Renita I remain endlessly caught in a cycle of believing that belts should be equal-opportunity, and in believing that the world is properly divided between those who lock belts on and those who have belts locked on them. It might be why I'm a bit schizophrenic about the idea of mutually belted experiences. My wife is my keyholder. I don't wish her to have to wear a belt. Her job is to protect me and keep me safely secure. I have no wish to take on the responsibility of her belting as well!
Maybe it's just that i tend to regard suspiciously anyone who is a little TOO eager to clamp a belt onto someone else. Tobbe is definitely quite enthused about belting as many ladies as he can, which makes me want him to have a taste of his own medicine! Same with HHelen, who by my own logic should act as a strict keyholder and wear no belt herself, but the other part of me wants her to understand what it's like.
And yet my own belting feels irrevocably linked to my own femininity. When I identified as a male and had the body to match, chastity was something I explored to solve my problems but it never felt RIGHT. My world simply feels more correct as a belted wife.