          apparently this system does not work for you 🙁

          if my discussions about contracts would destroy the relationship, then this person knows me too little

            Sara2001 Yes, I just have to ask permission.

            Still very restrictive.

            Sara2001 Outside of his parents house I don't need a permission to talk.

            Good you are mr efre to talk,generally!

            Angelina i see it completely different, every situation can be included in a contract as a rule with permission or punishment. you have a pretty complex relationship and i think it would be very useful. i think it's good that you trust daniel a lot that he is fair, but i think it's pretty shortsighted

            I think @Sara2001 is right.It would be way too complex and won't cover any situation,due to the big number of rules they use.Some guidelines are better,in this case,I think.

            Sara2001 I think it would destroy the relationship. It would end in discussion about paragraphs and details.

            I think too it would be hard to write it.

            Sara2001 that I don't realize anything before before the lecture is very, very rare

            Good.You could felt unfairly punished in such case.Even if,in my case too,not understanding how a rule apply to a situation well enough is not an excuse to avoid a punishment.

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                        Laura

                        good idea to bring up this old topic again, i think we will have new posts soon 😂

                            Laura hot weather where you’re at as well, I take it?

                            its approaching 36 degrees C in my area, so I’m sort of glad my wife unlocked me for the duration of our re-evaluation. The belt hasn’t been this uncomfortable to wear for two summers.

                                Laura

                                Generally,more than 30°C in France too,presently.

                                I'm happy to be free of the chastity bra(even if wearing the chastity belt when it is hot is very unpleasant,too).

                                    Laura I'm not bringing the old topic, but complaining 😂

                                    😂

                                    Vanessa

                                    this week it has not been too warm about 25 degrees

                                    but next week it will be hotter 🙁

                                          Vanessa I'm happy to be free of the chastity bra(even if wearing the chastity belt when it is hot is very unpleasant,too).

                                          How about an A/C you parents were going to buy last year?

                                              Laura How about an A/C you parents were going to buy last year?

                                              We have it,but it is still better without a chastity bra!😉

                                              And,even if hot,there is no heat wave for now.

                                                  Vanessa We have it,but it is still better without a chastity bra!😉

                                                  of course and not only because of the weather 😂

                                                      Angelina of course and not only because of the weather

                                                      How is it related to the weather?