Foxies

Well allow me to respond to this absolute behemoth of a post gosh.

1 yes I'm of sound mental health and I'm of consenting age (23)

2 this is not a whim, if i go into chastity this will be permanent

3 again yes, im planning in cleaning breaks

4 once again yes, there will be emergency keys for that

5 my reasons to be chaste are for protection, preventing masturbation, and to focus on my school and my self proposed rules.

6 for now i do not have a keyholder

    Daphne 6 for now i do not have a keyholder

    you should put this at the top of your list, it's the only way the belt system can work. 😉

      Daphne

      you should not give the keys to a stranger from a forum, it should be someone you know for a long time and trust (partner, family, friends).

        Daphne In that case, you should be patient. Which is of course already a crucial virtue for the chaste. You hope to be belted for the rest of your life. A laudable goal, but that means it is worth taking the time to find a proper keyholder, even if it takes months or longer.

        In the meantime, keysafes or numbered plastic locks are your friend. Numbered locks are a great way to use outside accountability buddies without surrendering control to them — for instance, you could send photos of the lock on occasion to verify that you haven’t taken it off. On cleaning days, send a pic just before you remove it and another a short time later to show you locked it right back on without any hanky-panky.

          Daphne

          Well in answer to your post, I think your wish to enter chastity my means of a mechanical device is reasonable. I would hesitate to advise you to somehow make it permanent (though I am not sure you could do that anyway). But through my own life experience I know that changing one's mind and attitudes is a fairly common event. And while "permanence" might be a worthy goal, my advice would be to keep that as a sort of distant Everest to climb and in the meantime take each day as it comes and enjoy it to the full.

          The question of finding a trusted (and hopefully loving) keyholder would seem to me an obvious first step though possibly some sort of time safe option might be viable. I am not really qualified to understand all the in's and outs of using time safes, though perhaps @Tobbe could help?

            Foxies

            Well with permanent i mostly mean 24/7 chastity like most of us here, my only release being for cleaning and for emergencies

              Daphne Well with permanent i mostly mean 24/7 chastity

              Ahh sorry. Silly me. I was thinking permanent meant "until the big sleep" 🤣

                Foxies people around here have long tended to be a little fluid with the term “permanent,” probably because of the multiple languages spoken and not everyone being fully aware of how specifically loaded a term it is in the fetish boards. But yes, it seems to have settled here into meaning “24/7, no releases, taken off for cleaning and emergencies only.”

                  Daphne Again i don't know anyone near me that would hold the keys

                  i'm sorry for you, but i wouldn't give the keys to a stranger. there are boxes where you can keep the keys and set a time when the box should open again, maybe that would be an idea, at least until you have found a suitable key holder.

                  Saintprudence

                  Foxies

                  it seems we have similar ideas 😉

                  Saintprudence “24/7, no releases, taken off for cleaning and emergencies only.”

                  this is how I understand it

                    Daphne do you have an upper limit to how long you remain belted in a relationship, or do you hope for it to be indefinite?

                      Daphne since this is specifically your thread, I feel more okay asking broader questions. What’s your everyday routine like? I don’t mean location or identifying info, but rather, classes, job, living arrangements and so forth.

                        Saintprudence

                        Well usually I wake up at 8,do my morning routine and work on school until 4-5. Have dinner, do dishes and afterwards i can spend time on hobbies

                          Daphne When i have more dresses for it

                          Yes,your clothes should be adapted to hide it.If necessary,you may wait until you get more adapted ones,or go do some shopping!😉

                          Angelina

                          I agree.

                          Angelina

                          I agree about it too.

                          Saintprudence it is worth taking the time to find a proper keyholder, even if it takes months or longer.

                          Right.

                          Saintprudence “24/7, no releases, taken off for cleaning and emergencies only.”

                          Yes.