Belted siblings

Sara2001
I don't seem to have to worry about that either but my Fiance pushes really hard when we can be alone as it is. You can't just STOP or it will look like you are manipulating but keep in mind that being with you is mostly emotional and guys require speed to finish while we girls don't really. So you can keep up the same effort by making eye contact and moving around a lot. I am sure you understand, but yeah it would suck to spend you marriage the same way you spend dates now.

Angelina too bad

What opn earth is wrong with NetFlix and Cuddling??? I get very complicated documentaries about electronics and my bottom stretched
I am willing to trade for Netflix and cuddling!!!
Lol Just joking I love last night. What is there worth watching on netflix? We tried searching Netflix but gave up after a couple minutes...

Megan

of course it's ok if the two of them look at netflix or cuddle together it's more about the general living

Megan I am sure you understand, but yeah it would suck to spend you marriage the same way you spend dates now.

After marriage I will get my satisfaction, too. But only if he allows. It will not be any time I give him pleasure or almost every time but often enough to stay happy. I think it will be 1 or 2 times a month.

Sara2001

1 or 2 times a month is not very much, I always thought a man wants it more often. I just hope he doesn't refuse too often, that could make you very unhappy

Angelina 1 or 2 times a month is not very much, I always thought a man wants it more often. I just hope he doesn't refuse too often, that could make you very unhappy

My satisfaction is not the same as his satisfaction. I think it will be less often for me as for him, but I think as long as it is still arousing for me, everything is fine

Sara2001

Does that mean he wants him to have an orgasm while denying you that pleasure?

Angelina Does that mean he wants him to have an orgasm while denying you that pleasure?

Absolutely, yes. He will have much more orgasms then me and it will be his decision only.

Sara2001

Well, it's your choice if you're happy with it.

but for me it is absolutely unacceptable

Angelina Well, it's your choice if you're happy with it.

but for me it is absolutely unacceptable

Yes, if you had asked me a year ago, I had said that every woman who accepts this is crazy, but I can't really tell you why, but the more I learn about the whole power exchange thing, the more fascinated I am about it. Definitely nothing for everyone

Vanessa It is not very often.Would it be enough for you to be happy?

Of course it is less often than I had chosen myself, but I think it can be enough. I know if it is not enough, it will be increased. It's similar to what my and his mother get.

Sara2001

i've already noticed that your relationship has changed your character a bit

Vanessa Right,he might have good surprises.Using Netflix as an exemple too,Emilie made me watch interesting series I would not have watched otherwise,probably.

that's exactly what I meant, very good example

Sara2001

can daniel as punishment reduce the number of your orgasms ?

Angelina can daniel as punishment reduce the number of your orgasms ?

Wouldn't be necessary as she will always mpve towards a happy relationship with him. What could she even do? Spill coffee while riding in the car?

Angelina can daniel as punishment reduce the number of your orgasms ?

Technically he can, but he would get an angry wife in exchange . Actually it is not on our "list" of possible punishments, it wouldn't make much sense, because earning an orgasm will always be a little game and he wants this fun, too.

Megan

i think that also sara has limits how far she would go in the relationship

Sara2001

that sounds pretty good, but i'm still a little worried, hopefully you get your pleasure regularly

Angelina i think that also sara has limits how far she would go in the relationship

I have extremely clear limits. They are very strict and very easy.

I I have the feeling that whatever happens is not out of love or that he doesn't see me as his partner but only as his servant or if it feels abusive, I would immediately demand a change or quit the relationship.

I'm sure how we organised everything feels very restrictive for most girls here and of course he has much more freedom and much more power than I have, but this is how both of us decided that it should be and I have only agreed to this because I have the feeling that I can trust absolutely trust him and that he always put my needs and my happiness at the first place.

Sara2001 and I have only agreed to this because I have the feeling that I can trust absolutely trust him and that he always put my needs and my happiness at the first place.

and as long as that's the case, I don't see any problems in your relationship. @Megan seems to see the whole thing a little bit different, but I think you are independent enough to know the conditions for a happy relationship and to record them

Sara2001

Would he consider your opinion?Or if he notices it doesn't make you happy?

In my case,I would feel it very low...1 or 2 a week would be better!

Angelina that's exactly what I meant, very good example

More common in couples;.

Megan

Even in such relationships,I guess there can be arguments,and it seems it would often be solved with a punishment(for her)...

Sara2001 Actually it is not on our "list" of possible punishments

Good!

But you have a list of punishments he could use?Written one,or just talked about?

Sara2001 I I have the feeling that whatever happens is not out of love or that he doesn't see me as his partner but only as his servant or if it feels abusive, I would immediately demand a change or quit the relationship.

Good you still think about it this way,as you did since the relationship started.I guess your boyfriend knows it well,too.

Sara2001 I'm sure how we organised everything feels very restrictive for most girls here and of course he has much more freedom and much more power than I have, but this is how both of us decided that it should be and I have only agreed to this because I have the feeling that I can trust absolutely trust him and that he always put my needs and my happiness at the first place.

I would have trouble to accept it,but it seems to be a good relationship for you,which is the more important.

Vanessa Would he consider your opinion?Or if he notices it doesn't make you happy?

Both. But stating an option doesn't mean it will be exactly like I said but he takes the idea behind it into his descisions.

Vanessa Even in such relationships,I guess there can be arguments,and it seems it would often be solved with a punishment(for her)...

We have clear rules how to handle disagreements. They really work, but it is very important that I stay calm. Being disobedient or disrespectful would directly lead to a severe punishment.

Vanessa But you have a list of punishments he could use?Written one,or just talked about?

There is no physical list, that's why I used the quotes

Vanessa Good you still think about it this way,as you did since the relationship started.I guess your boyfriend knows it well,too.

This is my "red line" that must not be crossed.