Vanessa

exactly, even if you don't like the cb (like me), you won't get distracted by mastubation from important things 😉

      Vanessa And it is only one of the probable reasons.

      Why not talk to them again since the situation has changed?

          Angelina

          I agree.I think that being prevented to masturbate and have sex,and trying to concentrate in other things(inclduing studies)to manage the urges,have impacted my study habits,and,so,my grades.

          Renita

          As it is not the only reason,and as they seems to like the idea of making me wait until marriage.

                Vanessa As it is not the only reason,and as they seems to like the idea of making me wait until marriage.

                I think that's very typical. My father thinks the same and Angelina's father, too. No matter how the circumstances are. Anything that prevents masturbation stays in place all the time until marriage or the key to the equipment will be given to our partners during wedding and then they decided how long, when and why anything stays in place.

                    Vanessa

                    have your grades improved during your studies since you wear your belt permanently ?

                    I haven't noticed any changes in my school performance yet, but I was a good student before 🙂

                    @Sara2001

                    I agree with you 100% except for the last sentence 😉

                        Sara2001

                        Yes;I think when we start to wear it permanently,even if the situation change a bit,it is very likely we should wear it until our wedding night(except in specific cases,like moving to another city).

                        What do you mean by

                        Sara2001 then they decided how long, when and why anything stays in place

                        ?Do you talk about the husband decision?

                        Angelina have your grades improved during your studies since you wear your belt permanently ?

                        Yes.not that much,but a bit better.

                                Vanessa Do you talk about the husband decision?

                                Yes, after marriage, if you continue to wear chastity equipment, the new keyholder, in my case Daniel, decodes these things.

                                    Sara2001

                                    luckily for you he wants you to wear "only" the cb and not the tighbands 😉

                                        Vanessa and as they seems to like the idea of making me wait until marriage.

                                        So, they care more about your relationship with another girl than masturbation?

                                            Sara2001 Yes, after marriage, if you continue to wear chastity equipment, the new keyholder, in my case Daniel, decodes these things.

                                            Logical,in a male led relationship using chastity.

                                            Angelina

                                            Yes,it would be better for her!🙂

                                            Renita

                                            They accept well I date another woman,(and they like Emilie),not much difference than if I dated a man.

                                            Masturbation was always forbidden(but,I guess,but not sure,a bit tolerated before),and,now,prevented.

                                                    Vanessa They accept well I date another woman,(and they like Emilie),not much difference than if I dated a man.

                                                    There is difference. I wrote here Renita
                                                    I think if you dated a boy they wouldn't insist in secondary shield all the time.

                                                          Renita

                                                          No change about it in such case,probably.A man could too use his fingers or tongue,without it on!😉 And I could masturbate without it on,too.

                                                          And when it was used as punishment while I dated a man,I had the secondary shield on too.

                                                            13 days later

                                                            Christine ...which is why is partly why I ask what caused the break up. Never want to assume though. I know of my share of awful men.

                                                                James which is why is partly why I ask what caused the break up.

                                                                Mom blames me.