Lesdom and chastity

abby_sub

welcome to the forum, please introduce yourself on the introduction page

even though we accept everyone here, i think i have to say again that we are not a bdsm forum

Hey and welcome here. Well, we are not a bdsm community, but feel free to ask anything about chastity.

Foxies the story sounds more like an imaginative piece of fiction. Just sayin

maybe but especially in bdsm the line between fiction and reality is blurred.

Foxies I might be wrong but somehow the story sounds more like an imaginative piece of fiction. Just sayin

Might be . But I might also be true. I will never understand this, but some people in our age do like punisments...
Personally, I prefer a strobg and big human teddy bear that you can hug and who is always there for you might be somehow similar except for the force and punidhment part.

abby_sub Is there are any girls who are also locked in chastity in lesdom (or BDSM) relationships?

By their parents? Of course. @Angelina , @Vanessa

Renita Well, lesbian relationship, not lesdom to be concrete... however

Max9 Thank you for clarification

abby_sub

Welcome!

Not much people in a lesdom/BDSM relationship,here...

Ines

I agree.

Renita

Not related at all to what she asks.

If would be the case if it is Emilie who would make me wear it and has my keys.

Renita By their parents? Of course. @Angelina , @Vanessa

i refuse to let the relationship with my father be called a bdsm relationship

Vanessa If would be the case if it is Emilie who would make me wear it and has my keys.

I think so too, especially because the goal of parents is different from that of partners.

Max9 I think @Sara2001 is in a bdsm relationship

hmm... I don't know if I want to call it a bdsm relationship, but we can ask @Sara2001 how she would like it to be called.

Angelina I don't know if I want to call it a bdsm relationship,

She agreed to a Total Power Exchange relation and this is part of BDSM. Nevertheless if both are happy with it than it is fine with me and I wish them a happy relation in best case forever. After all, they are adults and it is within their discretion to do so.

Renita But your chastity devices are involved in the relationship with your girlfriend.

that's true, but my relationship with my father is "only" family whereas my relationship with my girlfriend is romantic, that's a difference.

Joh She agreed to a Total Power Exchange relation and this is part of BDSM.

part of it that's true, but i think she called it a male led relationship. i like that term better.

Angelina male led relationship

It sounds better but they named it by them self.

Sara2001 This is his answer (I translated it to English)
We decided to have a total power exchange relationship.

Vanessa ;yes,but nothing hint that they like/use bondage nor that @Sara2001 would be a masochist...

I am not an expert, but since someone is beaten in a regular basis, for a outsider as me, it is pretty similar to masochism.

Joh It sounds better but they named it by them self.

right, i remembered it differently

Vanessa yes,but nothing hint that they like/use bondage nor that @Sara2001 would be a masochist...

well the chastity equipment or at least the thigh bands could be considered bondage, besides she once wrote here that her hands are tied when she takes a shower, that is already a bit bondage for me.

I think masochism can be defined in different ways. For me, what @Sara2001 does would be self-masochism, but I don't think she sees it that way because she was brought up differently.