Angelina I thought a lot about this point. I think I can accept many restrictions as long as I can still do what is important for me, like staying in contact with my friends and family, having some time for myself to relax and just do nothing, having time for my hobbies or just watch a movie I like from time to time. It's really not so much. As long as this is given I can accept even very strict rules as long as they are out of love. I don't need to be responsible for money or appointments or things like that. To be honest, I feel under good care of Daniel and since then I don't miss these advantages a lot. It was a bit different before I meet him, but nowadays I am very happy.
Chastity belt and hot weather
hmm i have thought a lot about it, especially about the point if you want to meet your friends. are you allowed to leave the house alone ? how is it if you meet friends of yours by chance and daniel doesn't know them, are you allowed to talk to your friends or do you need his permission ?
I know I'm repeating myself, but I think you can make a contract about that too 
Sara2001 From what I can find on the internet, I am more or less in the middle and it could be a lot stricter.
Well,I guess so,it could be way stricter,even if it si still very strict,in my opinion.
Sara2001 He normally only denies something for a good reason and from time to time to remind me that it is not only a formal thing, but this never happens when it has really drastic consequences.
Good he doesn't do it for important things,but I don't feel it is very fair to refuse you to have a permission only to show you he can do it...I hope he wouldn't do it for long,only at the start.
I agree that if you can do it and that rules are done out of love,it can be manageable.I wouldn't like it,but I can understand you may be happy this way.
Angelina hmm i have thought a lot about it, especially about the point if you want to meet your friends. are you allowed to leave the house alone ? how is it if you meet friends of yours by chance and daniel doesn't know them, are you allowed to talk to your friends or do you need his permission ?
Good questions.
Angelina are you allowed to leave the house alone ?
Yes, I just have to ask permission.
Angelina how is it if you meet friends of yours by chance and daniel doesn't know them,
No problem. I can talk to anyone I want.
Angelina do you need his permission ?
Outside of his parents house I don't need a permission to talk.
Angelina I know I'm repeating myself, but I think you can make a contract about that too
That's not how it is working for us because sometimes something doesn't need to be written down to be forbidden or allowed. It always depends on the situation and it is acceptable that this means a little risk for me because I can be sure that Daniel is strict but fair.
Sara2001 That's not how it is working for us because sometimes something doesn't need to be written down to be forbidden or allowed. It always depends on the situation and it is acceptable that this means a little risk for me because I can be sure that Daniel is strict but fair.
i see it completely different, every situation can be included in a contract as a rule with permission or punishment. you have a pretty complex relationship and i think it would be very useful. i think it's good that you trust daniel a lot that he is fair, but i think it's pretty shortsighted
concerning the other points, it seems to be strict but ok
Angelina i think it would be very useful
I think it would destroy the relationship. It would end in discussion about paragraphs and details.
Daniel is in charge and sets my boundaries. It's not perfect but because I know his idea behind everything I can adapt this to any situation. I never had a situation where I felt unfairly punished for something I expected to be okay. At least after the lection I always agree that I should have known better, but that I don't realize anything before before the lecture is very, very rare. I am not sure it ever happened with Daniel only a few times with my father in 18 years.
Sara2001 Yes, I just have to ask permission.
Still very restrictive.
Sara2001 Outside of his parents house I don't need a permission to talk.
Good you are mr efre to talk,generally!
Angelina i see it completely different, every situation can be included in a contract as a rule with permission or punishment. you have a pretty complex relationship and i think it would be very useful. i think it's good that you trust daniel a lot that he is fair, but i think it's pretty shortsighted
I think @Sara2001 is right.It would be way too complex and won't cover any situation,due to the big number of rules they use.Some guidelines are better,in this case,I think.
Sara2001 I think it would destroy the relationship. It would end in discussion about paragraphs and details.
I think too it would be hard to write it.
Sara2001 that I don't realize anything before before the lecture is very, very rare
Good.You could felt unfairly punished in such case.Even if,in my case too,not understanding how a rule apply to a situation well enough is not an excuse to avoid a punishment.
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Laura hot weather where you’re at as well, I take it?
its approaching 36 degrees C in my area, so I’m sort of glad my wife unlocked me for the duration of our re-evaluation. The belt hasn’t been this uncomfortable to wear for two summers.
Saintprudence hot weather where you’re at as well, I take it?
Yes, in NYC