F#@%... 😡 my mom told me that i will start wearing the belt almost permanently later this week. just great...
after arguing for half an hour i asked her to at least tell me why she makes me wear it, and as always, instead of telling the actual reason she started saying "because youre XX, you don't need access "there" without a good reason, at least until you're XXX", "you can always ask me to unlock it if you actually need it", "it's not girly to look "down there" anyway" and other bullshit

it's early morning already and i can't sleep, i'm so angry 😡

    amber For me this sounds like the try of sounding polite while saying "I don't want you to masturbate". I hope you will manage it well. 24/7 is a big change.

        Sara2001 it wasn't polite, it was a very heated conversation.
        She doesn't say it directly because she thinks i don't know about masturbation and she doesnt want me to learn about it (im 99% sure), she doesn't even call the chastity belt "chastity belt", she calls it "special underwear". It's hard to explain, but it's very annoying when she talks about it.
        24/7 wear starts today, from now on she won't let me take it off unless absolutely nesessary and "i give a very good reason" to unlock it. 😞

            amber he doesn't say it directly because she thinks i don't know about masturbation and she doesnt want me to learn about it

            But she probably knows that you know what to do with boys

                Laura idk, we have never talked about sex or relating things.

                  amber she started saying "because youre 14, you don't need access "there" without a good reason, at least until you're 16"

                  That's the actual reason, because she thinks you are old enough, but I'm pretty sure you will continue to wear even after 16.

                    amber She doesn't say it directly because she thinks i don't know about masturbation and she doesnt want me to learn about it

                    Maybe she uses a more honest communication if you name everything as it is.

                        amber

                        so first of all, I'm very sorry for you 🙁

                        then a little tip, pay attention to what you wear, no tight pants otherwise someone in school or in public might notice the cb 🙁

                        i honestly think it is quite unnecessary from your mother not to talk to you about it, if she uses something like a cb, she should talk about it properly, i agree with you. but don't show your mother that you are angry, i know it is difficult but it can make you look more mature 😉

                        unfortunately I don't think that you will be free again at 16 (I have to be honest) 🙁

                            Sara2001 Maybe she uses a more honest communication if you name everything as it is.

                            I don't think you have anything to lose by saying you know what it is, have known for awhile, and come to an agreement not to really do it. It's clear she's scared of you having sexual relations, but...why?

                                amber

                                I'm sorry for you,even if it is not very surprising....Wearing it permanently is very hard...

                                It would be good if you don't have to wear it anymore when 16,but,like other posters here,I've doubt about it too...

                                Laura

                                Likely,yes.

                                Angelina then a little tip, pay attention to what you wear, no tight pants otherwise someone in school or in public might notice the cb 🙁

                                Right advice.

                                Angelina i honestly think it is quite unnecessary from your mother not to talk to you about it, if she uses something like a cb, she should talk about it properly, i agree with you. but don't show your mother that you are angry, i know it is difficult but it can make you look more mature 😉

                                I agree,you must stay calm to discuss it with her,otherwise it would not lead to anything good.But,if she can't start to use these words,you should ask her politely why she doesn't want you to masturbate by making you wear a chastity belt.If she notices you know what masturbation and chastity belt mean,she may feel free to discuss it more precisely(but take care it doesn't make you punished for saying it,even if it can be worth it if she discuss more freely after it).

                                James

                                I agree,if she tells her mother she knows about it,it can help to have an useful talk(even if I doubt she'll manage to not wear it anymore so easily).

                                            Vanessa (but take care it doesn't make you punished for saying it,even if it can be worth it if she discuss more freely after it).

                                            if she manages to have a calm and objective conversation with her mother about it, i see no reason for a punishment. if there is a punishment for pronouncing the words mastubation and chastity belt, i would tell the mother that she should not use anything she does not want to pronounce 😉

                                                You might want to go the "this is illegal rode"

                                                Angelina

                                                It would be logical,but it seems her mother is very strict about it,it won't be very suprising she isn't supposed to use such words(especially masturbation)...

                                                Christine

                                                But it is used to prevent you to masturbate and have sex,too.Not only as a reminder,I guess.

                                                      Vanessa

                                                      i think an adult woman should be able to talk about this topic, especially if she forces her daughter to wear a cb

                                                      i am currently very angry with @amber mother

                                                          Angelina

                                                          If she's very old-fashioned,she may think it is an inappropriate subject to discuss in family,and should be talked about only between husband and wife.

                                                          But it would make @amber's sutuation harder.

                                                              Vanessa be talked about only between husband and wife.

                                                              she has used a chastity belt on her daughter and thus contradicts this

                                                                  Angelina

                                                                  Maybe a sort of "double standards".Forbidden to talk about it directly,but using a chastity belt(while not using this name)to prevent her to do it.

                                                                      Vanessa
                                                                      Angelina
                                                                      I don't want to ask her directly because she at least thinks that i don't know about masturbation and other stuff. i'm worried that if she finds out i know about it, she will see it as a "stronger" reason to make me wear it.
                                                                      But then again, i have to wear it 24/7, dont think there's much to lose.

                                                                      going to school with belt on is so stressful. I was very worried about anyone at the school seeing it but in those days so far nobody saw it (Its not showing through the clothes at all, and the outline isn't noticable. That's at least something positive about the belt). What's more noticable is when sitting i start crossing my legs out of habit, but in the middle of doing it the belt gets in the way and i have to instantly stop my leg in mid air and put it back, looking stupid.
                                                                      Also, i now look at everybody in school to try to see if she also wears a belt. but i haven't noticed anyone. i think only i have to wear the belt at school.