Vanessa My rules are mainly about what I'm not allowed to wear.
Like short skirts/short dresses,tops showing my belly or with too much cleavage,thongs,high heels,etc...
What I think "sexy" but my parents think as "slutty".
I agree with you .. you discribe the normal dressing of a woman nowadays..
Unfortunately some people have different minds and many women should follow these rules..
I bought some new bikinis off of Revolve during their sale. At some point I'll have to model them for my Dad to make sure they pass muster. Keeping my fingers crossed.
Avery I bought some new bikinis off of Revolve during their sale.
Some of those are a little revealing but I wouldn't mind some of the tops and pants with the buckles.
Avery at some toney place like South Beach or the Riviera, and it would be considered high fashion.
One day yes it's the purest form of clothing to cover yourself 
Megan Some of those are a little revealing but I wouldn't mind some of the tops and pants with the buckles.
Good thought. I have to worry about the bottoms though, not the tops. I'm too flat on top to show too much but the bottoms are a problem. In my father's day girls did not show much at all down there. Now they are cut way low in front and many show most or all of your bum. So in order to pass Dad's inspection I have to buy at least a 3" wide thong. I know pretty much what he wants tho so I figure he'll let me wear what I bought.
Avery So in order to pass Dad's inspection I have to buy at least a 3" wide thong.
You don't have to push it that far if you don't want to.
Guys will know you are a woman if you wear the entire pant and then you might be more comfortable.
It's just up to how you feel you don't need to just barely get approved by your parents
that's really an interesting idea. just say "i'm not crazy i'm a hippster" 
Avery So in order to pass Dad's inspection I have to buy at least a 3" wide thong.
you should not only do this for your father, but also for yourself. you are a woman as a whole, no one should reduce you to just your body, you can also be pretty without being slutty 
Megan You don't have to push it that far if you don't want to.
Guys will know you are a woman if you wear the entire pant and then you might be more comfortable.
It's just up to how you feel you don't need to just barely get approved by your parents
I'm not concerned with guys knowing I'm a woman, as you put it. I want to wear the smallest bikini I can get to stay on me. That's what I want, that's what the girls I hang with do. But I'm not going to defy my Dad, or change into something more revealing after I leave the house, like some girls do. Therefore I want to pass Dad's inspection.
Angelina you should not only do this for your father, but also for yourself. you are a woman as a whole, no one should reduce you to just your body, you can also be pretty without being slutty
I do understand what you mean @Angelina but among my friends we consider being slutty as being how you act. Of course there are places, like the classroom, or just walking down the street, where one must dress appropriately. The only bone of contention with my Dad is the beachwear and just the issue of how much I'm showing of my bottom.
Avery I wonder if one could wear the belt outside some tight pants, maybe to a party or something, as a fashion statement.
Would you worry - being all over insta?
Also I'm thinking like a toy belt is one thing but mine is bloody expensive - like if people find out the cost it's not just a fashion statement any more
Need total butt crack pants too - the cable is snug! Yeah nah not me!
Jen Would you worry - being all over insta?
No. I'd be fully dressed.
Jen Also I'm thinking like a toy belt is one thing but mine is bloody expensive - like if people find out the cost it's not just a fashion statement any more
Mine was a few hundred, also from Australia. You know nothing of fashion if you think what we wear here is considered expensive.
Jen Yeah nah not me!
Has anyone asked you to do it? Mine is not so snug since I am not totally trying to block access.
Jen Not comparing to 'fashion' - next to what I or my friends wear it's expensive.
I didn't mind the price so much because I'm concerned about safety, more than anything. Plus I wear it everyday and I don't think they ever wear out. Or maybe there are reasons one would have to replace them that I am not aware of.
