Vanessa

phew i hope it is different for me, even if i could bear the pain, i would love to come to orgasm 🙁

      Angelina

      It depends on each people;but I think it can be difficult to reach orgasm while feeling pain...

          Vanessa

          well, I will try anyway, but unfortunately I will not know the result for another 3 years 🙁

              Angelina

              No chance that he accepts to let you have you first time before marriage,like when engaged?

                  Vanessa

                  maybe i won't have to wear tighbands and bra anymore, but the belt will definitely stay until the wedding 🙁

                      Angelina

                      It wouldn't help you to lose your virginity before the wedding night,but it would still be a huge improvement!🙂

                          Vanessa but it would still be a huge improvement!🙂

                          and that must be the goal, my father always said clearly the belt stays until the wedding. so i will try to improve the other devices

                              Angelina

                              Wise decision.If you've no chance to make him change his mind about the chastity belt,you should focus more on rules you may succeed to change.

                                  Vanessa

                                  exactly, there are rules where I know in advance that they cannot be changed, but I do have a few possibilities 🙂

                                      Angelina

                                      Do you think you would be able to get rid of the chastity bra and thigh bands soon?Or not before,at least,1 or 2 years?

                                          Vanessa

                                          to get rid of it completely will be difficult, maybe before the wedding but not before I am engaged (and when I am engaged my father expects us to get married very soon so that I don't take advantage of the freedom), but I think I can soon get some relief, especially from the tighbands 🙂

                                              Angelina

                                              Understandable that it wouldn't be completely off before getting engaged,but good if you can have less strict rules about it soon! 🙂

                                              In my case,I don't think my rules would change much until marriage,or,at least,until I live on my own(except the chastity belt,it should stay on until I get married)....🙁

                                                  Vanessa

                                                  nevertheless i hope that you will get some relaxation, latest when you live alone or better said with emilie it will be difficult with the bra and the thighbands 🙂

                                                      Angelina

                                                      I guess it would not be possible to use the thigh bands if not living at home anymore.The chastity bra may be possible,but I would manage to have it off in this situation,I think.

                                                      However, the belt would stay on until I get married...

                                                          Vanessa

                                                          that would probably be the same situation as with me. although my plans are more like moving out at the same time as my wedding

                                                              Angelina

                                                              But,if I remember correctly,your father would rent a flat or similar for you and your wife,right?

                                                                  Vanessa

                                                                  yes, as a gift for our wedding. therefore, my wedding and my moving out will probably be very close together

                                                                      Angelina

                                                                      It's a good idea too,to move on your own flat/house soon after you get married.Even if uncommon,generally,people marry some times after living together.

                                                                          Vanessa

                                                                          well, it is planned that camryn will stay with us for a few weeks or even months before our wedding, but we have no income of our own, so this is the only way