James okay I'm ending this back and forth chat here so it dosent end up being two guys yelling at each other but I was under the impression any gender is welcome, as I too am in chastity but by choice as an adult. You James have been posting plenty, you don't get to be the sole exception to what you just said how it's not men's space. You are the only one being aggressive here and I don't wish to bicker over something something and this deffinantly isn't the place to do it.

      Jimmycane I was under the impression any gender is welcome, as I too am in chastity but by choice as an adult.

      I think there are tons of places where male adults that wear their chastity belt as a free choice can meet and talk. I hope this place will keep his purpose (at least the purpose I see), to be a platform for girls and woman in (mostly forced/unwanted) chastity without a sexual or fetish context.

      I really dislike all the "your parents are crazy/evel/out of time", "go to police/fire department/hospital" posts.

      I think most women here know their legal options and think that family is a big value.

          Jimmycane
          Good Morning.
          Firstly, you should create a post in Introduction topic.
          Anyway, Jimmycane, here all opinions are wellcome, but attitudes of "I will make you see the light, illiterate people" are not wellcome.
          I do not say that it is your case but I remind. Nobody goes to a forum to be treated as a child, but to talk and share as communicative intelligent adults.
          Take in account.
          With this you can think white, black or grey (my case), but always respeting forum philosophy.

              Ines Jimmycane, here all opinions are wellcome, but attitudes of "I will make you see the light, illiterate people" are not wellcome.
              I do not say that it is your case but I remind. Nobody goes to a forum to be treated as a child, but to talk and share as communicative intelligent adults.

              I can completely agree with you. And I want to make clear that if anyone here asks for help or advice in this or that, these kind of input is very, very welcome but unwanted "help" feels like "I see the light you don't see". That's what I dislike.

                Jimmycane In a forum where women's fathers put them in chastity cages against their will?

                Chastity cages for girls? What are you talking about?

                Jimmycane as I too am in chastity but by choice as an adult

                Please tell us about it

                      Jimmycane

                      so first of all everybody is welcome here no matter which sex, which age and whether self locked or not

                      however I agree with the contributions of @Sara2001 and I am also of the opinion that every girl here knows her rights and I also know that I would not have to accept this state

                      but there are deeper reasons why we accept our (very unpleasant) situation. by this I mean addiction or the fear of family breakdown

                        Raziel

                        I think many of us wear a belt for at least one of these reasons,sure.

                        It is often until marriage...

                        Ines

                        For having been,and be presently,with unbelted girlfriends,I think it is not unladylike at all.It only means she enjoys her body and what she feels!🙂

                        Angelina but I think it won't change her situation much 🙁

                        I think too...

                        Jimmycane I disagree with many things said here but emphasize with many of you as my chastity experience has been fully consetual and for my own amusement. Angelina you in particular give very surprising advice now compared to months ago.

                        Possible.Maybe because we have larger understanding of it after discussing a lot with each other here.

                        Jimmycane

                        Difficult to say.Her mother hasn't explained well why she decided it,so it is difficult to know if there is a reason.

                        Angelina i just manage to get along with it better than in the beginning, but i think that is completely normal 😉

                        I think too it is normal.

                        Johnathan

                        If she doesn't do it excessively,it is not harmful.

                        Jimmycane

                        I don't agree.For me,it seems she managed it as she can't do otherwise,but still hate it,and wouldn't hesitate to stop wearing these(and the other devices),if she can.As she can't,it is better to try to manage these as well as possible...

                        Angelina

                        I don't think you expressed yourself badly,I understand you well.&

                        James

                        I agree.Especially as his first post was to explain women what they feel,and insist even after they tell him he was wrong...

                        James

                        Yes.Guys are welcomed here,and you can confirm it,but if it is for trolling or starting a flame war,they should try another place.

                        Sara2001

                        I have discussed about it with @Laura on Misterpoll,and we agreed to accept men,wearing or not a chastity cage/belt,as long as it is mainly for women and they respect it.What mainly men's posting here does.

                        Ines Anyway, Jimmycane, here all opinions are wellcome, but attitudes of "I will make you see the light, illiterate people" are not wellcome.

                        I agree.

                        Laura Chastity cages for girls? What are you talking about?

                        I noticed it too!😉

                        • Ines replied to this.

                                                      Vanessa .It only means she enjoys her body and what she feels!🙂

                                                      Yes, I was not making criticism, but I do not see it well for a girl... I do not like it.
                                                      It just my wiew.

                                                          Ines It just my wiew.

                                                          and we accept this opinion 😉

                                                          but please also accept that many girls here think differently 😉

                                                            Ines

                                                            No problem,you can have your opinion about it(pretty similar to my parents' one),even if I don't share it!🙂

                                                                Angelina

                                                                I think many parents belting their daughters(with the secondary shield on)think it,too.

                                                                    Vanessa I think preventing masturbation is maybe even the main reason. Otherwise they would allow us to have little breaks now and then to release ourselves. The fact that many of us never get this moments and that many of us even have to wear tightbands and/or chastity bras to take away the very last, extremely small possibilities, proofs me right.

                                                                    A chastity belt even without secondary shield projects any girls virginity perfectly. Anything else is to prevent masturbation/sexual pleasure.

                                                                        Sara2001

                                                                        perfectly true

                                                                        in the beginning i also thought that the main reason for my father is that he wants to prevent an unwanted pregnancy or is afraid that i will have a relationship based only on sex, but since i have the tighbands and the bra i am sure that he wants to stop any sexual pleasure 🙁

                                                                          Ines Preserve our sexuality for right moment, no doubt.

                                                                          You can't preserve something that can't be damaged or destroyed.

                                                                          You can preserve virginity and unwanted pregnancy, but you can not preserve the lack of sexual pleasure.

                                                                          At least that's my opinion 🙂

                                                                            Sara2001

                                                                            Totally right,I agree with you.

                                                                            I guess parents belting their daughters,no matter the reason,want often to stop her masturbating,too.Except a few cases among us.And even in these cases,it is generally greatly reduced.

                                                                            Ines

                                                                            I understand it,but I don't think masturbating should be included.

                                                                                  Vanessa I understand it,but I don't think masturbating should be included.

                                                                                  I can understand when parents don't want a girl to masturbate very often. But I would love to have a little break any 2 weeks to release my urges a bit.

                                                                                  I don't think this would make me a slut.

                                                                                      Vanessa I understand it,but I don't think masturbating should be included.

                                                                                      I also think I could understand my father not wanting me to have sex, but I always feel very humiliated when I am not able to relieve my urge 🙁

                                                                                      as @Sara2001 wrote, i will not become a slut if i masturbate every 2 weeks