My daughter says there's a constant "pressure" that the shield applies, but she "doesn't even notice" and "forgets it's there" after getting used to it.
punishment for arousal
shinydiamond77 My daughter says there's a constant "pressure" that the shield applies, but she "doesn't even notice" and "forgets it's there" after getting used to it.
Matter of opinion, I guess. I always know mine is there.
youdontknowme A hip belt probably not as much, but I cannot imagine a large rigid item anywhere around the torso not interfering with mobility in at least some way.
I swear mine gets tighter during my period but I've never read anybody else reporting that.
shinydiamond77 Chastity bra is just unnecessary, it's OK for a girl to touch her chest. Making a girl wear a heavy metallic device on her chest isn't OK.
why is it ok for you if a girl touches the breast but not ok if she touches the vagina. i know stupid question but by touching the breasts a girl can stimulate herself and some can also orgasm. good that you think it is wrong, it is wrong to force someone to wear it but the devices are not wrong in general.
shinydiamond77 My daughter says there's a constant "pressure" that the shield applies, but she "doesn't even notice" and "forgets it's there" after getting used to it.
interesting that it is possible to get used to it. i always notice the belt even when i am distracted. as soon as i move i notice it.
Jen hah nice, too hot for that here. No I meant to say haven't worn my belt - I can still get my jeans on
Ah. I envy you the coming Spring and Summer. I follow lots of Aussie runners on Instagram and all winter (here) long see these pictures of them on the beaches. Nice. Nothing like your beaches in Northeast US.
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Angelina why is it ok for you if a girl touches the breast but not ok if she touches the vagina.
Because it's a much more delicate and intimate part of the body. It is a very private area, and until the girl is older it should be also kept private from the girl too. (Not just the vagina like you wrote, but the entire vulva.)
Angelina i know stupid question but by touching the breasts a girl can stimulate herself and some can also orgasm.
Sure, but for me that doesn't justify a chastity bra. If she somehow learns to do it - oh well. At least she's still not touching down there.
Angelina good that you think it is wrong, it is wrong to force someone to wear it but the devices are not wrong in general.
They aren't wrong in general, but absolutely wrong for a teenager.
shinydiamond77 It is a very private area
PRIVACY: (noun) Freedom from interference or intrusion, the right "to be let alone". Each person has a sphere of existence and activity that properly belongs to that individual alone, where he or she should be free of constraint, coercion, and even uninvited observation.
Why is it offensive to you if a person has knowledge and understanding of their own body?
Angelina that's why i specifically mentioned the time before your relationship,
Before I feared the chastity bra to much.
gwen I have also achieved orgasms this way. It always took quite a bit longer than genital stimulation, and the orgasm was not as intense, but it did happen on occasion.
That's what I have read, too. Thank you for the confirmation.
Vanessa Surprisingly,it seems it varies a lot for everyone,based on what I read here...
Problem no. 1, I would need a vibrator to try.
It also feels like cheating for me.
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Private (adjective):
... pertaining to or affecting a particular person or a small group of persons; individual; personal;
... confined to or intended only for the persons immediately concerned; confidential;
... removed from or out of public view or knowledge; secret;
... not open or accessible to the general public;
... solitary; secluded;
... intimate; most personal;
What's your point? Maybe next time try looking up the word that you actually quoted?
Sin Why is it offensive to you if a person has knowledge and understanding of their own body?
Offensive? Where did that come from?
I have nothing against a girl's knowledge and understanding of a her own body, but if you're suggesting that letting her look or touch down there on a whim without a reason, just whenever she feels like it, would somehow give her knowledge and understanding, then I have to disagree.
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shinydiamond77 Private (adjective):
... pertaining to or affecting a particular person or a small group of persons; individual; personal;
... confined to or intended only for the persons immediately concerned; confidential;
... removed from or out of public view or knowledge; secret;
... not open or accessible to the general public;
... solitary; secluded;
... intimate; most personal;
All of those imply that it is OK for the person themself to engage with it, but not random strangers. Which of these definitions includes depriving the owner themself of the subject?
shinydiamond77 What's your point? Maybe next time try looking up the word that you actually quoted?
WTF do you think I just did? The point is that your child's private parts are hers and hers alone. As you kindly pointed out, pertaining to or affecting a particular person... individual; personal
Your child's genitalia is not your personal plaything.
shinydiamond77 if you're suggesting that letting her look or touch down there on a whim without a reason, just whenever she feels like it, would somehow give her knowledge and understanding, then I would disagree.
Then it would appear you disagree with both science and medicine.
shinydiamond77 I have nothing against a girl's knowledge and understanding of a her own body, but if you're suggesting that letting her look or touch down there on a whim without a reason, just whenever she feels like it, would somehow give her knowledge and understanding, then I have to disagree.
That's how I learned. And I've been testing out with straight As ever since.
shinydiamond77 Because it's a much more delicate and intimate part of the body. It is a very private area, and until the girl is older it should be also kept private from the girl too. (Not just the vagina like you wrote, but the entire vulva.)
yes, but i meant something different. they are both sexual objects, i'm not sure we can distinguish that much, at least in definition
shinydiamond77 Sure, but for me that doesn't justify a chastity bra. If she somehow learns to do it - oh well. At least she's still not touching down there.
then it's ok, I just want to note it
shinydiamond77 They aren't wrong in general, but absolutely wrong for a teenager.
even a teenager has boobs
Sara2001 Before I feared the chastity bra to much
i think i would have taken that risk or rather if i had been aroused it would have happened anyway.
Sin Then it would appear you disagree with both science and medicine.
but it is not a scientific or medical discussion. the topic of chastity belts (both voluntary and involuntary) is always about emotions.
Sara2001 Before I feared the chastity bra to much.
You avoided it because you feared to be caught and had to wear one?
However,your sister was never caught doing it and had to wear one,even now she's single again...Do you know why it was not the case for you?
Angelina if i had been aroused it would have happened anyway.
I agree,wth a chastity belt,but no chastity bra,we would try it.
I still try,if possible,even if with no success...