Seeking help and advice on situation

vyktoryah
I read you post and want add tome thought.

Your are in puberty with a lot of change in your body and mind.

but ive made attempts at my life in the past and im depressed currently and i cut myself sometimes too

You have some history with serious problems and you are depressive.
Both together is a lot to process which needs time and passion.

Did you ever met your online friend in real life?
If yes have you spent time together that you see how you really are and fit together?
Living together can be nice bad also a burden. Small thing can create big tension. Like who will doing the dishes, or let lie around the dirty cloth, or who is doing the shopping, cleaning, etc.
I will not say you should not but you should be sure it will work out.
Moving out is a big change in your life and you are in a big change already.
My advice do it step by step and not all in one. What looks like a solution could be a mistake in the end.

To get in contact with other peoples. You could join a club, or a dog that you walk several times a day, you could volunteer for a social project, etc.

vyktoryah being a parent definitely isnt easy lol theres no book or whatever to it andevery kid is different

You can find so many books for parenting and also for you questions, if what your father believe right or not.

vyktoryah thats how i feel about the porn thing but apparently when you orgasm it releases some hormones or something that are supposed to make you happy and then if you do that abunch you feel less happy overtime???

My experience with orgasm is it is a great relive and make me happy. If I have it too often it worn out. If you do it too often it can be addictive. You have to find out for yourself what is the right balance between helpfull and too much.
Some here have a problem with masturbation and find a solution in chastity. I think they work on the cause not on the problem but everyone has to decide for themselves what the best solution is.
The same apply to you.
Form an opinion on the various topics by consulting different sources of information. Learn your rights, find out what is important to you and what is not, what you like and what you don't like. Find your position and stand up for it.

vyktoryah i agree with that for sure! it definitely should apply to them

Fairer,but it would not help you avoid it.

And,if your sisters know you wanted your parents to use chastity belts on them too,they can haven resentment over you...

vyktoryah i just know the next 2 weeks at most because thats how delivery works

Have they measured you and your sisters(maybe without telling why)?

If not,the belt would probably not be a major brand one,and may not fit.

Ines I have sisters, and rules are the same.

Different as it is willingly.If she hasn't changed her mind,one of your sister is able to not wear as she don't want to,right?

James

A chastity belt is never a solution.

Jen Tell them you refuse
Tell them your not trying it

It worked for you,but not sure for her.

vyktoryah ill go to how ive always been pretty well behaved too and i do my chores and stuff.

It was not the case of your sisters?

Laura In my opinion,your parents should started with your older sisters, because they are already guilty

It would be fairer,at least.

vyktoryah to make an acccomadation with my sisters that if they want to live here rent free off my parents they need to wear a belt too.

Classical for reluctant wearers.

MaximeJourennes

I doubt it would help her,as she would probably be a reluctant wearer too.

HHelen I wouldn't belt you now if you promised to remain virgin.

But later,as for your daughter?

vyktoryah they no longer have locks on their doors starting tomorrow and they have to share locations with my parents on the iphone messenger. they also arent allowed to have anyone over and they need to start saving money to move out and they have to do almost all the chores except for the one i have and they are gonna be SUPPOSEDLY making dinner every night too.

They know it?How have they reacted?

vyktoryah belting a pregnant woman raises difficulties

Sure.

Maybe after her pregnancy,but it would be awful for her to know she would have it on in a few months,without being able to avoid it...Very stressful!

vyktoryah

Do your parents know it?

vyktoryah but my mom said she doesnt want me to touch myself anymore

Sorry for you...

And chastity belts are very effective to prevent it.

I guess it would apply to your sisters too.

vyktoryah she says that not masturbating can increases ur moods and you have more motivation to do things and get out of bed and youll wana work out and stuff. is any of that even true???

Only if you do this to distract you of your urges.

vyktoryah ive developed a major dependence on being with my friend who is an online friend though. we literaly spend all day if we can just doing stuff together.

Planning to live with someone you don't know well IRL is very very risked.I strongly advise you to take good care,and let your parents/friends(your friends,not his friends)know where you are,what you're doing and such.And waiting to know him well IRL,and after he met your family a few times before living with him would be better.

And even more,if he knows you're depressed and in troubles with your family,he can easily think you would be easy to manipulate.

Vanessa Different as it is willingly.If she hasn't changed her mind,one of your sister is able to not wear as she don't want to,right?

Right. She is becoming more feminine, but she is far of liking a chastity belt.
A pity because it would help her, but... Anyone can live the life of another person.

Vanessa Maybe after her pregnancy,but it would be awful for her to know she would have it on in a few months,without being able to avoid it...Very stressful!

she should not find out during pregnancy, this could cause a lot of stress and put the child at risk

vyktoryah also im not sure how to quote messages like you do so

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vyktoryah no new major updates as of right now though

so you haven't talked to your parents about this exactly? i hope you can avoid the belt.

Vanessa But later,as for your daughter?

Many things might happen. But yes.

vyktoryah I am not an expert and can't offer any help in your situation. But masturbating is not the cause of your problems. You might be using it as an escape, sure, but to me it appears it's your environment that is causing your unhappiness.

There is one thing I would like to point out, and it's that your world now is very insular. It might seem impossible right now, but changing your environment is key to changing your mindset. This might take years, but believe me, that's not as long as it seems!

I take it you have not experienced much outside of your bedroom, your school, family, town, whatever. The world is a much, much bigger place than you can possibly imagine. Travelling might be difficult now, but it won't stay that way forever. Have you ever wanted to see ummm... I don't know... the Pyramids? Machu Picchu? A beach in Costa Rica? A jungle in Laos? What about Australia?

The point I want to make is that your current situation is not making you happy, so work towards changing it (however long that may take). Make a goal to be somewhere completely different in three years. Take a shit job in retail. Flip some burgers. Make a website. Learn how to mix drinks. All of these things will give you skills you can use later in life, almost anywhere in the world.

Travelling won't solve all your problems, but at least it's something different. I don't mean a Contiki tour where you get drunk for two weeks. Save $15,000, take a plane to ____ and never look back. There is so much more to the world than what you know, and it's all yours to explore. Some of it sucks, some of it is fantastic, and much of it is just utterly bizarre. Life is always worth living. You just have to figure out where to look.

Interesting posting for one who is 15.

vyktoryah Japan it is then! (Good choice). Did you know it's actually pretty easy to get a job teaching English in Japan? Let's aim to spend your 20th birthday in Kyoto. You could do this...
https://www.lonelyplanet.com/articles/hiking-the-kumano-kodo-japans-ancient-pilgrimage-route
Or go to an onsen with snow monkeys! Or dress up in Akihabara!! Japan is nuts. Why not live there for a year?

vyktoryah i dont really like the idea of flying and driving that far is a hassle

Yeah I'd say driving to Japan might throw up some challenges... But that's all part of the fun I guess!

Ines

Do you think she may change her mind about chastity belt,too?Or probably never?

vyktoryah how to quote messages like you do

You can highlight the part you want to quote with your mouse,and a "quote" button would appear.

vyktoryah ive definitely discussed all those things with my friend though and i know the risks that come withmeeting up with online people and im usually really skeptical about it but the things theyve done for me and the positions theyv eput thsmelves in for me makes me feel they are genuine. nobody knows my plans yet though

Be careful,and I still think some of your friends and your parents should know it and know with who,and where,you would live.And if someone can check all is ok regularly,it would be better.

vyktoryah from what i know though my sisters do not know about the belts. i havent asked them about it and they havent seemed any different.

Not a good idea,it would be better if your parents discuss it a bit with them before,and not only tell them about it when it is delivered.

vyktoryah they also usually dirty up the house then leave it and didnt really care. theres always dishes around the place and anytime they are home its just a tornado of clothes and stuff.

So the new rules don't apply?

Angelina she should not find out during pregnancy

If her two sisters wear one,she could probably guess she would have to...Even if I agree with you.

Sin But masturbating is not the cause of your problems.

And it would not make her unhappy.

Sin Good choice

I agree.

vyktoryah i just dont find that stuff as fun or interesting. i dont really like the idea of flying and driving that far is a hassle and if not more dangerous than is the same as flying. but anyway yes i do wana go to japan for some nice food

you should not put yourself under pressure, you are still young and the best years are yet to come. do some research on the internet about what activities are possible, you will be surprised how many possibilities there are and maybe you will find something you would like to do.

Vanessa Not a good idea,it would be better if your parents discuss it a bit with them before,and not only tell them about it when it is delivered.

i agree, hiding it was never a good idea

Vanessa If her two sisters wear one,she could probably guess she would have to...Even if I agree with you.

yes, but with pregnant women you should be very sensitive

Vanessa Do you think she may change her mind about chastity belt,too?Or probably never?

It can be possible, but I do not see it as very probable, and even if she could end trying, for sure she will wear it in a different regime.

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vyktoryah I'd say it's the sisters should be belted and you should put this to your parents who are obviously supporting them still so they can make this a condition if they want. Why should it be you restricted due to your sisters' actions?