Joh I had a look at the web page of MySteel and the D-rings are options. They must explicit include at the order.

Yes, they have to be ordered extra

Gina I'm not saying I'm sure, but just maybe her parents are like mine and want only the best for her.

that is certainly what most parents want, the question is how we react as daughters. good that you can at least accept it.

Vanessa and not tell her parents that she tried it.

right, that is very important 😉

Vanessa It was the case for me,mainly for masturbating or having sex.

and you have to consider that you have already worn the belt for a long time as a punishment which means that parents can still come up with the idea of permanent wearing after a few years. 🙁

Vanessa Good.But,for several of us,there was "only" the chastity belt at first,and,then they added a chastity bra and/or the thigh bands...

right, she should be extremely careful, thighbands are probably not explicitly planned but could be ordered later on

Jen I'm glad for this, I don't want to offend. But I want to be able to say what I'm thinking.

at least I treat everyone the same here for now 🙂

Joh What does your situation have to do with her past?

i think many mothers who entered marriage as virgins expect the same from their daughters.

                  Angelina i think many mothers who entered marriage as virgins expect the same from their daughters.

                  That was not my point. Her mother blamed her father why he is not sure to support her mother in her proposition. She asked him didn't you care that I was special for you. She implies that it was apparently not important to him.
                  This is an unfair implication because this was at the past and the time has changed. Also @Jen is not a virgin any more. The CB makes no sense in this context

                      Vanessa As you've not your hymen anymore,can't you use it to make them understand it is useless to use a chastity belt now?

                      It can be restored 😃

                      Vanessa but didn't believe they would do it.

                      Was there a reason to not believe?

                            Renita Chastity belts are pretty outrageous things if you're not already up to your neck in the lifestyle. It would honestly make sense to interpret the threat of a belt as seriously as my mom's frequent threat to ground me until I was 50. It's so ridiculous it FEELS like a joke.

                                Saintprudence Chastity belts are pretty outrageous things if you're not already up to your neck in the lifestyle

                                right. usually legal and psychological assessments of a situation like this take into account the 'culture of the person'. What is a appropriate for people differs. Questions such as "is said person living in an isolated community?" "are they secular or more traditional?" should be considered, for example.

                                  Jen No she was just good. I'm good too and will wait till married

                                  You can use it as an argument, but I suggest to go ahead with the belt.

                                  Gina You should wear the belt and be grateful they care so much for you.

                                  Very true.

                                        Joh You are not really a virgin anymore

                                        I disagree.

                                        Angelina i think many mothers who entered marriage as virgins expect the same from their daughters.

                                        Joh This is an unfair implication because this was at the past and the time has changed.

                                        These are both true. Mum says a lot when upset. I think I understand her thoughts more now she has such an extreme different time. They have not spoken to me about this or said it should be like this for me, but I think for Mum it was first ever orgasm with Dad, more than just being virgin. I understand more just how upset she was when she found my toy.

                                        Renita Was there a reason to not believe?

                                        @Saintprudence answered this well. I didn't need a reason not to. Not believing was normal.

                                        Gina But I don't think my parents are wrong.

                                        You have written that you don't like it and also that you don't have a choice. It scares me to read these things - if my parents were both sure that it was best and that they could force it on me, then they likely could have convinced me. Would I then be writing like you do now?

                                                    Jen You should make clear that you are you and your mother is your mother and her experience is not yours. They have no right to decide about your sexuality. They will try to talk you into the belt and once agreed, there is no way back. You should block every discussing about the belt. Best you leave the room, when your parents bring up this theme. Otherwise you end like other girls here. In a discussion you make mistakes. So best to avoid it in a way like 'We can talk about everything, but not about this.' Don't try to understand your mother in this case. Showing understanding is the first step into permanent chastity. You can say, I understand your point of view, but it's your way of life, not mine. And I refuse your methods (the belt).' Girls here who didn't have a choice try to write, that there are advantages too (I can't imagine, what this should be), so as not to have to admit that they are in a hopeless situation. It's like with the Stockholm syndrome (if you don't know, ask Google). At some point you show understanding for those who do this to you in order to be able to endure it better. But that doesn't make it any better.

                                                      Jen but I think for Mum it was first ever orgasm with Dad, more than just being virgin

                                                      It's hard to believe since she didn't wear a chastity belt

                                                      Lana After I get a job, I thought I will wear it just for my protection, and keys will be with me and not them

                                                      I had the same plan. Good luck 😂

                                                            Laura were you told the keys would one day come back to you when you got a job, or you hoped they would?

                                                                Laura It's hard to believe since she didn't wear a chastity belt

                                                                I know for me it's impossible even if I knew Mum thought so strongly. Maybe I guess the wrong meaning of things which were not clearly said or maybe she wants me to believe things which aren't true. Maybe it is like @a_father said and I shouldn't try to understand. But it feels like understanding more will help restore our relationship.

                                                                    Laura after all you’re, what, 11 years belted and still a virgin? It would be a shame to put to waste all those years of virtuous behavior because you got the key.

                                                                        Jen I know for me it's impossible even if I knew Mum thought so strongly

                                                                        Maybe she feels humiliated to admit it

                                                                        Saintprudence It would be a shame to put to waste all those years of virtuous behavior because you got the key.

                                                                        I don't need to wear a belt 24/7 to remain virgin

                                                                              Laura forgive me, I’m probably being too strident, like a recent convert. I’ve been willingly locked for years, but by mother-in-law holding my second key - and acting as a true caring mother - for the past six months is giving me a new perspective as an adult locked by parent.

                                                                                Laura It has been an effective tool at deterring forbidden touch and preserving virginity for more than a decade. It’s little wonder they see no reason to alter a successful schedule. The only true proof against contact is 24/7 security.