Ines To stay in your analogy: How would your mother react if you first study pharmacy, but later want to change the subject because you realize that it wasn't the right subject after all? I asked you this question before, but you never answered.

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    a_father
    Not only I answered it once, but several ones, in fact every one here could answer you for me, but I will do it once more:
    I would change the matter, without any trauma for both sides.
    Do you think that in a normal environment a family can make a daughter wear it in forced way? No. T

    Ines

    yes i understand that, i can apply the example to myself. my father is happy that i will work with him later and take over his "company" (one man AG) sometime, but if i should decide differently and still have a professional career he would also be proud of me 🙂

    Ines

    When they discussed it with you,you felt they thought it is the best choice?Or were they mainly neutral?

    Ines No, I think is a matter of personality.

    I agree.I think the personality play a major part in accepting to wear it or not,no matter if it is presented as something good,or neutral.

    Ines Easy example, do you think in a couple that owns a pharmacy. And they have a daughter. They would be happy and proud if she decides to study a degree in Pharmacy, but she decides a Lawyer degree.
    Does it means that they love her less? No.
    Are not they proud if she becomes in a judge? Yes they are.
    It is only that they would have a plus if her daughter would be the owner of family pharmacy.

    Good example.Even it doesn't apply for me,as I was allowed to study what I wanted,but have no say about wearing a chastity belt or not.

      Vanessa Even it doesn't apply for me,as I was allowed to study what I wanted,but have no say about wearing a chastity belt or not.

      it is difficult to apply to us, but i still agree with the example, although i could study something else and still have no right to refuse to my equipment

        Angelina

        It is a mix of modern things(being allowed to study what we want),and old fashioned things(having to wear a chastity belt)...

          Vanessa

          that's true. my father and i are very similar. we like conservative things but also modern things. but unfortunately sometimes different things 🙁

            Angelina

            Personally,I tend to prefer modern things(not surprising considering my studies);my parents a bit less,but the chastity belt is very conservative..🙁

              Vanessa

              well i am divided in two as said. but i agree with you that the chastity belt does not belong to the conservative values i want to protect

                Vanessa

                that's right, even though i appreciate the conservative lifestyle, the chastity belt is too much 🙁

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