Lesdom and chastity

Tobbe

abby_sub Is there are any girls who are also locked in chastity in lesdom (or BDSM) relationships?

Hi and welcome!
You will probably get better answers to your questions at www.beltedgirls.com

Jonas

Joh I was wondering if she might learn something from @Foxies.

Foxies

Jonas I was wondering if she might learn something from @Foxies.

Jonas, while I appreciate the thought 😂, and I truly don't mind if the moderators share my (our) email with abby_sub, I am not convinced of the veracity of the enquiry. I might be wrong but somehow the story sounds more like an imaginative piece of fiction. Just sayin 🤣

Angelina

abby_sub

welcome to the forum, please introduce yourself on the introduction page 🙂

even though we accept everyone here, i think i have to say again that we are not a bdsm forum

Angelina

Foxies the story sounds more like an imaginative piece of fiction. Just sayin 🤣

maybe but especially in bdsm the line between fiction and reality is blurred. 😉

Max9

Foxies I might be wrong but somehow the story sounds more like an imaginative piece of fiction. Just sayin 🤣

Might be 🤔. But I might also be true. I will never understand this, but some people in our age do like punisments...
Personally, I prefer a strobg and big human teddy bear that you can hug and who is always there for you 🤷‍♂️ might be somehow similar except for the force and punidhment part.

Max9

Hey and welcome here. Well, we are not a bdsm community, but feel free to ask anything about chastity.

Renita

abby_sub Is there are any girls who are also locked in chastity in lesdom (or BDSM) relationships?

By their parents? Of course. @Angelina , @Vanessa 😃

Max9

Renita Well, lesbian relationship, not lesdom to be concrete... however 🤷‍♂️

Vanessa

abby_sub

Welcome!

Not much people in a lesdom/BDSM relationship,here...

Ines

I agree.

Renita

Not related at all to what she asks.

If would be the case if it is Emilie who would make me wear it and has my keys.

Angelina

Renita By their parents? Of course. @Angelina , @Vanessa 😃

i refuse to let the relationship with my father be called a bdsm relationship 😂

Vanessa If would be the case if it is Emilie who would make me wear it and has my keys.

I think so too, especially because the goal of parents is different from that of partners.

Renita

Max9 Thank you for clarification 😃

Max9

Vanessa Not much people in a lesdom/BDSM relationship,here...

I think @Sara2001 is in a bdsm relationship ... but not a lesbian one.

Renita

Angelina i refuse to let the relationship with my father be called a bdsm relationship

But your chastity devices are involved in the relationship with your girlfriend.

Vanessa If would be the case if it is Emilie who would make me wear it and has my keys.

Would she?

Megan

Vanessa If would be the case if it is Emilie who would make me wear it and has my keys.

That would not necessarily force you into any labels as some of those labels like Machoism can be kind of creepy and porn related.

Angelina

Max9 I think @Sara2001 is in a bdsm relationship

hmm... I don't know if I want to call it a bdsm relationship, but we can ask @Sara2001 how she would like it to be called. 🙂

Vanessa

Max9 I think @Sara2001 is in a bdsm relationship

I don't think so.

BDSM means,if I'm right:Bondage Domination Submission Masochism.In @Sara2001's relationship with her boyfriend,there is a part of domination/submission;yes,but nothing hint that they like/use bondage nor that @Sara2001 would be a masochist...

Renita Would she?

No.

Joh

Angelina I don't know if I want to call it a bdsm relationship,

She agreed to a Total Power Exchange relation and this is part of BDSM. Nevertheless if both are happy with it than it is fine with me and I wish them a happy relation in best case forever. After all, they are adults and it is within their discretion to do so.

Angelina

Renita But your chastity devices are involved in the relationship with your girlfriend.

that's true, but my relationship with my father is "only" family whereas my relationship with my girlfriend is romantic, that's a difference.

Joh She agreed to a Total Power Exchange relation and this is part of BDSM.

part of it that's true, but i think she called it a male led relationship. i like that term better.

Joh

Angelina male led relationship

It sounds better but they named it by them self.

Sara2001 This is his answer (I translated it to English)
We decided to have a total power exchange relationship.

Angelina

Joh It sounds better but they named it by them self.

right, i remembered it differently

Vanessa yes,but nothing hint that they like/use bondage nor that @Sara2001 would be a masochist...

well the chastity equipment or at least the thigh bands could be considered bondage, besides she once wrote here that her hands are tied when she takes a shower, that is already a bit bondage for me.

I think masochism can be defined in different ways. For me, what @Sara2001 does would be self-masochism, but I don't think she sees it that way because she was brought up differently.

Ines

Vanessa ;yes,but nothing hint that they like/use bondage nor that @Sara2001 would be a masochist...

I am not an expert, but since someone is beaten in a regular basis, for a outsider as me, it is pretty similar to masochism.

Max9

Vanessa BDSM means,if I'm right:Bondage Domination Submission Masochism.In @Sara2001's relationship with her boyfriend,there is a part of domination/submission;yes,but nothing hint that they like/use bondage nor that @Sara2001 would be a masochist...

Bondage Domintion Submission Sadism Masochism. Yes, It's a category of fetishes. One of the fetishes insde of this category is DS (Domination & Submission).

Joh

Vanessa but nothing hint that they like/use bondage

I see a cb, chastity bra and thighs band, you can hardly takes stairs, as a bondage.

Vanessa

Ines

A masochist likes pain,and can be aroused by it,I think;it seems to not be the case of @Sara2001.

Angelina well the chastity equipment or at least the thigh bands could be considered bondage, besides she once wrote here that her hands are tied when she takes a shower, that is already a bit bondage for me.

Maybe,yes.But,about it too,@Sara2001 accepts it,but may not like it.

Foxies Acronyms are even worse. S can be used for sadism or slave, and M for masochism or Master/Mistress/Ma'am etc. which are actually the opposites of each other.

I was not sure about the "S" in BDSM too...I doubt the "M" would be "Master" as there is already this concept by "D"(Domination).

Foxies I believe the value of this forum is we can get beyond labels and discuss our own, highly individual viewpoints

I agree.

Max9

You think the "S" in BDSM implies both possibilities?

Joh

Especially due to thigh bands,not much to other chastity devices.

Joh

But not as restrictive for walking or taking stairs than the thigh bands.