Amira I meant that the door to the bathroom stays a bit open.

thank you for the clarification, now i understand 🙂 then i wish you a lot of fun and relaxation while bathing 😃

Amira there's a bit of news about my thigh bands. I started to wear them on Fridays from after school till around mid day of Saturday. I do so as my Mom said that she thinks this is something I should consider because friday is the most important day of the week in the muslim week.

how are you doing in general? are you holding up well without breaks so far? do you think the thighbands could even help you?

Chris1 Thank you. I mean, I just wanted to take part in the same discussion Vanessa and Renita were, and when Raziel answered it seemed as though he doesn't like anything I'm saying. All I did was agree with what Vanessa said. So thanks for agreein with me

as long as you remain polite and also accept if someone does not answer you are welcome to participate in any discussion 😉

          The forum lives from being mindful of each other. That includes looking at it and addressing it when it gets out of hand. And everyone is allowed to do that.

            Joh The forum lives from being mindful of each other. That includes looking at it and addressing it when it gets out of hand. And everyone is allowed to do that.

            as long as this is done in a respectful way it is ok, you are doing it very well 🙂

                Angelina No, but frankly I didn't expect him to actually go through with it. 🙁

                At first,you didn't even know chastity belt exists and are still used nowadays...

                Amira I meant that the door to the bathroom stays a bit open.

                Having it a bit open,and not totally open is enough to not cheat?

                Amira I sometimes fought against the effects of it when I was wearing it though.

                Logical.

                Amira I started to wear them on Fridays from after school till around mid day of Saturday.

                Every week?

                Would it stay that way or would you have to wear these longer with time?

                It seems you often have to wear thigh bands for a longer time than before...I wonder if there is no risk to become permanently wearing of these...

                Angelina as long as you remain polite and also accept if someone does not answer you are welcome to participate in any discussion ;à

                I confirm.

                Joh

                I agree.

                Angelina as long as this is done in a respectful way it is ok

                Of course.

                                Vanessa At first,you didn't even know chastity belt exists and are still used nowadays..

                                yes, i didn't believe him at first, a big mistake as it turned out 🙁

                                Vanessa It seems you often have to wear thigh bands for a longer time than before...I wonder if there is no risk to become permanently wearing of these...

                                I think it's more of a risk that @Amira would like it. 😂

                                no seriously. i hardly know a girl here in the forum who has the situation better under control 😉

                                      Angelina t seems you often have to wear thigh bands for a longer time than before...I wonder if there is no risk to become permanently wearing of these...

                                      There's no risk of having to wear them permanently, especially as I know that all of the belt wearing is mostly based on trust and that won't be betrayed. I'm sure of that.

                                      Angelina I think it's more of a risk that @Amira would like it.

                                      well, is not hating it close enough to liking it?

                                      Angelina i hardly know a girl here in the forum who has the situation better under control

                                      I think I can manage 😃

                                              Amira There's no risk of having to wear them permanently, especially as I know that all of the belt wearing is mostly based on trust and that won't be betrayed. I'm sure of that.

                                              i hope it stays that way. you didn't know anything about the thighbands in the beginning either, even if you have got used to it by now you shouldn't let it get too out of hand.

                                              Amira well, is not hating it close enough to liking it?

                                              I wouldn't say that, but you have changed from an involuntary to a voluntary wearer, that can also happen with thighbands. 😉

                                              Amira I think I can manage 😃

                                              Good 🙂

                                                      Angelina yes, i didn't believe him at first, a big mistake as it turned out 🙁

                                                      Understandable,however.

                                                      Angelina I think it's more of a risk that @Amira would like it. 😂

                                                      Not sure,it is very restrictive...

                                                      Angelina who has the situation better under control

                                                      @Jen,@Foxies,@Ines,@Jonas,@youdontknowme,and,more generally,every willing wearers.

                                                      Amira There's no risk of having to wear them permanently, especially as I know that all of the belt wearing is mostly based on trust and that won't be betrayed. I'm sure of that.

                                                      Good,so!🙂

                                                      Amira is not hating it close enough to liking it?

                                                      It can be "not caring about it",too.

                                                      Angelina that can also happen with thighbands. 😉

                                                      It seems less common,however.

                                                                    Vanessa Not sure,it is very restrictive...

                                                                    yes that's true, but I'm not sure @Amira has already surprised me several times 😉

                                                                    Vanessa and,more generally,every willing wearers.

                                                                    yes, i wasn't clear. i mean the risk of becoming an involuntary wearer once you are a voluntary wearer, and then not becoming an involuntary wearer again due to the overconfidence of some parents.

                                                                    Vanessa It seems less common,however.

                                                                    yes, i just want to say that it's not impossible and @Amira seems to be doing better with the thighbands than at the beginning

                                                                            Angelina yes, i just want to say that it's not impossible and @Amira seems to be doing better with the thighbands than at the beginning

                                                                            At least,she may care less about it,as she would manage it better.'

                                                                                Vanessa At least,she may care less about it,as she would manage it better.'

                                                                                yes, i sometimes wish i had the ability to put the negative things so much in the background, it would make it so much easier

                                                                                    Angelina the ability to put the negative things so much in the background

                                                                                    Do you manage it,sometimes?

                                                                                        @Amira So how long do you intend to keep this "no release" plan going?

                                                                                          Chris1 So how long do you intend to keep this "no release" plan going?

                                                                                          🙂 So far I didn't set any date for how long this is going to go. Right now I have the intention to keep it that way even though there are hours when it is getting complicated. Today in the morning in bed was a bit of a tough time after I woke up. I was too lazy to get up right away and grabbed a book to read a bit and my mind wandered away while I was reading and I got some urge to touch myself which I would have done right away if it would have been possible. And the thigh bands made even trying impossible. It took me a couple of minutes to realise that my biology took over my brain, so I got up and took a shower to get my mind off these thoughts. I feel proud that I didn't give in and didn't ask to get released.

                                                                                              Angelina seems to be doing better with the thighbands than at the beginning

                                                                                              Right, but they are still a pain at times, I am not sure if anyone mentioned it so far but: These chains are way too short! 😆

                                                                                                  Vanessa Do you manage it,sometimes?

                                                                                                  yes, but rarely. the volunteers here have an enormous head start

                                                                                                  Amira

                                                                                                  wow, you are incredibly inspiring even for me. i am sure your mother is very proud of you 🙂

                                                                                                  Amira I am not sure if anyone mentioned it so far but: These chains are way too short! 😆

                                                                                                  i think everyone who wears thighbands has mentioned it here before and yes i agree with you 😂

                                                                                                          Amira

                                                                                                          Do you consider wearing these permanently until marriage?

                                                                                                          Did the shower help?

                                                                                                          Angelina rarely

                                                                                                          Understandable.

                                                                                                                Amira Do your urges get better or worse with the time?

                                                                                                                    Vanessa Do you consider wearing these permanently until marriage?

                                                                                                                    what do you exactly mean?

                                                                                                                    Chris1 Do your urges get better or worse with the time?

                                                                                                                    I am not sure, it is different on different days and even on different times of the day. I wouldn't say that it generally got better or worse.