Belt fitting

a_father

Angelina In my opinion it's not @Jen's thing. @Angelina, please forgive me, but I think most girls here have a submissive part in their heart. If you don't have this, you can't stand the belt at all. It feels just 'not okay'.
For example my daughter would call the authorities. I'm absolutely sure. You need a dominant and a submissive part (at least a little bit). Otherwise it will never work. @Ines for example, wrote some time ago, she may give her keys to her husband and would continue wearing the belt.
In my case there is neither a dominant nor a submissive part. So a chastity belt will never find a way into our family.

Angelina

a_father but I think most girls here have a submissive part in their heart. If you don't have this, you can't stand the belt at all. It feels just 'not okay'.

so i only have two parts in me. one wants a good relationship with my father and the other is my own opportunism, i like to take the path of least resistance. that might be more selfish but definitely not submissive

Vanessa She should decide what she prefers,but wearing it 20 minutes(and lock open)is not enough to take a good decision.

right, so I recommend waiting a little longer and then deciding.

Ines

Angelina

Angelina if you don't like it, you shouldn't wear the belt.

Short and clear, totally agree.

Vanessa

Angelina

Sure.

Jen I'm making progress I've had it on for 20 minutes now and it's bloody frustrating i think I'm crazy thinking I could wear this long term. And the cable in my butt is really awkward.

Not surprising,it is very hard at the start.

Not very easy after either,but you could manage it better.

Jen And it's all -like not what I imagined- like stuff I said about saving myself for my partner, I dunno it seems more like a sex toy.

It would mainly depends how you consider it,I think.

Your idea about "saving yourself" for your partner is pretty romantic,but hard to do.

Jen With the whole chastity belt pushed up as high as it can go, and with the bending, I can do the waist band tighter and it's secure now.

So you managed to make it fit better,now?

Tobbe

I think so,too.

Sin

I thought at you when she talked about chastity belt as a sex-toy!😉

Angelina

I agree.

She should decide what she prefers,but wearing it 20 minutes(and lock open)is not enough to take a good decision.

Joh it is possible without if it really important for you.

Possible,but hard;she would need a lot of willpower.

Joh

Vanessa Possible,but hard;she would need a lot of willpower.

I don't see a problem. If she really want it she can do it. The question is: does she really want?

Vanessa

Joh

It is not very easy...

Jen

Good you managed it(and without help).

gwen

Jen I dunno it seems more like a sex toy.

That's because it is for most users 😀

Jen Shield and cable both too long.

I believe I have the same belt, so perhaps I can share some advice 🙂

If my waist band is too loose, the whole belt drops a bit and it feels as you describe. Assuming you have a few holes for size adjustment, tighten the belt until everything is snug.

It'll have pressure points at first. Wear it for awhile, take it off, and bend it to add a little space on each pressure point. Repeat the process, and it'll fit comfortably. It took me a couple weeks to get everything bent correctly, and I still need to adjust it every once in awhile.

Jen

gwen If my waist band is too loose, the whole belt drops a bit and it feels as you describe. Assuming you have a few holes for size adjustment, tighten the belt until everything is snug.

Yes i worked that out I need to wear it where it fits not where I want it to sit.

gwen

Jen How do those places differ? Does it fit in a way that you didn't expect?

Jen

gwen was trying to wear it lower

Vanessa Good you managed it(and without help).

getting there... bends easy enough sorting out where to bend is hard

Joh

Vanessa It is not very easy...

I didn't say it is easy but manageable.

Vanessa

Joh

Right.

Jen getting there... bends easy enough sorting out where to bend is hard

It seems you would manage it with time,you have already improved it!🙂

Jen It's cause I'm crazy but I like it

Your feelings about it seems to change more and more!😉

Jen No thanks that's your thing

🤣

However,it would be helpful,I think.

And may(or not)improve the trust,if he helps you with it.

Jen

Congratulations,for daring to wear it in the same piece than them,and for wearing it 4 hours!🙂

How did you felt?

Jen Same lock but not clicked shut

The belt stays in place well enough if not shut?

Jen No none of that I just don't wanna talk yet

Take your time.Not talk about it before you're comfortable to do it.

Jonas

I wonder a bit.

Jen

🤣

However,the more used to it you are,the more you're likely to do such mistakes.

gwen

I'm quite surprised you're putting so much effort into tuning the fit. Has your end goal changed?

Jen was trying to wear it lower

If the front shield and cable hang down below, it will need to be tightened so that it sits a bit higher, otherwise it'll chafe terribly.

Jen getting there... bends easy enough sorting out where to bend is hard

Wear it for some time and move around. Remove it. If you see a red spot, bend a bit more curvature into the band on both sides, that will reduce the pressure on that spot.

Angelina

Jen getting there... bends easy enough sorting out where to bend is hard

sorry if i missed this, but do you do the bending yourself or does your father support you?

Jen

gwen I'm quite surprised you're putting so much effort into tuning the fit. Has your end goal changed?

It's cause I'm crazy but I like it

Angelina do you do the bending yourself or does your father support you?

No thanks that's your thing

Ines

gwen If the front shield and cable hang down below, it will need to be tightened so that it sits a bit higher, otherwise it'll chafe terribly.

Totally agree. Not only it will hurt, but also it will be totally useless.

Foxies

gwen Wear it for some time and move around. Remove it. If you see a red spot, bend a bit more curvature into the band on both sides, that will reduce the pressure on that spot.

Oh! This soooo brings back memories 🤣

gwen

Jen It's cause I'm crazy but I like it

I figured there was a reason that you participated in this forum. 🙂 What do you like about it?

GoodyProctor

Jen It's cause I'm crazy but I like it

I swear to god, you and I might have to form a sub-cult of our own. "Too curious for our own damn good."

Angelina

Jen No thanks that's your thing

can this also be done without a mocking undertone? i was just asking a normal question

Jen

seems to be a progress for you, good luck futhermore 🙂

gwen

Ines totally useless

It'd still prevent penetrative intercourse! But I suppose orgasms would still be more likely.

Jen

Hi big news I finally wore it in front of them first time in front of anyone - and I think they don't know😁. Used the Voice as motivation🤣 put it on and waited in my room and yeah the Voice started and Arlo was first and I had to get out there so I didn't miss him. So yeah success and had it on for about 4 hours tonight and seemed ok.

Saintprudence

Jen I’m very glad it’s going well for you. So you were able to hide its presence entirely? That’s pretty impressive!

Renita

Jen What lock did you use?

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