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Angelina well, not to brag, but my grades were almost perfect before, so there wasn't much to improve (except for english). πŸ˜‰

And,as english has probably improved since you write here,he would have been able to tell you it is a proof that the belt have made you improve it(which is pretty true,even if not in the way he means it)!πŸ˜‰

    Vanessa And,as english has probably improved since you write here,he would have been able to tell you it is a proof that the belt have made you improve it(which is pretty true,even if not in the way he means it)!πŸ˜‰

    actually, yes, my school grade also improved by one grade in the last school year, so ..... crap he was right πŸ˜‚

      Did wearing a cb help any of you to reduce your needs of self pleasuring? In that case, how was your timeline until you stopped needing to stimulate yourself (at least that much)?

      I'm a little worried. Since I know I'm going to wear it, I found myself doing it even more. I keep telling myself that I'm just enjoying it for the last time in IDK how much time... I hope once it's on, it'll reduce my desire eventually.

        Alma05

        Alma05 I hope once it's on, it'll reduce my desire eventually.

        For what it's worth I have worn a CB for just over seven years and I can say categorically it has not reduced my desire one iota. Rather the opposite. By its very presence you can feel something there that is beyond (mostly - 🀣 ) your reach. This leads to a frustration which for me isn't always unpleasant.

        But be aware, I wear it out of choice. In other words I have gifted my sex to my partner in the strongest way I could fathom. In return, my partner does not let me suffer. She is very much aware of my needs, understands how frustrating the belt can be and take steps to make sure I am happy. This has a knock-on effect about her own needs which ultimately leads to more pleasure between us.

        But that is not the rule on this forum. Girls (and guys) are being kept chaste in a manner that is beyond their control. That control is usually maintained irrespective of the wearers needs and feelings. Even so, some wear willingly, but others wear very much against their will which they tolerate for other reasons. However, I imagine most wearers will agree with me that wearing a chastity device will not reduce your desires - and may well make them stronger.

        Just sayin ...

          Foxies
          My "problem" right now is that I spend so much time alone, and each time the desire crosses my mind, nothing stops me from relieving it. Even while watching online classes bc I have no mic/cam recording me. My mother caught me in this situation and she went mad.

          So I think maybe wearing it would prevent me from doing it out of boredom because it won't be that easy as just put the hand down and rub. I thought as time passes it would reduce my desire to do it, it's gonna be hard if it actually increases it.

            Alma05 So I think maybe wearing it would prevent me from doing it out of boredom because it won't be that easy as just put the hand down and rub. I thought as time passes it would reduce my desire to do it, it's gonna be hard if it actually increases it.

            Are there some sports or other things you do to keep busy?

              James
              I'm disabled (dependent on a wheelchair), so sports are out of the equation. Not that I couldn't try any, I simply don't haha.

              As for other things I do, since the virus started my life out of home has been very very limited. This year I'd like to start going out with my friends again (now that restrictions are lower than last year). But my mom is even more worried with that because she thinks I'm gonna get pregnant or something like that. She doesn't realize my condition turns off boys hahaha. Moreover, she doesn't realize I'm not even interested in them...

              Anyways, yes, I have hobbies. Though when sexual desire hits the door, it takes the first position on my priorities if I am able to relieve it in that moment.

              Hell, I look like an addict. I swear it's not that extreme as it sounds.

                Alma05 I'm disabled (dependent on a wheelchair), so sports are out of the equation.

                I don’t know what your exact situation is and I’m not asking, but there are wheelchair sports?

                Sorry to hear she feels that way though.

                  Alma05 So I think maybe wearing it would prevent me from doing it out of boredom because it won't be that easy as just put the hand down and rub. I thought as time passes it would reduce my desire to do it, it's gonna be hard if it actually increases it.

                  I definitely can empathise with that, I also kinda default to that sort of "easy entertainment" when bored, and it played a role in my own chastity experimentation. Now, our experiences cannot be 100% compared because I am male, and I have not been practicing it for too long, but I am pretty sure that locking up has not decreased my time spent on things that turn me on at all - though I feel it had increased the excitement that comes with it.

                    Max9 might rather be due to the conversations, nit due to the belt

                    that's why the emojis, it's more through the back door on the belt πŸ˜‰

                    Alma05 So I think maybe wearing it would prevent me from doing it out of boredom because it won't be that easy as just put the hand down and rub. I thought as time passes it would reduce my desire to do it, it's gonna be hard if it actually increases it.

                    of course it's true that with the belt you don't, or rather can't, do these things anymore, but you'll find that it causes you great frustration, it's a weighing of what's more important.

                    Alma05 I'm disabled (dependent on a wheelchair), so sports are out of the equation.

                    Alma05 She doesn't realize my condition turns off boys hahaha. Moreover, she doesn't realize I'm not even interested in them...

                    that makes me a little sad, it should be self-evident that people with disabilities can also do sports (there are also the paralympics) and if someone really loves you then it will be secondary for him and he will adapt to your situation. πŸ™‚

                      James but there are wheelchair sports?

                      Yes, I'm aware they exist. At least I saw some of them in the tv this summer haha. However I live in small town, you could even call it a village. I'm definitely not the only one around with mobility problems, but there's no such thing as a wheelchair basket team around here.

                      youdontknowme I am pretty sure that locking up has not decreased my time spent on things that turn me on at all - though I feel it had increased the excitement that comes with it.

                      Well, looks like the opposite of what I want T_T

                      Angelina you'll find that it causes you great frustration, it's a weighing of what's more important.

                      I hope I can get over it. At the very least, if I can't avoid cheating, at least it wouldn't be as fast and easy as it would be if I were unlocked. I have not wore it yet, so I don't know if cheating would be even possible. Just to be clear, I'm gonna try my best to not cheat, though everyone here is basically telling me I won't be capable haha

                      Angelina it will be secondary for him and he will adapt to your situation.

                      I'd prefer a her/she but I get the point πŸ˜‚ Thanks, I wish everyone would think the same. Another disadvantage of living in such a small and conservative place, it's hard to come out of the closet and even harder to find someone who has done it too.

                        In my case it made me more horny and have more sexual thoughts but i try to avoid them.

                          Alma05 I hope once it's on, it'll reduce my desire eventually.

                          In general, it increases my desire sharply. However, we did one longer experiment of about 6 weeks and my desire did start to drop off again towards the end. We ended that experiment because the increased desire is what we were pursuing.

                            lucy Same with me I'm just horny all the time. My grades have gone back up but definitely more horny and desperate for release.

                              Joh
                              Not really πŸ˜… I have enough with the physiotherapist sessions twice a week.

                              Alma05 Just to be clear, I'm gonna try my best to not cheat, though everyone here is basically telling me I won't be capable haha

                              i have not managed to cheat after 2 1/2 years, if the belt is good, it is unfortunately also very safe πŸ˜‚ πŸ™

                              Alma05 I'd prefer a her/she but I get the point πŸ˜‚ Thanks

                              you are a lesbian? then welcome to the club, i am bisexual but together with a girl πŸ˜‰ and well, the chastity belt is also like a kind of handicap and also my girlfriend could adapt to it. πŸ˜‰

                              gwen In general, it increases my desire sharply. However, we did one longer experiment of about 6 weeks and my desire did start to drop off again towards the end.

                              that's exactly what i experienced too, at the beginning the desire gets bigger, but at some point it gets a little better (of course never really good)

                                Angelina you are a lesbian? then welcome to the club

                                Thanks πŸ˜„ Reading the forum I discovered there were some non-straight users, so I'm thankful I'm not the freak and that I don't have to hide that side of me. On the other hand, I've never actually dated anyone yet irl, so I don't know if I can be considered a "lesbian" yet haha. Though I know for sure I'm only attracted to women.