Angelina

Yes,it is worth trying;and if only one of you feel pain during your wedding night,it would be a bit easier to manage.

      Vanessa

      that's right, i think camryn could support me better to bear this pain if she doesn't have to feel the same pain 🙂

          Vanessa Yes,it would be pain free for both of us!🙂

          well, i wish i could say that, i wonder how much it will affect the orgasm

          how was it with you the first time ?

              Angelina

              It was painful for me,and,even if I enjoyed this intimacy with my boyfriend,it prevented me to reach orgasm.Even if,besides the pain,I had nice feelings too.

                  Vanessa

                  phew i hope it is different for me, even if i could bear the pain, i would love to come to orgasm 🙁

                      Angelina

                      It depends on each people;but I think it can be difficult to reach orgasm while feeling pain...

                          Vanessa

                          well, I will try anyway, but unfortunately I will not know the result for another 3 years 🙁

                              Angelina

                              No chance that he accepts to let you have you first time before marriage,like when engaged?

                                  Vanessa

                                  maybe i won't have to wear tighbands and bra anymore, but the belt will definitely stay until the wedding 🙁

                                      Angelina

                                      It wouldn't help you to lose your virginity before the wedding night,but it would still be a huge improvement!🙂

                                          Vanessa but it would still be a huge improvement!🙂

                                          and that must be the goal, my father always said clearly the belt stays until the wedding. so i will try to improve the other devices

                                              Angelina

                                              Wise decision.If you've no chance to make him change his mind about the chastity belt,you should focus more on rules you may succeed to change.

                                                  Vanessa

                                                  exactly, there are rules where I know in advance that they cannot be changed, but I do have a few possibilities 🙂

                                                      Angelina

                                                      Do you think you would be able to get rid of the chastity bra and thigh bands soon?Or not before,at least,1 or 2 years?

                                                          Vanessa

                                                          to get rid of it completely will be difficult, maybe before the wedding but not before I am engaged (and when I am engaged my father expects us to get married very soon so that I don't take advantage of the freedom), but I think I can soon get some relief, especially from the tighbands 🙂

                                                              Angelina

                                                              Understandable that it wouldn't be completely off before getting engaged,but good if you can have less strict rules about it soon! 🙂

                                                              In my case,I don't think my rules would change much until marriage,or,at least,until I live on my own(except the chastity belt,it should stay on until I get married)....🙁

                                                                  Vanessa

                                                                  nevertheless i hope that you will get some relaxation, latest when you live alone or better said with emilie it will be difficult with the bra and the thighbands 🙂