Angelina LOL you're probably right, are you not allowed to either? Do you wish you could? Sorry if that's too personal, I've never been able to ask a girl that.
Behaviour change through long term chastity?
Ok,I misunderstood you,yes.
Personally,I've no problem with porn,even one with X actors,but I prefer amateur one(except if the woman is unaware of it,like revenge porn or hidden cam),often more natural and realistic.
Some are clearly fake orgasms,some are more credible.
Christopher17 No it makes me think about it even more.
Classical.
Christopher17 My school results are a lot better as they really went bad just before I was locked up
We have topic about it: Sublimation because of chastity belt.
Possible,but you can prove it is wrong by showing your grades before and after starting to wear it.
Christopher17 LOL you're probably right, are you not allowed to either? Do you wish you could? Sorry if that's too personal, I've never been able to ask a girl that.
it's all in my profile and no i'm not allowed to masturbate and of course i wish i could
Vanessa Personally,I've no problem with porn,even one with X actors,but I prefer amateur one(except if the woman is unaware of it,like revenge porn or hidden cam),often more natural and realistic.
That's exactly what I mean
Vanessa Possible,but you can prove it is wrong by showing your grades before and after starting to wear it.
well, not to brag, but my grades were almost perfect before, so there wasn't much to improve (except for english).
Angelina OK sorry I didn't realise you could see profile details like that, I just worked out how to. OK I feel your pain!
no problem, i often write things twice, three times etc. only the most important things are written on my profile
Angelina well, not to brag, but my grades were almost perfect before, so there wasn't much to improve (except for english).
And,as english has probably improved since you write here,he would have been able to tell you it is a proof that the belt have made you improve it(which is pretty true,even if not in the way he means it)!
Vanessa And,as english has probably improved since you write here,he would have been able to tell you it is a proof that the belt have made you improve it(which is pretty true,even if not in the way he means it)!
actually, yes, my school grade also improved by one grade in the last school year, so ..... crap he was right
Did wearing a cb help any of you to reduce your needs of self pleasuring? In that case, how was your timeline until you stopped needing to stimulate yourself (at least that much)?
I'm a little worried. Since I know I'm going to wear it, I found myself doing it even more. I keep telling myself that I'm just enjoying it for the last time in IDK how much time... I hope once it's on, it'll reduce my desire eventually.
Alma05 I hope once it's on, it'll reduce my desire eventually.
For what it's worth I have worn a CB for just over seven years and I can say categorically it has not reduced my desire one iota. Rather the opposite. By its very presence you can feel something there that is beyond (mostly - ) your reach. This leads to a frustration which for me isn't always unpleasant.
But be aware, I wear it out of choice. In other words I have gifted my sex to my partner in the strongest way I could fathom. In return, my partner does not let me suffer. She is very much aware of my needs, understands how frustrating the belt can be and take steps to make sure I am happy. This has a knock-on effect about her own needs which ultimately leads to more pleasure between us.
But that is not the rule on this forum. Girls (and guys) are being kept chaste in a manner that is beyond their control. That control is usually maintained irrespective of the wearers needs and feelings. Even so, some wear willingly, but others wear very much against their will which they tolerate for other reasons. However, I imagine most wearers will agree with me that wearing a chastity device will not reduce your desires - and may well make them stronger.
Just sayin ...
Foxies
My "problem" right now is that I spend so much time alone, and each time the desire crosses my mind, nothing stops me from relieving it. Even while watching online classes bc I have no mic/cam recording me. My mother caught me in this situation and she went mad.
So I think maybe wearing it would prevent me from doing it out of boredom because it won't be that easy as just put the hand down and rub. I thought as time passes it would reduce my desire to do it, it's gonna be hard if it actually increases it.
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Alma05 So I think maybe wearing it would prevent me from doing it out of boredom because it won't be that easy as just put the hand down and rub. I thought as time passes it would reduce my desire to do it, it's gonna be hard if it actually increases it.
Are there some sports or other things you do to keep busy?
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James
I'm disabled (dependent on a wheelchair), so sports are out of the equation. Not that I couldn't try any, I simply don't haha.
As for other things I do, since the virus started my life out of home has been very very limited. This year I'd like to start going out with my friends again (now that restrictions are lower than last year). But my mom is even more worried with that because she thinks I'm gonna get pregnant or something like that. She doesn't realize my condition turns off boys hahaha. Moreover, she doesn't realize I'm not even interested in them...
Anyways, yes, I have hobbies. Though when sexual desire hits the door, it takes the first position on my priorities if I am able to relieve it in that moment.
Hell, I look like an addict. I swear it's not that extreme as it sounds.
Alma05 So I think maybe wearing it would prevent me from doing it out of boredom because it won't be that easy as just put the hand down and rub. I thought as time passes it would reduce my desire to do it, it's gonna be hard if it actually increases it.
I definitely can empathise with that, I also kinda default to that sort of "easy entertainment" when bored, and it played a role in my own chastity experimentation. Now, our experiences cannot be 100% compared because I am male, and I have not been practicing it for too long, but I am pretty sure that locking up has not decreased my time spent on things that turn me on at all - though I feel it had increased the excitement that comes with it.
Max9 might rather be due to the conversations, nit due to the belt
that's why the emojis, it's more through the back door on the belt
Alma05 So I think maybe wearing it would prevent me from doing it out of boredom because it won't be that easy as just put the hand down and rub. I thought as time passes it would reduce my desire to do it, it's gonna be hard if it actually increases it.
of course it's true that with the belt you don't, or rather can't, do these things anymore, but you'll find that it causes you great frustration, it's a weighing of what's more important.
that makes me a little sad, it should be self-evident that people with disabilities can also do sports (there are also the paralympics) and if someone really loves you then it will be secondary for him and he will adapt to your situation.
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James but there are wheelchair sports?
Yes, I'm aware they exist. At least I saw some of them in the tv this summer haha. However I live in small town, you could even call it a village. I'm definitely not the only one around with mobility problems, but there's no such thing as a wheelchair basket team around here.
youdontknowme I am pretty sure that locking up has not decreased my time spent on things that turn me on at all - though I feel it had increased the excitement that comes with it.
Well, looks like the opposite of what I want T_T
Angelina you'll find that it causes you great frustration, it's a weighing of what's more important.
I hope I can get over it. At the very least, if I can't avoid cheating, at least it wouldn't be as fast and easy as it would be if I were unlocked. I have not wore it yet, so I don't know if cheating would be even possible. Just to be clear, I'm gonna try my best to not cheat, though everyone here is basically telling me I won't be capable haha
Angelina it will be secondary for him and he will adapt to your situation.
I'd prefer a her/she but I get the point Thanks, I wish everyone would think the same. Another disadvantage of living in such a small and conservative place, it's hard to come out of the closet and even harder to find someone who has done it too.
In my case it made me more horny and have more sexual thoughts but i try to avoid them.
Max9 but would she be having those conversations without the belt?
Alma05 I hope once it's on, it'll reduce my desire eventually.
In general, it increases my desire sharply. However, we did one longer experiment of about 6 weeks and my desire did start to drop off again towards the end. We ended that experiment because the increased desire is what we were pursuing.