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@Ivana
Just let me introduce myself! My name is Ivana. I am a 43 years old and proud mother of three girls, currently in the age of 20, 18 and 15. Some years ago, I accidentally found some information about the existence of chastity belts and the protection they provide. After some more search I was intrigued by the idea and wanted to try that for me and my girls. It gives so much protection, prevents mistakes like premarital sex and keeps the wearers thoughts on the right way, since it prevents masturbation and thereby any kind of pornography becomes uninteresting for the wearer.
I first bought a chastity belt for myself. My husband was very enthusiastic about my idea to protect me and our girls. After figuring out for me, that it is wearable for daily use and that it is pretty secure, I wore it frequently and made sure that my oldest daughter eventually recognized it. I started conversations with her and enthused about the protection it gives to me. She was not really interested at the beginning, but with the time, she more and more recognized that I keep with my belt and step by step I could convince her to give it at least a try. I agreed with her that we make our acclimatization together, since I wore it only occasionally at that time. Base of our agreement is that we both wear permanently, we both keep our keys mutual (which is very important for her trust!) and as an additional trade-off, I grant her lots of additional freedom. I keep her key and she keeps mine (my husband keeps the second keys of our belts). After fitting her, too, we increased fitting times in parallel - she wore it when I wore it, we always locked and unlocked each other. Since we reached 24/7, we kept with that. About a year later, I convinced my second daughter in the same way.
You cannot believe how I appreciate the extra protection for my daughters and me! We are into it since 3 years now, my second daughter since 2 years. We are very consequent with each other! We permanently wear our belts! For cleaning or shaving, we do it always together in the bathroom, including unlocking and locking each other. That is about 1-3 times a week, depending on occasions. It became to a common procedure which we don't want to miss anymore. It gives us trust, we talk and laugh a lot then.

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    @Ivana
    As you know, I am trying to convince my youngest daughter to start wearing a cb since quite some time. Since my last post here, I am proud to share that I made some efforts with her! Hard to explain, how lucky I am! There were lots of talks over months! It was really hard to convince her to just even try one of her sister's cbs for a minute! She is very strong-willed (which is generally positive) and she seems to be recognized that her older sisters have also weak times with their cbs. Well, mostly, they are ok with it and they got well used to it. (One of my girls even told me some weeks ago, that despite of occasional hard times, she generally feels proud of being well protected.) I trust them, that they don't say any negative about it, but somehow, she feels that there are times where it is different for them.
    Finally, I was able to convince her to give it a try! As a deliberate decision from the beginning, I was always excluding her consequently from our common cleaning breaks, which made her a little jealous (exactly my intention). I offered her to join us for only one time, if she agrees to try her sister's cb for a moment. Well, the cb was a little too wide for her, but at least, it gave her an impression. She learned that it is not feeling cold or sharp (two of her concerns) and with all of us in the bathroom, we had fun and the atmosphere was great. All in all, she agreed to order a cb for her to give it a try! This all was already some weeks ago. Her cb arrived and we are now in her third week. We started with occasional wearing times for short periods (until she asks for opening). As I expected, it started sluggishly (I always had to initiate to take it on and she wore it between 30 mins to 2 hours until she gave up). Well, since there are some parties of her friends in the next weeks and months, the time is on my side. Then I remembered the agreement of Camille with her mom (actually the reason, why I remembered to have a look here). Last week, we started with 4 hours a day until I release her, increasing 15 minutes each day. Now, we reached 6 hours. When we will reach 8 hours next week, we are going to include step-by-step nights and times out of the house. It is still the case that she can't wait to get out of it, but I told her that it will be easier with getting used to it. Toilet is still an issue and she complains about itching in the crotch area, which is possibly just in her mind because the area down there is covered, now (for me, it was similar in the beginning). I still fear that she could decide to quit, so I don't want to push too far, yet.

    @Ivana
    Now to my news. Major topic of last weeks was acclimatization for my youngest daughter. As I said, we agreed to increase wearing times step-by-step. We came relatively fast to a point, where she wore it 12-16 hours a day, but then we stayed with that for about two weeks. I asked her several times if she ready to start wearing it permanently, but she always said that she needed more time. In my opinion, she was well prepared, but I let her. In between, we had discussions about belt fit and things. Finally, she started permanent wearing 2 weeks ago. It was a little celebratory and she was welcomed to us three. I am very glad! Since then, she is very proud, but I can see that she has a hard time these days. I guess, this is normal in the first weeks. Was similar for all of us in the beginning.

    What do you think about the impact of being in couple or not,for having to wear a chastity belt,especially by convincing?

    I remember Catherine's parents started to talk about it while she was single(and she thought it has affected their decision to start the talk),and I had to wear it permanently right after a forced break-up with a man my parent's didn't appreciate...

      Vanessa What do you think about the impact of being in couple or not,for having to wear a chastity belt,especially by convincing?

      When a girl starts dating, parents should have her belt ready, because dates end up with sex quickly. So she must be convinced in advance.

          4 days later

          Laura

          If she's in a steady relationship(virgin or not),do you think her parents should make her wear it(if they discover it after she started dating her boyfriend/girlfriend,for example),even if it'll change a lot her relationship or wait until,she,maybe,be single again?

            In my opinion it's too late, unless they want her to break up with that guy.
            That why she should wear a belt regardless if she is in known date or not.

            13 days later

            I think too making her starting to wear a belt during a relationship could easily make her boyfriend/girlfriend break up with her;except if it is for a set duration,like it was for me when it was used as a punishment.

            Maybe it was the reason some of us(at least Catherine and me)had to start wearing it permanently when we were single.

              Vanessa Maybe it was the reason some of us(at least Catherine and me)had to start wearing it permanently when we were single.

              Or she can be just informed she can get a belt anytime once she is about to have sex.

                  Vanessa I think too making her starting to wear a belt during a relationship could easily make her boyfriend/girlfriend break up with her;except if it is for a set duration,like it was for me when it was used as a punishment.

                  I think starting it in a relationship is cruel. For me it was clear that I'm not allowed to have a relationship until I wear my belt. A girl should now as early as possible that a belt is coming for her and what it means for her.

                  For me it was very helpful that my mother could explain everything to me while she was already belted. It still felt unfair but at least I was not alone. It's so much easier when the knowledge how to make a good fit of the belt is already in the family and it's so much easier when you're mom can show you how to prevent skin irritation and things like that from her own knowledge and experience.

                  I think the fact that I can't remember my mom without her belt made it a bit easier to accept, too. It was not completely new to me. It was in my mind my whole life. I still hate it with all that background 🙂

                  As far as I know my mom will stay belted until one of them passed away or a medical reasons prevent the wearing.

                      Sara2001 For me it was clear that I'm not allowed to have a relationship until I wear my belt.

                      Same for me. And I was checked if I was still virgin before I started wearing the belt.

                        Laura Or she can be just informed she can get a belt anytime once she is about to have sex.

                        It can still damage the relationship if we have to wear a belt while in couple,right before we start having sex...

                        Sara2001 think starting it in a relationship is cruel.

                        I think too.However,it was a bit different for me than for you.And I sometimes had to wear it when I've a boyfriend/girlfriend and we're sexually active,but punished this way.I hated it so much too when I got this punishment(even if it is worse now)...

                        I think it can be easier if you know someone who have some experience with it,yes.

                        Sara2001 I still hate it with all that background 🙂

                        Normal!

                                12 days later

                                Vanessa It can still damage the relationship if we have to wear a belt while in couple,right before we start having sex...

                                In this case she should inform her parents about the relationship in advance.

                                    Laura and then the parents will put a belt on her immediately

                                        Renita That's the goal. She must be in a belt when she leaves with her boyfriend alone.

                                          On one hand,it would be pleasant to have sex with him as long as she can,on the other hand,it will impact the relationship more badly if they're used to have sex and she's prevented of it suddenly...

                                          By "in advance",do you mean as soon as she started to date him,before she leaves for the first date?

                                            Vanessa On one hand,it would be pleasant to have sex with him as long as she can

                                            So, you suggest another rebelling by telling parents she is not doing it and not going to.

                                            Vanessa By "in advance",do you mean as soon as she started to date him,before she leaves for the first date?

                                            As soon as a potential BF is around.

                                                  Laura It seems to me that it’s not your parents who put a belt on you, and you asked them about it. Can we name a topic "How I convince my parents to wear me a chastity belt"

                                                      Renita That's your misinterpretation. Here I'm talking the way if I was a parent and it's addressed to parents of potentially belted girls. We have the topic you are talking about already.

                                                        7 days later

                                                        Laura So, you suggest another rebelling by telling parents she is not doing it and not going to.

                                                        If she's not virgin anymore,and they take care to protect them,it isn't a big misbehaving,especially knowing they won't be able to do it again soon,and want to feel a bit each other...And better to know if they match well sexually before getting married;if not,they can work on it and enjoy more their wedding night.

                                                        Laura As soon as a potential BF is around.

                                                        Even before the first date or first kiss?

                                                              Vanessa If she's not virgin anymore,and they take care to protect them,it isn't a big misbehaving,especially knowing they won't be able to do it again soon,and want to feel a bit each other...

                                                              this is called libertine