Déjà vu

Renita

When I started my period, my mother came in and - while I nearly died of embarrassment - took measurements of my private area. About six weeks later my mother and father sat me down. My father handed me a package which he told me was a chastity belt! My mother would supervise its installation, and he and my mother would have the only keys!
I cried and begged them not to put such a thing on. I was told that either it went on, or I would not be allowed to leave their supervision. When I complained that when others found out about it, they would think me perverted, they just smiled. If others found out - it proved I needed it.
So on it went, and except for new ones necessitated by growth, I wore it all the time. On my eighteenth birthday, Dad said he could no longer force me to wear it but if he supported me financially, I had to keep it on. I told him to keep the key, and that he was to keep the key until he felt I should have sex. What a change! If you had told me that I would not take that key from him when I was 13, I would not have believed it.
By 21 I was supporting myself, but my father kept the key anyway. He came with me to doctors appointments, and supervised its re-installation afterwords. (My mother had died by then.) There were three fights in which I begged for the key, but he refused. Too embarrassed to tell anyone about it - or to get help to saw it off, I remained a virgin.
When I was 23, I met Mr. Right, and my father approved of him. To my embarrassment, my father handed HIM the key.
He knows he was and is now my one and only, because he has the key! It turned him on when he found out about it, and on our wedding night I agreed to still wear it. My father has the other key in case of emergency.
We now have a beautiful little girl, and yes, she will wear one too.

Renita

My girl friend has worn one for about 3 years now, with durations of up to 4 months. How she (we) wound up wearing a steel belt:
Her mother offered her a "deal" she would pay for college, apartment, living expenses, and a car if Sara would wear "something special" while she was away from home. That something special is a steel chastity belt. After Sarah agreed by signing a non-revokable contract, she was measured and eventually had the belt "installed" in time for her to move to the university.
When I met Sarah over a year ago, she eventually asked me what I thought about chastity belts. I replied I thought that they should be in wider use, and it was too bad that there wasn't one made for men as well. After showing me hers, she asked " if there were one for men would you wear it?" When I replied sure, she just smiled. She then obtained the address from her mother, who when told, offered to pay for my belt. Last spring I had mine "installed" and her mother has both sets of keys. I can get out by driving a couple of hours, if I need to, but except for a few minor problems I have gotten used to wearing it.
Her mother says we will get the keys when we graduate the university, or get married.

Korni

Renita how looks yours

Sara2001

Funny, there is another belted Sara out there 😀

Renita

Many parents would be very pleased to fit their girls into belts, I am sure; from the teenager's point of view, being belted has advantages too.
Firstly, it is defence against rape, date rape, drink rape or dope rape (that is, being given dope and then raped, not being raped by a dope).
Secondly, kids are often unsure of their own sexuality, and teenage girls are struggling with the sexual feeling they inspire in men and boys around them. The belt puts an absolute limit on therir sexual activity, but it does not prevent kissing, petting, or stripping to the waist. That is, I feel that a belted girl has more sexual freedom than a bare girl. She can gain, and give, sexual experience without losing her virginity and without any risk of pregnancy. She can always bring a boy home and ask her mother to unlock her belt, if she thinks it appropriate.

Laura

Renita She can always bring a boy home

My parents think differently. I'm not allowed to bring boys home despite the belt.

Laura

Renita But "or stripping to the waist" as you mentioned Renita

Renita

Should daughter have a cb ?
(a) she is being pestered by boys and they might go too far
(b) she wants to protect the daughter's virginity
(c) she wants to give the daughter limited freedom, to have sex above
the waist or "elsewhere" but to prevent the ultimate
(d) she wants the daughter to be able to go to sleepovers etc. in mixed
company, without worry
(e) the daughter wants to take boyfriends into her bedroom
(f) birth control
(g) school or office panty raids (happened at my daughter's school)
(h) protection against rape, date rape etc.

Laura

Renita Thank you for the nice list. I think we should start our own FAQ.

Vanessa

Laura Go somewhere outside.

Do they allow it?

Laura That's also not appreciated although they can't prevent it

Yes,they don't like it,but it can't be prevented as easily as intercourse and masturbation.And I think they probably know I do it to Emilie.

Renita Probably c and e for me too.Even if they won't like I do things "above the waist" too.

Laura Thank you for the nice list. I think we should start our own FAQ.

I agree.

Sara2001

In my home it's c, hopefully it will also be e, too.

Renita

Laura I think we should start our own FAQ.

Get started. I will definitely have something to add

Laura

Vanessa Do they allow it?

I'm free to spend my time wherever I wish and whenever I wish. That's the biggest advantage of the belt.

Since everybody is answering, mine are b and d.

Vanessa

Laura I'm free to spend my time wherever I wish and whenever I wish. That's the biggest advantage of the belt.

Good part of it,sure.

Renita

Korni No, this is not my story, but it happened in the 90s. You're one of them?

Renita

Relevant Yahoo poll

"Do you agree that a parent has the right to use a chastity belt to preserve an underage daughter's virginity, prevent excessive masturbation or prevent her sleeping around?

Yes, any of above would be a perfectly legitimate use of a chastity belt
Yes on balance, but only if she would otherwise be putting herself at risk through underage sex
Yes to preserve her virginity
Yes, to prevent promiscuity
Yes to prevent any masturbation
Yes, though only to prevent excessive masturbation
Unsure / really depends on situation
Only if she fully consented to it
Never, it would be psychologically damaging
Never, it would be against her basic rights
Never, and such a parent should be prosecuted"

Angelina

Renita

and what was the result of the poll?

Vanessa

Renita Only if she fully consented to it

This one for me.

But I would like to know the results,too.

Esteban

Renita
Only one answer is far from obvious to me.
I'm explain :

If the parents exert any slightest moral constraint in order to extort the consent of the girl I will be in perfect agreement with the last three proposals.

• Never, it would be psychologically damaging
• Never, it would be against her basic rights
• Never, and such a parent should be prosecuted"

But if the young woman believes that her belt will act as a protection against the potential male aggressors or can help her to get rid of a compulsive masturbatory practice that spoils her life, the 8th proposal « Only if she fully consented » to it remains acceptable.

Provided however that the girl is regular breaks to relieve himself (minimum of one hour each tonight before going to bed). She must not be trapped after accepting the principle of the belt.

Indeed if a girl agrees each evening a small moment of intimate happiness before falling asleep it would be far from compulsive masturbation as it presented at the beginning of the statement the question.

Between compulsive masturbation and prohibited masturbation there is room for compromise. No ?

Renita

Angelina
Started 24 Dec, 2003

Yes, any of above would be a perfectly legitimate use of a chastity belt 9%
Yes on balance, but only if she would otherwise be putting herself at risk through underage sex 2%
Yes to preserve her virginity 6%
Yes, to prevent promiscuity 9%
Yes to prevent any masturbation 4%
Yes, though only to prevent excessive masturbation 2%
Unsure / really depends on situation 5%
Only if she fully consented to it 30%
Never, it would be psychologically damaging 11%
Never, it would be against her basic rights 12%
Never, and such a parent should be prosecuted 10%

Esteban

Renita
His results are not exploitable.
Because to be meaningful a survey must be done according to a representative sample.

Moreover, we can legitimately assume that the most liberal parents will not have the idea of researching such issues beacuse they will find the absurd the original idea.

The other hand the sexual perverts will be the first to share their opinion in order to externalize their fantasy.
We all have that the theme of CB attract fetishists.

Vanessa

Renita

Hum,30% who not do it if she doesn't agree is not bad,but there is 31% in total who think she should wear one,without any concerns about if she agrees or not...

Laura Maybe she can contribute to the topic with ancient stories from older forums/groups 🙂

It could be interesting,yes.

Laura

I hope they read us carefully,and understand their daughters should not be forced to wear a chastity belt if they don't agree willingly...

Laura

Esteban Renita just demonstrates 2003's poll, meaning our things were discussed already many years ago. And it's different now.

reactionary69

Laura "Everything needs to change, so (that) everything can stay the same. "

The Leopard (Italian: Il Gattopardo), a novel by Giuseppe Tomasi di Lampedusa.

Mea culpa for my Norwegian habits.

😇😇😇😇

Esteban

Laura
If I try to follow your reasoning, you estimate that pool represented the philosophy of the population in 2003.
And do you think there are now fewer followers of the belt than 16 years ago?
Have I translated your thought well?

Because for my part I think the nombers of de pro -belted are been already over-valued in 2003.
Always with the same reasoning in my previous post.

I was also told that the early 2000s were flooded by the fetishist as soon as the topic of CB was discussed.