Daphne

Well in answer to your post, I think your wish to enter chastity my means of a mechanical device is reasonable. I would hesitate to advise you to somehow make it permanent (though I am not sure you could do that anyway). But through my own life experience I know that changing one's mind and attitudes is a fairly common event. And while "permanence" might be a worthy goal, my advice would be to keep that as a sort of distant Everest to climb and in the meantime take each day as it comes and enjoy it to the full.

The question of finding a trusted (and hopefully loving) keyholder would seem to me an obvious first step though possibly some sort of time safe option might be viable. I am not really qualified to understand all the in's and outs of using time safes, though perhaps @Tobbe could help?

      Foxies

      Well with permanent i mostly mean 24/7 chastity like most of us here, my only release being for cleaning and for emergencies

          Daphne Well with permanent i mostly mean 24/7 chastity

          Ahh sorry. Silly me. I was thinking permanent meant "until the big sleep" 🤣

              Foxies people around here have long tended to be a little fluid with the term “permanent,” probably because of the multiple languages spoken and not everyone being fully aware of how specifically loaded a term it is in the fetish boards. But yes, it seems to have settled here into meaning “24/7, no releases, taken off for cleaning and emergencies only.”

                  Daphne Again i don't know anyone near me that would hold the keys

                  i'm sorry for you, but i wouldn't give the keys to a stranger. there are boxes where you can keep the keys and set a time when the box should open again, maybe that would be an idea, at least until you have found a suitable key holder.

                  Saintprudence

                  Foxies

                  it seems we have similar ideas 😉

                  Saintprudence “24/7, no releases, taken off for cleaning and emergencies only.”

                  this is how I understand it

                            Daphne do you have an upper limit to how long you remain belted in a relationship, or do you hope for it to be indefinite?

                                Daphne since this is specifically your thread, I feel more okay asking broader questions. What’s your everyday routine like? I don’t mean location or identifying info, but rather, classes, job, living arrangements and so forth.

                                    Saintprudence

                                    Well usually I wake up at 8,do my morning routine and work on school until 4-5. Have dinner, do dishes and afterwards i can spend time on hobbies

                                        Daphne When i have more dresses for it

                                        Yes,your clothes should be adapted to hide it.If necessary,you may wait until you get more adapted ones,or go do some shopping!😉

                                        Angelina

                                        I agree.

                                        Angelina

                                        I agree about it too.

                                        Saintprudence it is worth taking the time to find a proper keyholder, even if it takes months or longer.

                                        Right.

                                        Saintprudence “24/7, no releases, taken off for cleaning and emergencies only.”

                                        Yes.

                                                    Vanessa Yes,your clothes should be adapted to hide it.If necessary,you may wait until you get more adapted ones,or go do some shopping!😉

                                                    I just need a uniform that o should wear or a guide

                                                      Daphne a thought, then: you might review how much you do around the house and figure out what additional domestic chores you might take on.

                                                      you’re 23, so they probably couldn’t actually stop you on anything, but I assume living with parents will not be an impediment to chastity? You’ve indicated they know about it but won’t be involved.

                                                          Daphne I’ll send a question your way now: what are some areas in life you feel would be improved by self-discipline and ladylike behavior?