Using a chastity belt as a means to "test" a relationship

Angelina

It was painful for me,and,even if I enjoyed this intimacy with my boyfriend,it prevented me to reach orgasm.Even if,besides the pain,I had nice feelings too.

Vanessa

phew i hope it is different for me, even if i could bear the pain, i would love to come to orgasm

Vanessa

well, I will try anyway, but unfortunately I will not know the result for another 3 years

Angelina

No chance that he accepts to let you have you first time before marriage,like when engaged?

Vanessa

maybe i won't have to wear tighbands and bra anymore, but the belt will definitely stay until the wedding

Angelina

It wouldn't help you to lose your virginity before the wedding night,but it would still be a huge improvement!

Vanessa but it would still be a huge improvement!

and that must be the goal, my father always said clearly the belt stays until the wedding. so i will try to improve the other devices

Angelina

Wise decision.If you've no chance to make him change his mind about the chastity belt,you should focus more on rules you may succeed to change.

Vanessa

exactly, there are rules where I know in advance that they cannot be changed, but I do have a few possibilities

Vanessa

to get rid of it completely will be difficult, maybe before the wedding but not before I am engaged (and when I am engaged my father expects us to get married very soon so that I don't take advantage of the freedom), but I think I can soon get some relief, especially from the tighbands

Angelina

Understandable that it wouldn't be completely off before getting engaged,but good if you can have less strict rules about it soon!

In my case,I don't think my rules would change much until marriage,or,at least,until I live on my own(except the chastity belt,it should stay on until I get married)....

Vanessa

nevertheless i hope that you will get some relaxation, latest when you live alone or better said with emilie it will be difficult with the bra and the thighbands

Angelina

I guess it would not be possible to use the thigh bands if not living at home anymore.The chastity bra may be possible,but I would manage to have it off in this situation,I think.

However, the belt would stay on until I get married...

Vanessa

that would probably be the same situation as with me. although my plans are more like moving out at the same time as my wedding

Angelina

But,if I remember correctly,your father would rent a flat or similar for you and your wife,right?

Vanessa

yes, as a gift for our wedding. therefore, my wedding and my moving out will probably be very close together

Angelina

It's a good idea too,to move on your own flat/house soon after you get married.Even if uncommon,generally,people marry some times after living together.

Vanessa

well, it is planned that camryn will stay with us for a few weeks or even months before our wedding, but we have no income of our own, so this is the only way