Belt fitting
I'm quite surprised you're putting so much effort into tuning the fit. Has your end goal changed?
Jen was trying to wear it lower
If the front shield and cable hang down below, it will need to be tightened so that it sits a bit higher, otherwise it'll chafe terribly.
Jen getting there... bends easy enough sorting out where to bend is hard
Wear it for some time and move around. Remove it. If you see a red spot, bend a bit more curvature into the band on both sides, that will reduce the pressure on that spot.
What do you like about it?Jen It's cause I'm crazy but I like it
I swear to god, you and I might have to form a sub-cult of our own. "Too curious for our own damn good."
Hi big news I finally wore it in front of them first time in front of anyone - and I think they don't know
. Used the Voice as motivation
put it on and waited in my room and yeah the Voice started and Arlo was first and I had to get out there so I didn't miss him. So yeah success and had it on for about 4 hours tonight and seemed ok.
Jen I’m very glad it’s going well for you. So you were able to hide its presence entirely? That’s pretty impressive!
Saintprudence I’m very glad it’s going well for you. So you were able to hide its presence entirely? That’s pretty impressive!
yeah it's not so good today. Too much time sitting still - was scared to move - I'm a bit sore today 
the shield isn't right yet.
Renita What lock did you use?
Same lock but not clicked shut
Angelina can this also be done without a mocking undertone? i was just asking a normal question
The showering stuff is creepy AF to me but for real some help shaping the belt would be easier. I'm bloody messed up trying to think what i want and with the belt and stuff and yeah it's on my mind how do i do the belt properly living here.
Jen The showering stuff is creepy AF to me but for real some help shaping the belt would be easier. I'm bloody messed up trying to think what i want and with the belt and stuff and yeah it's on my mind how do i do the belt properly living here.
Think you can get your dad alone and talk to him?
Jen What would have happened if you’d been caught wearing it? There’s not much concern they’d lock it, right?
Saintprudence What would have happened if you’d been caught wearing it? There’s not much concern they’d lock it, right?
No none of that I just don't wanna talk yet
James Think you can get your dad alone and talk to him?
Yeah no problem but still don't want to.
Jen I can totally appreciate that.
Jen No none of that I just don't wanna talk yet
Good call. I feel like you're mostly working through curiosity, and honestly, that's healthy. It's a weird and interesting thing, after all. And I get less worried about where it's going the more determined you are to stay your own woman. Wearing an unlocked belt right in front of them, on your own terms, and them never knowing it is what the kids these days call a big flex.