Belt fitting
Hi big news I finally wore it in front of them first time in front of anyone - and I think they don't know
. Used the Voice as motivation
put it on and waited in my room and yeah the Voice started and Arlo was first and I had to get out there so I didn't miss him. So yeah success and had it on for about 4 hours tonight and seemed ok.
Jen I’m very glad it’s going well for you. So you were able to hide its presence entirely? That’s pretty impressive!
Saintprudence I’m very glad it’s going well for you. So you were able to hide its presence entirely? That’s pretty impressive!
yeah it's not so good today. Too much time sitting still - was scared to move - I'm a bit sore today 
the shield isn't right yet.
Renita What lock did you use?
Same lock but not clicked shut
Angelina can this also be done without a mocking undertone? i was just asking a normal question
The showering stuff is creepy AF to me but for real some help shaping the belt would be easier. I'm bloody messed up trying to think what i want and with the belt and stuff and yeah it's on my mind how do i do the belt properly living here.
Jen The showering stuff is creepy AF to me but for real some help shaping the belt would be easier. I'm bloody messed up trying to think what i want and with the belt and stuff and yeah it's on my mind how do i do the belt properly living here.
Think you can get your dad alone and talk to him?
Jen What would have happened if you’d been caught wearing it? There’s not much concern they’d lock it, right?
Saintprudence What would have happened if you’d been caught wearing it? There’s not much concern they’d lock it, right?
No none of that I just don't wanna talk yet
James Think you can get your dad alone and talk to him?
Yeah no problem but still don't want to.
Jen I can totally appreciate that.
Jen No none of that I just don't wanna talk yet
Good call. I feel like you're mostly working through curiosity, and honestly, that's healthy. It's a weird and interesting thing, after all. And I get less worried about where it's going the more determined you are to stay your own woman. Wearing an unlocked belt right in front of them, on your own terms, and them never knowing it is what the kids these days call a big flex.
Jen The showering stuff is creepy AF to me but for real some help shaping the belt would be easier. I'm bloody messed up trying to think what i want and with the belt and stuff and yeah it's on my mind how do i do the belt properly living here.
you don't have to have the same programme as me, it was just about the fact that men are usually a bit more talented at handicrafts than us women and that he could therefore help you. you should by no means see this as an invitation to do something. 
oh except actually I didn't because it's like the most important thing in the world- Edited
Right.
Jen getting there... bends easy enough sorting out where to bend is hard
It seems you would manage it with time,you have already improved it!
Jen It's cause I'm crazy but I like it
Your feelings about it seems to change more and more!
Jen No thanks that's your thing
However,it would be helpful,I think.
And may(or not)improve the trust,if he helps you with it.
Congratulations,for daring to wear it in the same piece than them,and for wearing it 4 hours!
How did you felt?
Jen Same lock but not clicked shut
The belt stays in place well enough if not shut?
Jen No none of that I just don't wanna talk yet
Take your time.Not talk about it before you're comfortable to do it.
I wonder a bit.
However,the more used to it you are,the more you're likely to do such mistakes.
doesn't hurt today but yeah taking a break