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Ines

I agree!

Angelina

I would not put in on the net,personally,but I've no problem some do it,and,except since I've the belt on(obviously),I liked to watch it,sometimes.

It can be a part of foreplay with a boyfriend/girlfriend,too.

Angelina

It can stay the same,too.

    Vanessa I would not put in on the net,personally,but I've no problem some do it,and,except since I've the belt on(obviously),I liked to watch it,sometimes.

    Oh, I may have been a little unclear when I said "acted" I meant artificially produced orgasms, that is, something so intimate does not happen naturally. I hope you understand

      Frankly, I have not seen porn many times in my life, and I think I have not seen a orgasm in it, but I could not identify if is true or not πŸ˜….
      In novels yes, I have read about them, but literary language is, sometimes,nice, but not very accurate.

        Jonas

        No it makes me think about it even more.

        I think if I could get out I would make the most of it and make up for lost time LOL.

        My school results are a lot better as they really went bad just before I was locked up, my parents are happier with my behaviour (except when we argue about the cage). I definitely don't think it is worth it though.

          Angelina if you only have the choice between your behaviour has improved or your behaviour has worsened

          Or idk.

          Christopher17

          I don't know why, but sometimes I have the feeling that our parents tell themselves that we perform better since we can no longer masturbate, probably to justify their own decision.

            Angelina LOL you're probably right, are you not allowed to either? Do you wish you could? Sorry if that's too personal, I've never been able to ask a girl that.

              Angelina

              Ok,I misunderstood you,yes.

              Personally,I've no problem with porn,even one with X actors,but I prefer amateur one(except if the woman is unaware of it,like revenge porn or hidden cam),often more natural and realistic.

              Ines

              Some are clearly fake orgasms,some are more credible.

              Christopher17 No it makes me think about it even more.

              Classical.

              Christopher17 My school results are a lot better as they really went bad just before I was locked up

              We have topic about it: Sublimation because of chastity belt.

              Angelina

              Possible,but you can prove it is wrong by showing your grades before and after starting to wear it.

                Christopher17 LOL you're probably right, are you not allowed to either? Do you wish you could? Sorry if that's too personal, I've never been able to ask a girl that.

                it's all in my profile and no i'm not allowed to masturbate and of course i wish i could πŸ˜‰ πŸ™

                Vanessa Personally,I've no problem with porn,even one with X actors,but I prefer amateur one(except if the woman is unaware of it,like revenge porn or hidden cam),often more natural and realistic.

                That's exactly what I mean

                Vanessa Possible,but you can prove it is wrong by showing your grades before and after starting to wear it.

                well, not to brag, but my grades were almost perfect before, so there wasn't much to improve (except for english). πŸ˜‰

                  Angelina OK sorry I didn't realise you could see profile details like that, I just worked out how to. OK I feel your pain!

                    Christopher17

                    no problem, i often write things twice, three times etc. only the most important things are written on my profile πŸ˜‰

                    Angelina well, not to brag, but my grades were almost perfect before, so there wasn't much to improve (except for english). πŸ˜‰

                    And,as english has probably improved since you write here,he would have been able to tell you it is a proof that the belt have made you improve it(which is pretty true,even if not in the way he means it)!πŸ˜‰

                      Vanessa And,as english has probably improved since you write here,he would have been able to tell you it is a proof that the belt have made you improve it(which is pretty true,even if not in the way he means it)!πŸ˜‰

                      actually, yes, my school grade also improved by one grade in the last school year, so ..... crap he was right πŸ˜‚

                        Did wearing a cb help any of you to reduce your needs of self pleasuring? In that case, how was your timeline until you stopped needing to stimulate yourself (at least that much)?

                        I'm a little worried. Since I know I'm going to wear it, I found myself doing it even more. I keep telling myself that I'm just enjoying it for the last time in IDK how much time... I hope once it's on, it'll reduce my desire eventually.

                          Alma05

                          Alma05 I hope once it's on, it'll reduce my desire eventually.

                          For what it's worth I have worn a CB for just over seven years and I can say categorically it has not reduced my desire one iota. Rather the opposite. By its very presence you can feel something there that is beyond (mostly - 🀣 ) your reach. This leads to a frustration which for me isn't always unpleasant.

                          But be aware, I wear it out of choice. In other words I have gifted my sex to my partner in the strongest way I could fathom. In return, my partner does not let me suffer. She is very much aware of my needs, understands how frustrating the belt can be and take steps to make sure I am happy. This has a knock-on effect about her own needs which ultimately leads to more pleasure between us.

                          But that is not the rule on this forum. Girls (and guys) are being kept chaste in a manner that is beyond their control. That control is usually maintained irrespective of the wearers needs and feelings. Even so, some wear willingly, but others wear very much against their will which they tolerate for other reasons. However, I imagine most wearers will agree with me that wearing a chastity device will not reduce your desires - and may well make them stronger.

                          Just sayin ...

                            Foxies
                            My "problem" right now is that I spend so much time alone, and each time the desire crosses my mind, nothing stops me from relieving it. Even while watching online classes bc I have no mic/cam recording me. My mother caught me in this situation and she went mad.

                            So I think maybe wearing it would prevent me from doing it out of boredom because it won't be that easy as just put the hand down and rub. I thought as time passes it would reduce my desire to do it, it's gonna be hard if it actually increases it.

                              Alma05 So I think maybe wearing it would prevent me from doing it out of boredom because it won't be that easy as just put the hand down and rub. I thought as time passes it would reduce my desire to do it, it's gonna be hard if it actually increases it.

                              Are there some sports or other things you do to keep busy?

                                James
                                I'm disabled (dependent on a wheelchair), so sports are out of the equation. Not that I couldn't try any, I simply don't haha.

                                As for other things I do, since the virus started my life out of home has been very very limited. This year I'd like to start going out with my friends again (now that restrictions are lower than last year). But my mom is even more worried with that because she thinks I'm gonna get pregnant or something like that. She doesn't realize my condition turns off boys hahaha. Moreover, she doesn't realize I'm not even interested in them...

                                Anyways, yes, I have hobbies. Though when sexual desire hits the door, it takes the first position on my priorities if I am able to relieve it in that moment.

                                Hell, I look like an addict. I swear it's not that extreme as it sounds.

                                  Alma05 I'm disabled (dependent on a wheelchair), so sports are out of the equation.

                                  I don’t know what your exact situation is and I’m not asking, but there are wheelchair sports?

                                  Sorry to hear she feels that way though.