Vanessa What do you think about the impact of being in couple or not,for having to wear a chastity belt,especially by convincing?

When a girl starts dating, parents should have her belt ready, because dates end up with sex quickly. So she must be convinced in advance.

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      Laura

      If she's in a steady relationship(virgin or not),do you think her parents should make her wear it(if they discover it after she started dating her boyfriend/girlfriend,for example),even if it'll change a lot her relationship or wait until,she,maybe,be single again?

        In my opinion it's too late, unless they want her to break up with that guy.
        That why she should wear a belt regardless if she is in known date or not.

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        I think too making her starting to wear a belt during a relationship could easily make her boyfriend/girlfriend break up with her;except if it is for a set duration,like it was for me when it was used as a punishment.

        Maybe it was the reason some of us(at least Catherine and me)had to start wearing it permanently when we were single.

          Vanessa Maybe it was the reason some of us(at least Catherine and me)had to start wearing it permanently when we were single.

          Or she can be just informed she can get a belt anytime once she is about to have sex.

              Vanessa I think too making her starting to wear a belt during a relationship could easily make her boyfriend/girlfriend break up with her;except if it is for a set duration,like it was for me when it was used as a punishment.

              I think starting it in a relationship is cruel. For me it was clear that I'm not allowed to have a relationship until I wear my belt. A girl should now as early as possible that a belt is coming for her and what it means for her.

              For me it was very helpful that my mother could explain everything to me while she was already belted. It still felt unfair but at least I was not alone. It's so much easier when the knowledge how to make a good fit of the belt is already in the family and it's so much easier when you're mom can show you how to prevent skin irritation and things like that from her own knowledge and experience.

              I think the fact that I can't remember my mom without her belt made it a bit easier to accept, too. It was not completely new to me. It was in my mind my whole life. I still hate it with all that background 🙂

              As far as I know my mom will stay belted until one of them passed away or a medical reasons prevent the wearing.

                  Sara2001 For me it was clear that I'm not allowed to have a relationship until I wear my belt.

                  Same for me. And I was checked if I was still virgin before I started wearing the belt.

                    Laura Or she can be just informed she can get a belt anytime once she is about to have sex.

                    It can still damage the relationship if we have to wear a belt while in couple,right before we start having sex...

                    Sara2001 think starting it in a relationship is cruel.

                    I think too.However,it was a bit different for me than for you.And I sometimes had to wear it when I've a boyfriend/girlfriend and we're sexually active,but punished this way.I hated it so much too when I got this punishment(even if it is worse now)...

                    I think it can be easier if you know someone who have some experience with it,yes.

                    Sara2001 I still hate it with all that background 🙂

                    Normal!

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                            Vanessa It can still damage the relationship if we have to wear a belt while in couple,right before we start having sex...

                            In this case she should inform her parents about the relationship in advance.

                                Laura and then the parents will put a belt on her immediately

                                    Renita That's the goal. She must be in a belt when she leaves with her boyfriend alone.

                                      On one hand,it would be pleasant to have sex with him as long as she can,on the other hand,it will impact the relationship more badly if they're used to have sex and she's prevented of it suddenly...

                                      By "in advance",do you mean as soon as she started to date him,before she leaves for the first date?

                                        Vanessa On one hand,it would be pleasant to have sex with him as long as she can

                                        So, you suggest another rebelling by telling parents she is not doing it and not going to.

                                        Vanessa By "in advance",do you mean as soon as she started to date him,before she leaves for the first date?

                                        As soon as a potential BF is around.

                                              Laura It seems to me that it’s not your parents who put a belt on you, and you asked them about it. Can we name a topic "How I convince my parents to wear me a chastity belt"

                                                  Renita That's your misinterpretation. Here I'm talking the way if I was a parent and it's addressed to parents of potentially belted girls. We have the topic you are talking about already.

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                                                    Laura So, you suggest another rebelling by telling parents she is not doing it and not going to.

                                                    If she's not virgin anymore,and they take care to protect them,it isn't a big misbehaving,especially knowing they won't be able to do it again soon,and want to feel a bit each other...And better to know if they match well sexually before getting married;if not,they can work on it and enjoy more their wedding night.

                                                    Laura As soon as a potential BF is around.

                                                    Even before the first date or first kiss?

                                                          Vanessa If she's not virgin anymore,and they take care to protect them,it isn't a big misbehaving,especially knowing they won't be able to do it again soon,and want to feel a bit each other...

                                                          this is called libertine

                                                              Renita Not so rudely, but pretty much yes. Doesn't matter if she is not virgin anymore.

                                                              Vanessa Even before the first date or first kiss?

                                                              It will avoid more problems in future, if a girl starts kissing wearing a belt already

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                                                                    Renita this is called libertine

                                                                    Or expressing her love! 😉

                                                                    Laura It will avoid more problems in future, if a girl starts kissing wearing a belt already

                                                                    Right,even if it means no chance to feel a bit each other,at least it is very clear for both they can date but won't have sex until married,even if they both want it.

                                                                          Vanessa but won't have sex until married,even if they both want it.

                                                                          That's the goal of a chastity belt for he, to prevent sex, want at the moment, she might regret about later on.