Vanessa Yes,it would be pain free for both of us!🙂

well, i wish i could say that, i wonder how much it will affect the orgasm

how was it with you the first time ?

      Angelina

      It was painful for me,and,even if I enjoyed this intimacy with my boyfriend,it prevented me to reach orgasm.Even if,besides the pain,I had nice feelings too.

          Vanessa

          phew i hope it is different for me, even if i could bear the pain, i would love to come to orgasm 🙁

              Angelina

              It depends on each people;but I think it can be difficult to reach orgasm while feeling pain...

                  Vanessa

                  well, I will try anyway, but unfortunately I will not know the result for another 3 years 🙁

                      Angelina

                      No chance that he accepts to let you have you first time before marriage,like when engaged?

                          Vanessa

                          maybe i won't have to wear tighbands and bra anymore, but the belt will definitely stay until the wedding 🙁

                              Angelina

                              It wouldn't help you to lose your virginity before the wedding night,but it would still be a huge improvement!🙂

                                  Vanessa but it would still be a huge improvement!🙂

                                  and that must be the goal, my father always said clearly the belt stays until the wedding. so i will try to improve the other devices

                                      Angelina

                                      Wise decision.If you've no chance to make him change his mind about the chastity belt,you should focus more on rules you may succeed to change.

                                          Vanessa

                                          exactly, there are rules where I know in advance that they cannot be changed, but I do have a few possibilities 🙂

                                              Angelina

                                              Do you think you would be able to get rid of the chastity bra and thigh bands soon?Or not before,at least,1 or 2 years?

                                                  Vanessa

                                                  to get rid of it completely will be difficult, maybe before the wedding but not before I am engaged (and when I am engaged my father expects us to get married very soon so that I don't take advantage of the freedom), but I think I can soon get some relief, especially from the tighbands 🙂

                                                      Angelina

                                                      Understandable that it wouldn't be completely off before getting engaged,but good if you can have less strict rules about it soon! 🙂

                                                      In my case,I don't think my rules would change much until marriage,or,at least,until I live on my own(except the chastity belt,it should stay on until I get married)....🙁

                                                          Vanessa

                                                          nevertheless i hope that you will get some relaxation, latest when you live alone or better said with emilie it will be difficult with the bra and the thighbands 🙂

                                                              Angelina

                                                              I guess it would not be possible to use the thigh bands if not living at home anymore.The chastity bra may be possible,but I would manage to have it off in this situation,I think.

                                                              However, the belt would stay on until I get married...

                                                                  Vanessa

                                                                  that would probably be the same situation as with me. although my plans are more like moving out at the same time as my wedding

                                                                      Angelina

                                                                      But,if I remember correctly,your father would rent a flat or similar for you and your wife,right?

                                                                          Vanessa

                                                                          yes, as a gift for our wedding. therefore, my wedding and my moving out will probably be very close together