Saintprudence I’m very glad it’s going well for you. So you were able to hide its presence entirely? That’s pretty impressive!

yeah it's not so good today. Too much time sitting still - was scared to move - I'm a bit sore today ☹️ the shield isn't right yet.

Renita What lock did you use?

Same lock but not clicked shut

Angelina can this also be done without a mocking undertone? i was just asking a normal question

The showering stuff is creepy AF to me but for real some help shaping the belt would be easier. I'm bloody messed up trying to think what i want and with the belt and stuff and yeah it's on my mind how do i do the belt properly living here.

          Jen The showering stuff is creepy AF to me but for real some help shaping the belt would be easier. I'm bloody messed up trying to think what i want and with the belt and stuff and yeah it's on my mind how do i do the belt properly living here.

          Think you can get your dad alone and talk to him?

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              Jen What would have happened if you’d been caught wearing it? There’s not much concern they’d lock it, right?

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                  Saintprudence What would have happened if you’d been caught wearing it? There’s not much concern they’d lock it, right?

                  No none of that I just don't wanna talk yet

                  James Think you can get your dad alone and talk to him?

                  Yeah no problem but still don't want to.

                        Jen No none of that I just don't wanna talk yet

                        Good call. I feel like you're mostly working through curiosity, and honestly, that's healthy. It's a weird and interesting thing, after all. And I get less worried about where it's going the more determined you are to stay your own woman. Wearing an unlocked belt right in front of them, on your own terms, and them never knowing it is what the kids these days call a big flex.

                          Jen Same lock but not clicked shut

                          Is it only me who can see where this is headed? 🤣

                              Jen The showering stuff is creepy AF to me but for real some help shaping the belt would be easier. I'm bloody messed up trying to think what i want and with the belt and stuff and yeah it's on my mind how do i do the belt properly living here.

                              you don't have to have the same programme as me, it was just about the fact that men are usually a bit more talented at handicrafts than us women and that he could therefore help you. you should by no means see this as an invitation to do something. 🙂

                                Jen Same lock but not clicked shut

                                Then you must be careful to not do it unintentionally.

                                Jonas Is it only me who can see where this is headed?

                                Me too 😃

                                    Jen Same lock but not clicked shut

                                    To avoid accidentally closing the lock and putting yourself in a situation you don't want to be in, it would be better to get your own lock.

                                      Jonas oh no I've accidentally locked it what an I going to do 😝 oh except actually I didn't because it's like the most important thing in the world

                                          Joh

                                          Right.

                                          Jen getting there... bends easy enough sorting out where to bend is hard

                                          It seems you would manage it with time,you have already improved it!🙂

                                          Jen It's cause I'm crazy but I like it

                                          Your feelings about it seems to change more and more!😉

                                          Jen No thanks that's your thing

                                          🤣

                                          However,it would be helpful,I think.

                                          And may(or not)improve the trust,if he helps you with it.

                                          Jen

                                          Congratulations,for daring to wear it in the same piece than them,and for wearing it 4 hours!🙂

                                          How did you felt?

                                          Jen Same lock but not clicked shut

                                          The belt stays in place well enough if not shut?

                                          Jen No none of that I just don't wanna talk yet

                                          Take your time.Not talk about it before you're comfortable to do it.

                                          Jonas

                                          I wonder a bit.

                                          Jen

                                          🤣

                                          However,the more used to it you are,the more you're likely to do such mistakes.

                                                              Vanessa How did you felt?

                                                              I'm a bit bruised under the shield😳 doesn't hurt today but yeah taking a break

                                                              Vanessa The belt stays in place well enough if not shut?

                                                              it's tight on the post holds fine

                                                                    Jen I'm a bit bruised under the shield😳 doesn't hurt today but yeah taking a break

                                                                    I did not remember the same problem, I remember other! 😆
                                                                    I am happy you are going slowly. Do not hurry, and think well before close that padlock.

                                                                        Jen oh no I've accidentally locked it what an I going to do 😝 oh except actually I didn't because it's like the most important thing in the world

                                                                        😲 There's "accidentally" locking your belt and finding out what chastity is actually like.
                                                                        😐 There's being very careful not to lock your belt and maintaining personal control.
                                                                        🤪 And then there's the conflict between the two.

                                                                        😂 Beware! Curiosity only has to get the better of you for a moment!!

                                                                            Jen oh no I've accidentally locked it what an I going to do 😝 oh except actually I didn't because it's like the most important thing in the world

                                                                            in an emergency, ask your parents for the keys and if they refuse, break open the belt. 😉

                                                                            Jonas 😂 Beware! Curiosity only has to get the better of you for a moment!!

                                                                            😂

                                                                                  Jonas
                                                                                  Reminds me of this story where a woman made a secured mistake. The line of the story: "She reached down and felt the lock and wondered again what it would feel like to be locked."

                                                                                      Raziel ok maybe I've had some whatif thoughts but it's like imagining all the problems are gone and fits great. Like everyone's saying when or if or should i get locked and I'm just trying to make it comfortable for more than a few hours

                                                                                      Ines Do not hurry, and think well before close that padlock.

                                                                                      👍👍

                                                                                            Jen
                                                                                            Are you going to lock it with your parent's padlock or with your own padlock? It's really good that you are taking as much time as you need to fit the belt properly, but I am worried you'll seal your fate by mistake very soon. 😂

                                                                                            In case you wondered, the next sentence of the story said, "She gently fingered the bolt, wondering what it would be like...
                                                                                            SNAP. The lock had suddenly given under her fingers without warning."

                                                                                                Jen I'm just trying to make it comfortable for more than a few hours

                                                                                                There's a point where the fit is basically ok and comfort only develops with wear time as the body adapts.

                                                                                                Raziel "SNAP. The lock had suddenly given under her fingers without warning."

                                                                                                "The belt wants to be locked..." 🤣


                                                                                                As much as I approve of the ideal of chastity, I don't want @Jen to be freaked when all this leads her into the situation where she has to ask to be unlocked.