Time between climax

Angelina makes little sense, i would rather set a certain number in the year and then distribute it evenly over the year

That it is not evenly is the idea behind it. So sometimes I miss it more, sometimes I miss it less. Most of the time there is a little hope, that I will maybe allowed to have an orgasm and in autumn I will know, that no matter what happens, I will definitely not have an orgasm. I think this system beings a lot of variety over the year. I will not know in advance when I get the next permission.

Angelina s this interval determined by the calendar date or by the temperatures ?

December-February is winter, March-May is spring and so on.

Sara2001

i think i understand the sense behind it. it should increase the tension a little and make you thankful that you will get this present from him. but he wants to surprise you?

Sara2001

so every 3 months ? sounds logical

Angelina so every 3 months ? sounds logical

More like once in 3 month.

Sara2001 Thanks for the explanation. It sounds like you're going to be well looked after once you are married.

The problem is we have a contract starring she gets to climax every 30 days. I have no leverage to convince her to change that time.

Katies-Mom-Melanie but there is also no standing to move it up to weekly, either.

Sara2001 More like once in 3 month.

i meant the distance between the periods, that you get orgasms more than once per period (except in autumn) i hope very much

Katies-Mom-Melanie

so it will (for the time being) remain at every 30 days ?

Katies-Mom-Melanie I have no leverage to convince her to change that time.

Change it for both.

Sara2001

Very few and very hard!

Why no orgasms in Autumn,instead of another season?

Sara2001 Not exactly. I think it is a few times a month. 2 or 3 times, but this is kind of guessing.

Still much more than you.

Sara2001 we will adjust to an amount that is okay for me

Good you can adapt.

Sara2001 I think especially after the first orgasms, I will miss them even more, this will be hard.

I think so,too...

Angelina what would be enough for me ? for me it would be enough where I personally masturbated about twice a week

I did it every other day,or every day,so much more than once a week!

Renita

She may like it more often for her,but not for her daughter,or like less often for her daughter but not for her,so not easy!

Vanessa I did it every other day,or every day,so much more than once a week!

i think once a week would be something i could accept without being very frustrated. more often would be better of course

Vanessa She may like it more often for her,but not for her daughter,or like less often for her daughter but not for her,so not easy!

well as i have read, both are often very horny. if both decide to never, it could even be very funny

Vanessa She may like it more often for her,but not for her daughter,or like less often for her daughter but not for her,so not easy!

This is the drawback of mutual keyholding,

Renita

it is to be seen rather positive. so nobody misuses his power as a key holder

Sara2001 Yes, I just saw this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iL0ApVOSFuk family rules on women can be very strict!

bismarck

i wouldn't say that @Sara2001 has the same strict rules as women in Afghanistan, we still live in the west world

Angelina i wouldn't say that @Sara2001 has the same strict rules as women in Afghanistan, we still live in the west world

I think my situation is completely different. The most important differences is, I entered this lifestyle willingly (at least after wedding) and it is not demanded by the government or society.

Sara2001

right, the poor women in afghanistan usually have no other choice, you have

Sara2001 Yes, we decided that I should always have very strict rules.

You wouldn't discuss it again right before or right after your wedding?

Angelina i think once a week would be something i could accept without being very frustrated. more often would be better of course

I would still be frustrated,but it would be better than presently,sure!

Angelina well as i have read, both are often very horny. if both decide to never, it could even be very funny

Renita

Right.

Angelina

But the rules can't be adapted easily.

Vanessa You wouldn't discuss it again right before or right after your wedding?

I think we will discuss everything from time to time, nothing is final forever, but we agreed, that this is a goal both of us support and both of us are willing to work very hard for this goal. I can't say that I love the idea of having that low amount of orgasms but I really love the feeling of giving them up for him.