Saintprudence

that is it, you have understood it 100% πŸ™‚

Tobbe

not a bad idea, you always say that the belt is good for women, maybe you should test it yourself before you try to convince us πŸ˜‰

    Renita I remain endlessly caught in a cycle of believing that belts should be equal-opportunity, and in believing that the world is properly divided between those who lock belts on and those who have belts locked on them. It might be why I'm a bit schizophrenic about the idea of mutually belted experiences. My wife is my keyholder. I don't wish her to have to wear a belt. Her job is to protect me and keep me safely secure. I have no wish to take on the responsibility of her belting as well!

    Maybe it's just that i tend to regard suspiciously anyone who is a little TOO eager to clamp a belt onto someone else. Tobbe is definitely quite enthused about belting as many ladies as he can, which makes me want him to have a taste of his own medicine! Same with HHelen, who by my own logic should act as a strict keyholder and wear no belt herself, but the other part of me wants her to understand what it's like.

    And yet my own belting feels irrevocably linked to my own femininity. When I identified as a male and had the body to match, chastity was something I explored to solve my problems but it never felt RIGHT. My world simply feels more correct as a belted wife.

    Tobbe I do not think she has any problems with that either.

    My only problem is that it's not my choice.

      a_father And what's your reason?

      I'm not @Laura , but I just can't afford to move out. I think this reason is enough.

      Tobbe that is perfectly designed for females.

      i disagree. it is perfectly designed for people who want to be chaste, this can also be men πŸ˜‚

      Laura My only problem is that it's not my choice.

      the belt or that you have a partner? whether you find a partner you can influence in large parts yourself πŸ˜ƒ

        Laura It IS your choice. You have a job and (I hope for you) money. So you can move out whenever you want. How long will you be belted? Till the age of 30, 35, 40 or until your parents pass away and you inherit the keys to your belt and a house filled with loneliness?
        When is the right time to start your own life? How long will you wait? It won't become easier to find a partnert and the belt is an additional burden. I would not start a relationship with a girl belted by her parents. Not because of sex, but because of other reasons. I would always have one question in my mind: 'Does she love me, or will she marry me to get rid of the belt?' Maybe I'm expressing myself a little too directly, then please excuse me. I am German and I try to explain something in a foreign language without hurting you, which would be difficult for me in my mother tongue.

          Laura

          even virgins can find partners πŸ˜‰

          a_father So you can move out whenever you want.

          @Laura you no longer live at home? (I thought you once said it)

          a_father but because of other reasons. I would always have one question in my mind: 'Does she love me, or will she marry me to get rid of the belt?'

          maybe you think i am naive now, but i think you can know if your partner really loves you or if there are other reasons behind it. you also imply that girls with belts only get married to be free from belts which is absolutely not true (i am the best example myself)

            Saintprudence I feel like the desire to end virginity is not a good reason for marriage!

            I agree.

            Laura No way

            Logical,but not good.

            Saintprudence you encounter a partner who both adores you and will make no such request of you.

            I hope it for her too.

            Saintprudence Not many get a virginal spouse these days.

            Right.

            Laura

            All of them were wearing a chastity belt until marriage?

            Tobbe

            It is why you should try a male chastity belt,not a female one!πŸ˜‰

            Laura

            Like for several of us.

            Angelina even virgins can find partners πŸ˜‰

            Sure.

              Vanessa As I told @Saintprudence in another tread: Several men here have told of problems and permanent injuries to use the belt. No health problems happens to female users if the belt is properly adjusted.

                a_father You have a job and (I hope for you) money.

                And investments.

                a_father So you can move out whenever you want.

                Yes I can if it's needed

                a_father How long will you be belted?

                You know it

                a_father When is the right time to start your own life?

                What for? You still didn't tell me a good reason

                Vanessa All of them were wearing a chastity belt until marriage?

                Not everybody, but most of them. Females, of course

                  HHelen as I’ve said before, I have a certain admiration for your dedication to purpose and I wish my own mom had taken the kind of care you are showing.

                    Laura Yes I can if it's needed

                    I thought you didn't live with your parents anymore?

                    Saintprudence I have a certain admiration for your dedication to purpose and I wish my own mom had taken the kind of care you are showing.

                    Thank you. Back to the topic, I'm pretty sure, that age is not an exception.

                    a_father Till the age of 30, 35, 40

                    Do you mean, that girls in these ages are hopelessly old?