youdontknowme Most often this is due to culturally-instilled shame.
of course, but we are all culturally influenced. i don't think you can absolve yourself of that. the question is how far you go and how you react to it. i partly agree with you, but see it as difficult to do in practice
Joh Or they change their mindset.
There is nothing dirty or shameful about satisfying oneself.
with a single girl i agree with you, with relationships i think differently. however, i would say that it is very subjective and not every girl feels the same way about it.
Dalila But I think 3 months is too long. Maybe try 3 weeks? What does your Mom say?
maybe it would be best not to set a fixed date, so that she doesn't know if it's three weeks or three months, then it might work better, but that's just my guess.
