Renita

that's the problem, I have tried to be permanently realistic, but then I am very negative (automatically) 😉

      Vanessa

      I have to, especially when it comes to the topic of sex (otherwise I would be very sad) 🙂 🙁

          Angelina You are supposed to be positive and enthusiastic due your age.

            Renita You do? I only know guys with debts 😃

            Well if you look a little harder there are guys with not just $ but their own virtues and values

                Christine They are all taken.

                No, they aren't. Sure, I have money - the question I'd ask is why should I take you?

                Not trying to be mean, but that's the core of any relationship - why should it be you? Not any other girl or guy?

                    Angelina

                    Sure!

                    But not easy to find positive things about being prevented to do it...

                    Christine

                    I don't think so.Nowadays,it is not always the main search in a relationship...

                    James

                    Love is not a logical choice.We don't choose someone with who we may spend our life with as we choose a new car...

                    Laura

                    It is pretty pessimistic...

                    With this logic,all relationships are based on a choice "by default"...

                              Vanessa With this logic,all relationships are based on a choice "by default"...

                              That's kind of market in my opinion. You have bids, asks and matches

                                  Laura

                                  I personally think love can happen between persons you would never have thought they could matches,even if they didn't do anything to make it happens.

                                  I prefer to think about it this way,more romantic and optimistic!😉

                                      Vanessa I prefer to think about it this way,more romantic and optimistic!😉

                                      romantic and optimistic are prerequisites for love 🙂

                                          Vanessa Love is not a logical choice.We don't choose someone with who we may spend our life with as we choose a new car...

                                          Laura That's kind of market in my opinion. You have bids, asks and matches

                                          Agreed and agreed. However, going from love to marriage does add other considerations - if there's not a bunch of things she does you like - cooks well. is kind, insightful, whatever you like - why go there?

                                                Vanessa ,it is not always the main search in a relationship...

                                                Being realistic, it is.

                                                Megan there are guys with not just $ but their own virtues and values

                                                Usually such guys also have $$$.

                                                      Angelina

                                                      Better if we think this way,yes.

                                                      James

                                                      If there is not a lot of things we like in each other,I don't think the relationship would last long enough to think about marriage,anyway.

                                                      Renita Being realistic, it is.

                                                      For long lasting relationships,maybe.But when we date while not thinking too much about finding a partner for our life,not necessarily.