Chastity belt and hot weather

Vanessa

Sara2001 From what I can find on the internet, I am more or less in the middle and it could be a lot stricter.

Well,I guess so,it could be way stricter,even if it si still very strict,in my opinion.

Sara2001 He normally only denies something for a good reason and from time to time to remind me that it is not only a formal thing, but this never happens when it has really drastic consequences.

Good he doesn't do it for important things,but I don't feel it is very fair to refuse you to have a permission only to show you he can do it...I hope he wouldn't do it for long,only at the start.

Sara2001

I agree that if you can do it and that rules are done out of love,it can be manageable.I wouldn't like it,but I can understand you may be happy this way.

Angelina hmm i have thought a lot about it, especially about the point if you want to meet your friends. are you allowed to leave the house alone ? how is it if you meet friends of yours by chance and daniel doesn't know them, are you allowed to talk to your friends or do you need his permission ?

Good questions.

Sara2001

Angelina are you allowed to leave the house alone ?

Yes, I just have to ask permission.

Angelina how is it if you meet friends of yours by chance and daniel doesn't know them,

No problem. I can talk to anyone I want.

Angelina do you need his permission ?

Outside of his parents house I don't need a permission to talk.

Angelina I know I'm repeating myself, but I think you can make a contract about that too 😉

That's not how it is working for us because sometimes something doesn't need to be written down to be forbidden or allowed. It always depends on the situation and it is acceptable that this means a little risk for me because I can be sure that Daniel is strict but fair.

Angelina

Sara2001 That's not how it is working for us because sometimes something doesn't need to be written down to be forbidden or allowed. It always depends on the situation and it is acceptable that this means a little risk for me because I can be sure that Daniel is strict but fair.

i see it completely different, every situation can be included in a contract as a rule with permission or punishment. you have a pretty complex relationship and i think it would be very useful. i think it's good that you trust daniel a lot that he is fair, but i think it's pretty shortsighted

concerning the other points, it seems to be strict but ok 😉

Vanessa

Sara2001 Yes, I just have to ask permission.

Still very restrictive.

Sara2001 Outside of his parents house I don't need a permission to talk.

Good you are mr efre to talk,generally!

Angelina i see it completely different, every situation can be included in a contract as a rule with permission or punishment. you have a pretty complex relationship and i think it would be very useful. i think it's good that you trust daniel a lot that he is fair, but i think it's pretty shortsighted

I think @Sara2001 is right.It would be way too complex and won't cover any situation,due to the big number of rules they use.Some guidelines are better,in this case,I think.

Sara2001 I think it would destroy the relationship. It would end in discussion about paragraphs and details.

I think too it would be hard to write it.

Sara2001 that I don't realize anything before before the lecture is very, very rare

Good.You could felt unfairly punished in such case.Even if,in my case too,not understanding how a rule apply to a situation well enough is not an excuse to avoid a punishment.

Sara2001

Angelina i think it would be very useful

I think it would destroy the relationship. It would end in discussion about paragraphs and details.

Daniel is in charge and sets my boundaries. It's not perfect but because I know his idea behind everything I can adapt this to any situation. I never had a situation where I felt unfairly punished for something I expected to be okay. At least after the lection I always agree that I should have known better, but that I don't realize anything before before the lecture is very, very rare. I am not sure it ever happened with Daniel only a few times with my father in 18 years.

Angelina

Sara2001 I think it would destroy the relationship. It would end in discussion about paragraphs and details.

apparently this system does not work for you 🙁

if my discussions about contracts would destroy the relationship, then this person knows me too little

Angelina

Vanessa .It would be way too complex and won't cover any situation,due to the big number of rules they use.

this is absolutely wrong. i also have many rules and situations at home and almost everything is regulated by our contracts 😉

Sara2001

Vanessa Still very restrictive.

Of course, but I am used to it.

Vanessa Good you are mr efre to talk,generally!

Anything else would be very restrictive. Nothing I would accept.

Laura

Again. +31

Angelina

Laura

good idea to bring up this old topic again, i think we will have new posts soon 😂

Laura

Angelina good idea to bring up this old topic again

I'm not bringing the old topic, but complaining 😂

Saintprudence

Laura hot weather where you’re at as well, I take it?

its approaching 36 degrees C in my area, so I’m sort of glad my wife unlocked me for the duration of our re-evaluation. The belt hasn’t been this uncomfortable to wear for two summers.

Angelina

Laura I'm not bringing the old topic, but complaining 😂

😂

Vanessa

this week it has not been too warm about 25 degrees

but next week it will be hotter 🙁

Laura

Saintprudence hot weather where you’re at as well, I take it?

Yes, in NYC

Vanessa

Laura

Generally,more than 30°C in France too,presently.

I'm happy to be free of the chastity bra(even if wearing the chastity belt when it is hot is very unpleasant,too).

Laura

Vanessa I'm happy to be free of the chastity bra(even if wearing the chastity belt when it is hot is very unpleasant,too).

How about an A/C you parents were going to buy last year?

Vanessa

Angelina next week it will be hotter 🙁

Same in France.

Angelina

Vanessa Same in France.

It seems I was wrong. 😂

Vanessa

Laura How about an A/C you parents were going to buy last year?

We have it,but it is still better without a chastity bra!😉

And,even if hot,there is no heat wave for now.

Angelina

Vanessa We have it,but it is still better without a chastity bra!😉

of course and not only because of the weather 😂

Vanessa

Angelina

😉

Renita

Angelina of course and not only because of the weather

How is it related to the weather?

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