Vanessa I'm pretty sure she meant "door open" but yes,she can explain it.

yes, that would make more sense

Vanessa Were you surprised it was going to be used so long?

No, but frankly I didn't expect him to actually go through with it. 🙁

        Amira I will still have the opportunity to take baths without the belt on for relaxation, but then the door to the bathroom can't be closed.

        Now I'm quoting myself....

        Vanessa Possible,but she write "closed",and,in this situation,it would make sense...

        I meant that the door to the bathroom stays a bit open.

        Raziel I thought it was about to go in the wrong direction.

        so far the direction of the whole thread was perfectly ok to me 🙂

        Chris1 So to be sure I understand it right, you are still allowed releases but you're not allowed to touch yourself anymore, right?

        Hmmm, it is a bit more complicated than that: I want to stop it so I asked to stop these releases for that purpose, but not for the purpose of relaxing baths. I hope you understand what I mean.

        Billy has your new agreement changed anything about thighbands? Do you think you will fight more or less because of this in the future?

        I think I am going to fight less in the future and I never really put up a fight about the belt anyway, I sometimes fought against the effects of it when I was wearing it though.

        there's a bit of news about my thigh bands. I started to wear them on Fridays from after school till around mid day of Saturday. I do so as my Mom said that she thinks this is something I should consider because friday is the most important day of the week in the muslim week.

                    Angelina Thank you. I mean, I just wanted to take part in the same discussion Vanessa and Renita were, and when Raziel answered it seemed as though he doesn't like anything I'm saying. All I did was agree with what Vanessa said. So thanks for agreein with me
                    Vanessa Oops, you're right. 😃 . I missed that. But still the same is true. Everybody had questions for amira, and of course my question was wrong again. I think Angelina is right too, the question was both legit and itnerestign for everyone

                          Raziel It's not your job to look out for me all the time. Ut's annoying

                            Amira Yes I think I understood that. And the releases for touching, when will you allow yourself that again?

                              Amira I meant that the door to the bathroom stays a bit open.

                              thank you for the clarification, now i understand 🙂 then i wish you a lot of fun and relaxation while bathing 😃

                              Amira there's a bit of news about my thigh bands. I started to wear them on Fridays from after school till around mid day of Saturday. I do so as my Mom said that she thinks this is something I should consider because friday is the most important day of the week in the muslim week.

                              how are you doing in general? are you holding up well without breaks so far? do you think the thighbands could even help you?

                              Chris1 Thank you. I mean, I just wanted to take part in the same discussion Vanessa and Renita were, and when Raziel answered it seemed as though he doesn't like anything I'm saying. All I did was agree with what Vanessa said. So thanks for agreein with me

                              as long as you remain polite and also accept if someone does not answer you are welcome to participate in any discussion 😉

                                      The forum lives from being mindful of each other. That includes looking at it and addressing it when it gets out of hand. And everyone is allowed to do that.

                                        Joh The forum lives from being mindful of each other. That includes looking at it and addressing it when it gets out of hand. And everyone is allowed to do that.

                                        as long as this is done in a respectful way it is ok, you are doing it very well 🙂

                                            Angelina No, but frankly I didn't expect him to actually go through with it. 🙁

                                            At first,you didn't even know chastity belt exists and are still used nowadays...

                                            Amira I meant that the door to the bathroom stays a bit open.

                                            Having it a bit open,and not totally open is enough to not cheat?

                                            Amira I sometimes fought against the effects of it when I was wearing it though.

                                            Logical.

                                            Amira I started to wear them on Fridays from after school till around mid day of Saturday.

                                            Every week?

                                            Would it stay that way or would you have to wear these longer with time?

                                            It seems you often have to wear thigh bands for a longer time than before...I wonder if there is no risk to become permanently wearing of these...

                                            Angelina as long as you remain polite and also accept if someone does not answer you are welcome to participate in any discussion ;à

                                            I confirm.

                                            Joh

                                            I agree.

                                            Angelina as long as this is done in a respectful way it is ok

                                            Of course.

                                                            Vanessa At first,you didn't even know chastity belt exists and are still used nowadays..

                                                            yes, i didn't believe him at first, a big mistake as it turned out 🙁

                                                            Vanessa It seems you often have to wear thigh bands for a longer time than before...I wonder if there is no risk to become permanently wearing of these...

                                                            I think it's more of a risk that @Amira would like it. 😂

                                                            no seriously. i hardly know a girl here in the forum who has the situation better under control 😉

                                                                  Angelina t seems you often have to wear thigh bands for a longer time than before...I wonder if there is no risk to become permanently wearing of these...

                                                                  There's no risk of having to wear them permanently, especially as I know that all of the belt wearing is mostly based on trust and that won't be betrayed. I'm sure of that.

                                                                  Angelina I think it's more of a risk that @Amira would like it.

                                                                  well, is not hating it close enough to liking it?

                                                                  Angelina i hardly know a girl here in the forum who has the situation better under control

                                                                  I think I can manage 😃

                                                                          Amira There's no risk of having to wear them permanently, especially as I know that all of the belt wearing is mostly based on trust and that won't be betrayed. I'm sure of that.

                                                                          i hope it stays that way. you didn't know anything about the thighbands in the beginning either, even if you have got used to it by now you shouldn't let it get too out of hand.

                                                                          Amira well, is not hating it close enough to liking it?

                                                                          I wouldn't say that, but you have changed from an involuntary to a voluntary wearer, that can also happen with thighbands. 😉

                                                                          Amira I think I can manage 😃

                                                                          Good 🙂

                                                                                  Angelina yes, i didn't believe him at first, a big mistake as it turned out 🙁

                                                                                  Understandable,however.

                                                                                  Angelina I think it's more of a risk that @Amira would like it. 😂

                                                                                  Not sure,it is very restrictive...

                                                                                  Angelina who has the situation better under control

                                                                                  @Jen,@Foxies,@Ines,@Jonas,@youdontknowme,and,more generally,every willing wearers.

                                                                                  Amira There's no risk of having to wear them permanently, especially as I know that all of the belt wearing is mostly based on trust and that won't be betrayed. I'm sure of that.

                                                                                  Good,so!🙂

                                                                                  Amira is not hating it close enough to liking it?

                                                                                  It can be "not caring about it",too.

                                                                                  Angelina that can also happen with thighbands. 😉

                                                                                  It seems less common,however.

                                                                                                Vanessa Not sure,it is very restrictive...

                                                                                                yes that's true, but I'm not sure @Amira has already surprised me several times 😉

                                                                                                Vanessa and,more generally,every willing wearers.

                                                                                                yes, i wasn't clear. i mean the risk of becoming an involuntary wearer once you are a voluntary wearer, and then not becoming an involuntary wearer again due to the overconfidence of some parents.

                                                                                                Vanessa It seems less common,however.

                                                                                                yes, i just want to say that it's not impossible and @Amira seems to be doing better with the thighbands than at the beginning

                                                                                                        Angelina yes, i just want to say that it's not impossible and @Amira seems to be doing better with the thighbands than at the beginning

                                                                                                        At least,she may care less about it,as she would manage it better.'

                                                                                                            Vanessa At least,she may care less about it,as she would manage it better.'

                                                                                                            yes, i sometimes wish i had the ability to put the negative things so much in the background, it would make it so much easier

                                                                                                                Angelina the ability to put the negative things so much in the background

                                                                                                                Do you manage it,sometimes?

                                                                                                                    @Amira So how long do you intend to keep this "no release" plan going?

                                                                                                                      Chris1 So how long do you intend to keep this "no release" plan going?

                                                                                                                      🙂 So far I didn't set any date for how long this is going to go. Right now I have the intention to keep it that way even though there are hours when it is getting complicated. Today in the morning in bed was a bit of a tough time after I woke up. I was too lazy to get up right away and grabbed a book to read a bit and my mind wandered away while I was reading and I got some urge to touch myself which I would have done right away if it would have been possible. And the thigh bands made even trying impossible. It took me a couple of minutes to realise that my biology took over my brain, so I got up and took a shower to get my mind off these thoughts. I feel proud that I didn't give in and didn't ask to get released.