Raziel LOL yeah exactly. the worst possible case scenario i can literally just go and get a professional to unlock it for me or i can get them removed with a tool. so i really am not worried that much about this because i only got ayear left then im outta here. also im pretty sure the website owner is allowed to see peoples IP addresses when they login but im not sure?
Seeking help and advice on situation
It certainly sounds like you need psych help. Things like cutting are a sign that is needed. The chastity belt is just a side issue of a larger one. And your parents want to help but aren't equiped. I'd look for a way to get counseling, perhaps through your school. You need help to get better and in your case, in or out of a CB won't do it.
vyktoryah sorry again if this is the wrong place for this or the wrong tags plz correct me if its not and ofc ty for any replies and for reading this though!
no, this is the right place, but i don't think you should "pay" for your sisters' mistakes. every girl is different. 
vyktoryah its because they are above 18 im pretty sure
your 19 year old sister is still living with you right? should she get a belt too? i don't understand why you should wear a belt and your sister doesn't, although she has much more reason to do so
Laura In my opinion,your parents should started with your older sisters, because they are already guilty
I agree
@vyktoryah
i have to admit i got out at a certain point, too much information for a non-native speaker. who is supposed to wear a belt now? you or your sisters too? has a belt already been ordered for you now? has a belt been ordered for your sisters?
sorry for the stupid questions, but i lost track at some point.
Angelina sorry about the confusion lol. i kind of just ramble or rant alot sometimes so its probably really hard to understand what im saying sometimes if you arent native to english i assume. as of right now though nobody is wearing a belt but my mom said that i would be getting one and then i made that post and then everyone told me to call her so i did and asked her that she tells me if my sisters are getting one too ETC. and then said that everyone else would be having similar arrangements put onto them as well. so i presume thats whats going to happen but i dont 100% know because i didnt get a chance to ask her about the belt when we were having a discussion last night about those other things i mentioned in my update.
vyktoryah my mom apparently had one when she was younger
She did? Then how did the situation go so far?
Christine im not sure what in specific youre asking, sorry. ill try to guess though. so if youre asking why my sisters are like this well i dont think its exaclty my parents fault. libby started having boys over a while ago and then she was smoking weed and selling it out of our house so my parents kicked her out. (before her baby) she goes and gets pregnant with some bad dude like 2-3 years later and my parents feel bad about her situation after she has her kid so they gave her a place to stay. my other sister though around the time of libby being kicked out had a baby with a bad guy that she was KINDA living with. she had not really moved out officially but wasnt really there often at all.( she was at her boyfriends) and whenever she was back it was always when my parents were gone and shed brng her bf over and theyd have sex etc and pay me to not say anything about it. but he ended up being abusive and so she left him and moved back home for real again but with a child after he strangled her and she called the police and he went to jail for it but hes out now. so libby then comes back around this time like 2-3 different times changing between living here and not wanting to live with her bf etc. she did this cycle abunch between leaving him and coming back and then bringing different guys over until finally my parents had enough and said she needs to make up her mind between living here or leaving. little did we know she got pregnant again during this time and thats kinda where we are now.
but my mom stopped wearing her belt due to medical issues and she only started wearing one because of a bad thing that happened to her as a kid. so it wasnt really a traditional thing its just been brought up again because of how everyones acting
vyktoryah
I read you post and want add tome thought.
Your are in puberty with a lot of change in your body and mind.
but ive made attempts at my life in the past and im depressed currently and i cut myself sometimes too
You have some history with serious problems and you are depressive.
Both together is a lot to process which needs time and passion.
Did you ever met your online friend in real life?
If yes have you spent time together that you see how you really are and fit together?
Living together can be nice bad also a burden. Small thing can create big tension. Like who will doing the dishes, or let lie around the dirty cloth, or who is doing the shopping, cleaning, etc.
I will not say you should not but you should be sure it will work out.
Moving out is a big change in your life and you are in a big change already.
My advice do it step by step and not all in one. What looks like a solution could be a mistake in the end.
To get in contact with other peoples. You could join a club, or a dog that you walk several times a day, you could volunteer for a social project, etc.
vyktoryah being a parent definitely isnt easy lol theres no book or whatever to it andevery kid is different
You can find so many books for parenting and also for you questions, if what your father believe right or not.
vyktoryah thats how i feel about the porn thing but apparently when you orgasm it releases some hormones or something that are supposed to make you happy and then if you do that abunch you feel less happy overtime???
My experience with orgasm is it is a great relive and make me happy. If I have it too often it worn out. If you do it too often it can be addictive. You have to find out for yourself what is the right balance between helpfull and too much.
Some here have a problem with masturbation and find a solution in chastity. I think they work on the cause not on the problem but everyone has to decide for themselves what the best solution is.
The same apply to you.
Form an opinion on the various topics by consulting different sources of information. Learn your rights, find out what is important to you and what is not, what you like and what you don't like. Find your position and stand up for it.
vyktoryah i agree with that for sure! it definitely should apply to them
Fairer,but it would not help you avoid it.
And,if your sisters know you wanted your parents to use chastity belts on them too,they can haven resentment over you...
vyktoryah i just know the next 2 weeks at most because thats how delivery works
Have they measured you and your sisters(maybe without telling why)?
If not,the belt would probably not be a major brand one,and may not fit.
Ines I have sisters, and rules are the same.
Different as it is willingly.If she hasn't changed her mind,one of your sister is able to not wear as she don't want to,right?
A chastity belt is never a solution.
Jen Tell them you refuse
Tell them your not trying it
It worked for you,but not sure for her.
vyktoryah ill go to how ive always been pretty well behaved too and i do my chores and stuff.
It was not the case of your sisters?
Laura In my opinion,your parents should started with your older sisters, because they are already guilty
It would be fairer,at least.
vyktoryah to make an acccomadation with my sisters that if they want to live here rent free off my parents they need to wear a belt too.
Classical for reluctant wearers.
I doubt it would help her,as she would probably be a reluctant wearer too.
HHelen I wouldn't belt you now if you promised to remain virgin.
But later,as for your daughter?
vyktoryah they no longer have locks on their doors starting tomorrow and they have to share locations with my parents on the iphone messenger. they also arent allowed to have anyone over and they need to start saving money to move out and they have to do almost all the chores except for the one i have and they are gonna be SUPPOSEDLY making dinner every night too.
They know it?How have they reacted?
vyktoryah belting a pregnant woman raises difficulties
Sure.
Maybe after her pregnancy,but it would be awful for her to know she would have it on in a few months,without being able to avoid it...Very stressful!
Do your parents know it?
vyktoryah but my mom said she doesnt want me to touch myself anymore
Sorry for you...
And chastity belts are very effective to prevent it.
I guess it would apply to your sisters too.
vyktoryah she says that not masturbating can increases ur moods and you have more motivation to do things and get out of bed and youll wana work out and stuff. is any of that even true???
Only if you do this to distract you of your urges.
vyktoryah ive developed a major dependence on being with my friend who is an online friend though. we literaly spend all day if we can just doing stuff together.
Planning to live with someone you don't know well IRL is very very risked.I strongly advise you to take good care,and let your parents/friends(your friends,not his friends)know where you are,what you're doing and such.And waiting to know him well IRL,and after he met your family a few times before living with him would be better.
And even more,if he knows you're depressed and in troubles with your family,he can easily think you would be easy to manipulate.
Vanessa Different as it is willingly.If she hasn't changed her mind,one of your sister is able to not wear as she don't want to,right?
Right. She is becoming more feminine, but she is far of liking a chastity belt.
A pity because it would help her, but... Anyone can live the life of another person.
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Joh Vanessa sorry if i missed anything anyone said ill try to answer everything with this reply.
also im not sure how to quote messages like you do so i will just go down and answer it
ive definitely discussed all those things with my friend though and i know the risks that come withmeeting up with online people and im usually really skeptical about it but the things theyve done for me and the positions theyv eput thsmelves in for me makes me feel they are genuine. nobody knows my plans yet though
from what i know though my sisters do not know about the belts. i havent asked them about it and they havent seemed any different. they also usually dirty up the house then leave it and didnt really care. theres always dishes around the place and anytime they are home its just a tornado of clothes and stuff. as for the measurements though my mom has measured me but it hasnt been for awhile and to my knowldge its only to buy me new clothes but she of course does have my size. but in all i really have made goodplans with my friend its actually a married woman that i dont plan on really being TOGETHER with i just wana live with them and play games hang out and just have a good time because we have been doign that for awhile and it just seems like what i want in life. weve already discussed the jobs we are gonna have and how we will pay for everything and we have really good communication skills so im definitely thinking it will go okay but thank you everyone for your concerns and replies. i still reallyt dont know how i feel about all of this so many people say different things about chastity lol. some people say its good and the end result is better and other people say it only works if the person wants it. imnot sure what i want i want to be happier of course and i wana not end up like my sisters so idk. no new major updates as of right now though
Vanessa Maybe after her pregnancy,but it would be awful for her to know she would have it on in a few months,without being able to avoid it...Very stressful!
she should not find out during pregnancy, this could cause a lot of stress and put the child at risk
vyktoryah also im not sure how to quote messages like you do so
mark the text part, then it will be displayed 
vyktoryah no new major updates as of right now though
so you haven't talked to your parents about this exactly? i hope you can avoid the belt.
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vyktoryah
Please, let me show my sincere opinion, and please believe me, I do not want hurt you.
If the story is true, you have to ask for professional help.
This is a forum about chastity belts, we are not more that a group of girls giving advices about what can we do if our belt pinches us, or silicon is getting bad aspect. We can give tips, but you do not need tips, but help.
I am only a kid, but I know that your attempt of building a life with a married woman founded on playing is not very realistic.
I am very skeptical and even a bit cynical with some stories that some people write here, simply I do not believe them, but, there is something in your story that worries me.
We are only a group of friends, a witches gossiping coven , all said in affectionate way, and you need something more.
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Ines theres alot about me you and everyone here doesnt know of course because my information is only so limited. snd im not that great at explaning things but its no secret that my life hasn tbeen great i know that but my friendship isnt really built on playing games its just that playing games is our only real way of spending time together via online. i met them awhile ago and before that my life was really a lot worse i was way more depressed and ive been to counseling before and ive been on medications for it and it doesnt work for me for whatever reason. what has worked though is me being with my friend and me wanting to live with them its given me hope for once about the future and i know it sounds wrong or weird but i promise i really dont see myself being happy any other way. ive had bfs and i dont really desire sex with anyone. im content with myself and i just kinda hate the current state of the world and how everything is so corrupt and its laways about money and people literally die so some person behind the scenes nobody knows about can get a paycheckt ehy already have 50000 of. i hate all fo it this entire world is terrible and they do everythign to make it harder for the people just wanting to live normal lives. i always think about how shit everything is for people all over the place and it just ruins any motivation i have for wanting to do anything.
i had planned already not to be of existence when i was 18-20ish so that once i became a real adult and life got really hard i wouldnt have to deal with it. but my friend is really the only thing thats given me enough motivation to push through that theyve helped me though with a lot of past trauma and stuff that ive had and its made a tremendous impact on my life so i know 100% they are right for me and i will be happy because theyve done nothing but stay up all night for me to help me when im not feeling okay enough to sleep cuz of bad nightrmares or things that happen to me. i reall have tried medications before though and ive been to 2 different non school counselors. usualy the ones at my schools are not really serious about their job it feels like. when iwould go to the school one they half the time werent even available so i just sat in the office crying but im just trying to say that games isnt the foundation of this. its jsut that theyve made my life so much better for the sake of me and at first we didnt plan on living toigether and they were the same person back then too. my story though is of course real and my life isnt a joke but i 100% understand your concerns and doubts you may have or have had especially with this being the internet and you not knowing me at all. this "professional" help though makes me anxious to even think about. i dont wana go to a hospital thats not gonna help me i have different needs than some people im jsut really weird idk but i cant go there. i already wana move out so bad and i dont wana go to an even worse place where i cant even talk to my friend who i need. about the belts though i dont really know how i feel about that yet. i feel i want to just know how it would shape me and if it really would help me. i do masturbate quite a lot actually when i looked up how often people do and stuff. so i just wonder i guess if it could actually be a cause of me not being truly happy yet. sorry for the big message though and thank you everyone for replies and concerns.
vyktoryah I am not an expert and can't offer any help in your situation. But masturbating is not the cause of your problems. You might be using it as an escape, sure, but to me it appears it's your environment that is causing your unhappiness.
There is one thing I would like to point out, and it's that your world now is very insular. It might seem impossible right now, but changing your environment is key to changing your mindset. This might take years, but believe me, that's not as long as it seems!
I take it you have not experienced much outside of your bedroom, your school, family, town, whatever. The world is a much, much bigger place than you can possibly imagine. Travelling might be difficult now, but it won't stay that way forever. Have you ever wanted to see ummm... I don't know... the Pyramids? Machu Picchu? A beach in Costa Rica? A jungle in Laos? What about Australia?
The point I want to make is that your current situation is not making you happy, so work towards changing it (however long that may take). Make a goal to be somewhere completely different in three years. Take a shit job in retail. Flip some burgers. Make a website. Learn how to mix drinks. All of these things will give you skills you can use later in life, almost anywhere in the world.
Travelling won't solve all your problems, but at least it's something different. I don't mean a Contiki tour where you get drunk for two weeks. Save $15,000, take a plane to ____ and never look back. There is so much more to the world than what you know, and it's all yours to explore. Some of it sucks, some of it is fantastic, and much of it is just utterly bizarre. Life is always worth living. You just have to figure out where to look.
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Sin
And you should travel to Europe. Visit our castle along river Rhein and see towns with longer history than anything in USA beside it is from the Native American.
One of the biggest highlights from my Australian friend was a comment about an old house we passed. "Wow, that's older than my country is known".
As @Sin wrote their are so many things outside worth to explore.
Sin i actually do have an interest in going to japan to try some of the food there. ive really heard a lot of good stuff about that so i definitely could try that everything just seems so expensive lol but i definitely am and have been considering the possibility of traveling a little but i definitely dont mean to be negative i just dont find that stuff as fun or interesting. i dont really like the idea of flying and driving that far is a hassle and if not more dangerous than is the same as flying. but anyway yes i do wana go to japan for some nice food
Interesting posting for one who is 15.