Jen I dunno it seems more like a sex toy.

That's because it is for most users 😀

Jen Shield and cable both too long.

I believe I have the same belt, so perhaps I can share some advice 🙂

If my waist band is too loose, the whole belt drops a bit and it feels as you describe. Assuming you have a few holes for size adjustment, tighten the belt until everything is snug.

It'll have pressure points at first. Wear it for awhile, take it off, and bend it to add a little space on each pressure point. Repeat the process, and it'll fit comfortably. It took me a couple weeks to get everything bent correctly, and I still need to adjust it every once in awhile.

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        gwen If my waist band is too loose, the whole belt drops a bit and it feels as you describe. Assuming you have a few holes for size adjustment, tighten the belt until everything is snug.

        Yes i worked that out I need to wear it where it fits not where I want it to sit.

            Jen How do those places differ? Does it fit in a way that you didn't expect?

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                Joh

                It is not very easy...

                Jen

                Good you managed it(and without help).

                      Vanessa It is not very easy...

                      I didn't say it is easy but manageable.

                          gwen was trying to wear it lower

                          Vanessa Good you managed it(and without help).

                          getting there... bends easy enough sorting out where to bend is hard

                                I'm quite surprised you're putting so much effort into tuning the fit. Has your end goal changed?

                                Jen was trying to wear it lower

                                If the front shield and cable hang down below, it will need to be tightened so that it sits a bit higher, otherwise it'll chafe terribly.

                                Jen getting there... bends easy enough sorting out where to bend is hard

                                Wear it for some time and move around. Remove it. If you see a red spot, bend a bit more curvature into the band on both sides, that will reduce the pressure on that spot.

                                      Jen getting there... bends easy enough sorting out where to bend is hard

                                      sorry if i missed this, but do you do the bending yourself or does your father support you?

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                                          gwen I'm quite surprised you're putting so much effort into tuning the fit. Has your end goal changed?

                                          It's cause I'm crazy but I like it

                                          Angelina do you do the bending yourself or does your father support you?

                                          No thanks that's your thing

                                                Jen It's cause I'm crazy but I like it

                                                I figured there was a reason that you participated in this forum. 🙂 What do you like about it?

                                                  Jen It's cause I'm crazy but I like it

                                                  I swear to god, you and I might have to form a sub-cult of our own. "Too curious for our own damn good."

                                                    gwen If the front shield and cable hang down below, it will need to be tightened so that it sits a bit higher, otherwise it'll chafe terribly.

                                                    Totally agree. Not only it will hurt, but also it will be totally useless.

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                                                        Ines totally useless

                                                        It'd still prevent penetrative intercourse! But I suppose orgasms would still be more likely.

                                                          gwen Wear it for some time and move around. Remove it. If you see a red spot, bend a bit more curvature into the band on both sides, that will reduce the pressure on that spot.

                                                          Oh! This soooo brings back memories 🤣

                                                            Hi big news I finally wore it in front of them first time in front of anyone - and I think they don't know😁. Used the Voice as motivation🤣 put it on and waited in my room and yeah the Voice started and Arlo was first and I had to get out there so I didn't miss him. So yeah success and had it on for about 4 hours tonight and seemed ok.

                                                              Jen I’m very glad it’s going well for you. So you were able to hide its presence entirely? That’s pretty impressive!

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                                                                  Jen No thanks that's your thing

                                                                  can this also be done without a mocking undertone? i was just asking a normal question

                                                                  Jen

                                                                  seems to be a progress for you, good luck futhermore 🙂

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                                                                        Saintprudence I’m very glad it’s going well for you. So you were able to hide its presence entirely? That’s pretty impressive!

                                                                        yeah it's not so good today. Too much time sitting still - was scared to move - I'm a bit sore today ☹️ the shield isn't right yet.

                                                                        Renita What lock did you use?

                                                                        Same lock but not clicked shut

                                                                        Angelina can this also be done without a mocking undertone? i was just asking a normal question

                                                                        The showering stuff is creepy AF to me but for real some help shaping the belt would be easier. I'm bloody messed up trying to think what i want and with the belt and stuff and yeah it's on my mind how do i do the belt properly living here.

                                                                                Jen The showering stuff is creepy AF to me but for real some help shaping the belt would be easier. I'm bloody messed up trying to think what i want and with the belt and stuff and yeah it's on my mind how do i do the belt properly living here.

                                                                                Think you can get your dad alone and talk to him?

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