Abby82 Yeah, but you could lose weight or something, my parents say 😅 but yeah its just a waste of time.

well, when i look at myself in the mirror, so if i lost more weight, it would become life-threatening 😂

Yolanda

i agree that you have to check the equipment and the padlocks once or even several times a day to make sure that it is still tight and that nothing has been manipulated. however, i think it is too much to show all positions.

Abby82 Not daily, have you ever even found that the belt is too loose in some position? Probably not.

maybe your parents think it's the same principle as an air mattress? that it gets thinner and thinner after a while? 😂

          Megan You take some time at your old bedroom at your mothers or do you mean when going to doctor etc???

          I meant if I managed to take off the belt somehow without letting her know.

              Renita I thought it was your choice wearing a belt. So why trying to take it off or cheating?
              Please rember: You can quit whenever you want.

                  a_father nope, you hand over the keys, you stay in the belt. I’m pretty sure that’s a rule or something.

                  (I kid, I kid.)

                      I usually have a check every 2 days. But it usually goes pretty quick. And if I think somethings I wrong I can always ask

                      Abby82 Not daily, have you ever even found that the belt is too loose in some position? Probably not.

                      When i'm checked i feel like an acrobat and the result is always the same:belt stays tight.

                      In the morning after cleaning it is important to check that the girls will be safe and well.
                      Seeing that the belt is well adjusted every day must also serve to make you calmer and confident that one more day you will be well protected.
                      I seem to remember that you are also punished if you try to cheat, that review keeps punishment away and maybe your mom would be punished too.

                          Rafael

                          Yolanda

                          Completelly right, checks are importatnt, of the balt is not damaged, of od fitting tight and well...

                              Saintprudence And she can change the rules whenever she wants. She is an adult independent woman. Her mother can't force her to continue wearing. Her life, her choice.

                                Angelina i agree that you have to check the equipment and the padlocks once or even several times a day to make sure that it is still tight and that nothing has been manipulated. however, i think it is too much to show all positions.

                                I spend about 5-10 minutes with each girl, my husband takes much less time with me.
                                Checking everything is important to see that there is no danger for the girls and the mere fact of being checked puts your mind in an adequate state of mind.

                                Abby82 Well in my rules it is stated that cheating is not allowed, but i don't get caught from doing it. Parents probably know that i'm fighting the belt sometimes but they really don't care about it.

                                Surely they turn a blind eye because they know from the reviews that whatever you do you will be safe.

                                Abby82 But theoretically i can understand that the belt wouldn't be effective if it would give some chance to touch the crotch in some position. But that's what i dream about

                                We all have that idea in our heads at some point, it is in our nature as women, that is why it is so important that the belt is out of our control and protects us above all from us, who are our worst temptresses.

                                        Yolanda the mere fact of being checked puts your mind in an adequate state of mind.

                                        The mental impact of being checked is probably more important than the checking itself. Just knowing that your restriction will be monitored lets a belted girl know that she should relax and not struggle as much, for fear of leaving evidence that they've rebelled against their lockup.

                                            Saintprudence

                                            Very well described.
                                            As a man, the only way I have to get involved is by showing how important it is for me to see that she is okay and that the belt is safe.

                                              Abby82 But theoretically i can understand that the belt wouldn't be effective if it would give some chance to touch the crotch in some position. But that's what i dream about 😅 😅

                                              but precisely because the belts are so effective, i don't see the point in you doing "acrobatics" every day. a secure belt should not allow cheating no matter how you bend.

                                              Yolanda and the mere fact of being checked puts your mind in an adequate state of mind.

                                              really? it would make me more nervous, i.e. that the keyholder finds something he/she considers to be an attempt to cheat and that i am then unjustly punished.

                                                  a_father So why trying to take it off or cheating?

                                                  To prove, that I can't.

                                                  a_father You can quit whenever you want.

                                                  Yes.

                                                      Yes, you get a little tense, especially when the review is long.
                                                      But to surprises, my cousin likes reviews. Her mother didn't make them and she says she feels better that way, more cared for.

                                                        Raquel But to surprises, my cousin likes reviews. Her mother didn't make them and she says she feels better that way, more cared for.

                                                        I think nothing would feel worse than to be belted full-time with the feeling that your keyholder just didn't really care. Chastity is not something to lock up and forget it was ever there, but an ongoing process of belt-wearer and keyholder working together for everyone's best interests.

                                                            No!
                                                            I think she is talking about @Barbara , I do not have regular checkings, but I have them several tomes every day due I have some breaks.

                                                              Ines Yes, it is the normal. Always when it is locked again, and randomly some times every day.
                                                              Not only locks, but the rings too.

                                                              Do you see, Laura ? 😂

                                                                  It seems to me that regular checking of adult girls by a father or a man is not right. Perhaps it makes sense to check the locks after removing the belt, but only by the mother