Laura Or she can be just informed she can get a belt anytime once she is about to have sex.
It can still damage the relationship if we have to wear a belt while in couple,right before we start having sex...
Sara2001 think starting it in a relationship is cruel.
I think too.However,it was a bit different for me than for you.And I sometimes had to wear it when I've a boyfriend/girlfriend and we're sexually active,but punished this way.I hated it so much too when I got this punishment(even if it is worse now)...
I think it can be easier if you know someone who have some experience with it,yes.
Sara2001 I still hate it with all that background
Normal!