Saintprudence And self-pleasure was a BIG one. I was guilted beyond all reason for every act of self-pleasure.

Luckily my family is not very religious. In my family they don't teach that a woman has to feel guilty after masturbation but that female masturbation must not happen. My brother can masturbate whenever he wants as well as he can have sex when he wants.

Saintprudence My wife and I for many years have maintained a taken-in-hand marriage

That's how we call our relationship, too.

Saintprudence My wife has also more recently adopted corner time as a disciplinary method, and it works well to soothe my temper and rage.

Corner time is very common in my family as long as I can think. My mom still has to do 30 minutes of corner time every morning.

Saintprudence This does not mean I am a slave or a submissive. Only that she has the final word. I trust her to make decisions that are best for us both

Like for us and mostly difficult to understand for outsiders.

Saintprudence I don’t feel ill-used

That's most important for me.

              Sara2001 Corner time is very common in my family as long as I can think. My mom still has to do 30 minutes of corner time every morning.

              Times like this, I’m glad my wife doesn’t read this forum, haha. She only threatens 30 minutes when she’s really annoyed and has never actually done it. Daily cornering would drive me insane!

              Truth is, she mostly enjoys the fact it’s a low-effort means of discipline. It was actually my idea because I noticed she didn’t always like having to drop what she was doing and deal with me. Now, if I’m
              upsetting her, all she has to say is “corner, three minutes” and she automatically wins the argument and can get back to whatever she was doing. (And my bottom is less sore!)

                Ines I think that you can talk with her about your wishes of she wear thigh bands.

                @Sara2001 prefer chastity bra,dislike thigh band.You think thighband is better.If your future husband want to lock your breast up,will you accept it happily?I'm just a little curious.

                    sun
                    No. Short and definitive answer. 😆

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                        Ines
                        I think there are no accessories he can give you. 😆

                          For me is a way of deny my feminity, and, even I have doubts about daily manage.
                          I dislike deeply that item.

                          sun I think we call them “handcuffs” and that’s a very different matter than chastity’

                              sun
                              I do not understand you.
                              Why would I need something like that?

                              Saintprudence I think we call them “handcuffs”

                              If he is talking about this, it is absolutely out of matter.

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                                    Ines Why would I need something like that?

                                    It's just a joke. 😅

                                    Ines If he is talking about this, it is absolutely out of matter.

                                    Saintprudence I think we call them “handcuffs” and that’s a very different matter than chastity’

                                    I don't mean handcuff,for it's not invisible as thighband.It may not exist.

                                          sun Maybe in future somebody will invent something like "arm band"for you.

                                          What's a point of this?

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                                              Renita
                                              Because Ines likes thighband the best,meanwhile she hates chastity bra the worst.So I think maybe she likes this idea.Of course,it's just a joke.I'm not sure whether somebody can invent such thing in the future.

                                                  Ines The weakness, of your case, in my opinion, is the lack of communication.

                                                  I agree.It seems it is something they have to improve a lot(and in general,not only about chastity belt).

                                                  sun

                                                  I think you do pretty well with her,in the current situation,she doesn't told you much about her feelings,and I think it is hard for both of you to know what to do.

                                                  sun

                                                  It would be better this way,yes.

                                                  Sara2001 My brother can masturbate whenever he wants as well as he can have sex when he wants.

                                                  Do you feel it as unfair as I feel it?It is the same about me and my twin's rules...

                                                  sun

                                                  A chastity bra is very hard emotionally.Don't do it before you're able to discuss freely with her,and that she wants to wear it.

                                                  sun she hates chastity belt the worst

                                                  Do you meant chastity bra?

                                                                Vanessa Do you feel it as unfair as I feel it?It is the same about me and my twin's rules...

                                                                Of course it is unfair, but it is also a normal thing for me. Man have more freedom in my family. I like that at least he has the freedom. It wouldn't help me if not.

                                                                Of course I often want to have his possibilities, no curfew, my own money, less tasks in the household and the possibility to delegate them, no physical punishment, but I also have learned that this will not happen.

                                                                Now with Daniel almost all of the rules will stay in place after wedding, but it feels completely different for me because now it was my decision to accept them.

                                                                    Sara2001

                                                                    A bit similar for me.I would like to have the same freedom,but would not like he lose it and have the same rules than me.

                                                                    However,it is ever more different in your house than in mine...Way harder for you(and your sister,I guess)than for him.

                                                                    Logical it will be different feelings with your husband

                                                                      Vanessa Do you meant chastity bra?

                                                                      Forgive me for my mistake.Yes,I meant chastity bra.

                                                                          Sara2001 Now with Daniel almost all of the rules will stay in place after wedding, but it feels completely different for me because now it was my decision to accept them.

                                                                          i agree with @Vanessa that it is of course a different feeling when you do it voluntarily

                                                                          but (and please don't be angry with me) i sometimes feel that your upbringing has raised you to the role of a submissive wife, in short i think there is a psychological problem

                                                                            Summer is comming.I think I should buy a better chastity belt for my wife,though I haven't known whether she would like it.I just want to make her feel better.I prefer Fancysteel,for it looks simple and light.I will make thirty measurements in the next ten days.Then I will buy it through a middleman.

                                                                              sun I think FancySteel with wires is too flexible to provide full protection.