Amira There's no risk of having to wear them permanently, especially as I know that all of the belt wearing is mostly based on trust and that won't be betrayed. I'm sure of that.

i hope it stays that way. you didn't know anything about the thighbands in the beginning either, even if you have got used to it by now you shouldn't let it get too out of hand.

Amira well, is not hating it close enough to liking it?

I wouldn't say that, but you have changed from an involuntary to a voluntary wearer, that can also happen with thighbands. 😉

Amira I think I can manage 😃

Good 🙂

          Angelina yes, i didn't believe him at first, a big mistake as it turned out 🙁

          Understandable,however.

          Angelina I think it's more of a risk that @Amira would like it. 😂

          Not sure,it is very restrictive...

          Angelina who has the situation better under control

          @Jen,@Foxies,@Ines,@Jonas,@youdontknowme,and,more generally,every willing wearers.

          Amira There's no risk of having to wear them permanently, especially as I know that all of the belt wearing is mostly based on trust and that won't be betrayed. I'm sure of that.

          Good,so!🙂

          Amira is not hating it close enough to liking it?

          It can be "not caring about it",too.

          Angelina that can also happen with thighbands. 😉

          It seems less common,however.

                        Vanessa Not sure,it is very restrictive...

                        yes that's true, but I'm not sure @Amira has already surprised me several times 😉

                        Vanessa and,more generally,every willing wearers.

                        yes, i wasn't clear. i mean the risk of becoming an involuntary wearer once you are a voluntary wearer, and then not becoming an involuntary wearer again due to the overconfidence of some parents.

                        Vanessa It seems less common,however.

                        yes, i just want to say that it's not impossible and @Amira seems to be doing better with the thighbands than at the beginning

                                Angelina yes, i just want to say that it's not impossible and @Amira seems to be doing better with the thighbands than at the beginning

                                At least,she may care less about it,as she would manage it better.'

                                    Vanessa At least,she may care less about it,as she would manage it better.'

                                    yes, i sometimes wish i had the ability to put the negative things so much in the background, it would make it so much easier

                                        Angelina the ability to put the negative things so much in the background

                                        Do you manage it,sometimes?

                                            @Amira So how long do you intend to keep this "no release" plan going?

                                              Chris1 So how long do you intend to keep this "no release" plan going?

                                              🙂 So far I didn't set any date for how long this is going to go. Right now I have the intention to keep it that way even though there are hours when it is getting complicated. Today in the morning in bed was a bit of a tough time after I woke up. I was too lazy to get up right away and grabbed a book to read a bit and my mind wandered away while I was reading and I got some urge to touch myself which I would have done right away if it would have been possible. And the thigh bands made even trying impossible. It took me a couple of minutes to realise that my biology took over my brain, so I got up and took a shower to get my mind off these thoughts. I feel proud that I didn't give in and didn't ask to get released.

                                                  Angelina seems to be doing better with the thighbands than at the beginning

                                                  Right, but they are still a pain at times, I am not sure if anyone mentioned it so far but: These chains are way too short! 😆

                                                      Vanessa Do you manage it,sometimes?

                                                      yes, but rarely. the volunteers here have an enormous head start

                                                      Amira

                                                      wow, you are incredibly inspiring even for me. i am sure your mother is very proud of you 🙂

                                                      Amira I am not sure if anyone mentioned it so far but: These chains are way too short! 😆

                                                      i think everyone who wears thighbands has mentioned it here before and yes i agree with you 😂

                                                              Amira

                                                              Do you consider wearing these permanently until marriage?

                                                              Did the shower help?

                                                              Angelina rarely

                                                              Understandable.

                                                                    Amira Do your urges get better or worse with the time?

                                                                        Vanessa Do you consider wearing these permanently until marriage?

                                                                        what do you exactly mean?

                                                                        Chris1 Do your urges get better or worse with the time?

                                                                        I am not sure, it is different on different days and even on different times of the day. I wouldn't say that it generally got better or worse.

                                                                              Amira what do you exactly mean?

                                                                              you are currently wearing the belt without breaks. do you plan to continue this until your wedding or do you have a specific/undefined time frame?

                                                                              Amira I am not sure, it is different on different days and even on different times of the day. I wouldn't say that it generally got better or worse.

                                                                              can you manage without breaks so far? you wrote earlier that you couldn't imagine that, so i ask

                                                                                    Amira what do you exactly mean?

                                                                                    Wearing the thigh bands permanently until marriage.

                                                                                    Angelina do you plan to continue this until your wedding

                                                                                    Good question,too.

                                                                                          Vanessa Wearing the thigh bands permanently until marriage.

                                                                                          the thighbands? @Amira never wore them permanently. i thought you meant the belt.

                                                                                              Nice to see that I may not be the only chaste girl with Islamic faith. 😊

                                                                                                Vanessa I guessed she would wear the thigh bands permanently,now.

                                                                                                that would be news to me, maybe @Amira can clear it up for us

                                                                                                  ZeynepFox Nice to see that I may not be the only chaste girl with Islamic faith.

                                                                                                  no, you aren't, even though I am not that devotet to our faith. 🙂

                                                                                                  Vanessa I guessed she would wear the thigh bands permanently,now.

                                                                                                  no, I don't! I wear them from Friday after school till different times on Saturday, so nothing overly spectacular compared to others here I guess.